Just rang the CSA for an update

suzanne108 · Mar 11th, 2010, 12:09 PM

Its been 4 weeks now so decided to see what they'd done so far.

FOB has only gone and told them he's making "voluntary payments".

He's given me £50 once - on the 1st February.

I know I've got more than some of you girls have so sorry if I'm pissing you off. Just annoying that he makes out he's a good guy, when he's an idiot.

They have contacted his work anyway for his wage details and it's gonna be backdated to 5th March

sweetlullaby · Mar 11th, 2010, 12:31 PM

Nice one

What an arsehole though

I've been seriously tempted with FOB b'day coming up to contact CSA for a b'day present

But not going to lol

suzanne108 · Mar 11th, 2010, 12:38 PM

I don't blame you....to be honest I wish FOB would sod off and I really wouldn't want his money. But I'm not seeing him once every month or so for nothing!

sweetlullaby · Mar 11th, 2010, 15:47 PM

Yeah we havn't heard from FOB or his family *touch wood* and I know if I contact CSA he'll see that as some "right" to see his son and I'll get a pile of grief.

DizzyMoo · Mar 11th, 2010, 16:05 PM

Paying towards a child gives them no rights whatso ever , As i always say you dont actually pay to see your child you pay to help bring them up!
Men are so fickle sometimes

purpledahlia · Mar 11th, 2010, 19:04 PM

hope it gets sorted, think my claim is getting sorted they rang him today and he got in touch, he said he would pay so hopefully i can get some pennies soon cos i need to stock up on 6-9 stuff!

teal · Mar 12th, 2010, 01:59 AM

That's annoying he told them he's making payments! Glad to hear they are backdating it though xx

tinkabells · Mar 12th, 2010, 05:46 AM

I've cancelled the csa, cos fob payments were gonna be £40 a month, well he can stick that up his arse, he hasnt bought anything for her before during or since, so i dont want his shit money, he can go buy himself a pigeon and hope it gets bird flu and he never catches a fish again!!! hahahahahah xxx

suzanne108 · Mar 12th, 2010, 08:37 AM

LOL....sorry laughing at your pigeon fishy thing!

Seriously though...£40?! That's rubbish. You don't want him thinking he has some sort of "hold" over her for the sake of £40 a month so I don't blame you for telling them to stick it.

I'm hoping for about £25-30 a week. Not sure exactly what his earnings are like tho. X

tinkabells · Mar 12th, 2010, 08:53 AM

Haha ya have to laugh otherwise i'd cry, fact he spends more money on his poxy pigeons and fishing, than his own daughter amazes me, so yeah he can stick it!!!

Mmmm yeah depends what his earning love, i think mine fixed it so he dont have to pay out alot, or his lied whole time bragging how much he earns and then gets feck all xxx

Mar 11th, 2010, 12:09 PM	#1
suzanne108 Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: Manchester Posts: 6,844	Just rang the CSA for an update Its been 4 weeks now so decided to see what they'd done so far. FOB has only gone and told them he's making "voluntary payments". He's given me £50 once - on the 1st February. I know I've got more than some of you girls have so sorry if I'm pissing you off. Just annoying that he makes out he's a good guy, when he's an idiot. They have contacted his work anyway for his wage details and it's gonna be backdated to 5th March

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Mar 11th, 2010, 12:31 PM	#2
sweetlullaby Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Apr 2009 Location: Uk Posts: 6,337	Nice one What an arsehole though I've been seriously tempted with FOB b'day coming up to contact CSA for a b'day present But not going to lol

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Mar 11th, 2010, 12:38 PM	#3
suzanne108 Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: Manchester Posts: 6,844	I don't blame you....to be honest I wish FOB would sod off and I really wouldn't want his money. But I'm not seeing him once every month or so for nothing!

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Mar 11th, 2010, 15:47 PM	#4
sweetlullaby Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Apr 2009 Location: Uk Posts: 6,337	Yeah we havn't heard from FOB or his family touch wood and I know if I contact CSA he'll see that as some "right" to see his son and I'll get a pile of grief.

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Mar 11th, 2010, 16:05 PM	#5
DizzyMoo Mum (Mom) Inactive Join Date: May 2009 Posts: 5,902	Paying towards a child gives them no rights whatso ever , As i always say you dont actually pay to see your child you pay to help bring them up! Men are so fickle sometimes

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Mar 11th, 2010, 19:04 PM	#6
purpledahlia Mum (Mom) BnB Elite Join Date: Apr 2009 Posts: 14,871	hope it gets sorted, think my claim is getting sorted they rang him today and he got in touch, he said he would pay so hopefully i can get some pennies soon cos i need to stock up on 6-9 stuff!

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Mar 12th, 2010, 01:59 AM	#7
teal Mum (Mom) BnB Elite Join Date: Jun 2009 Posts: 11,385	That's annoying he told them he's making payments! Glad to hear they are backdating it though xx

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Mar 12th, 2010, 05:46 AM	#8
tinkabells Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Mar 2009 Posts: 4,088	I've cancelled the csa, cos fob payments were gonna be £40 a month, well he can stick that up his arse, he hasnt bought anything for her before during or since, so i dont want his shit money, he can go buy himself a pigeon and hope it gets bird flu and he never catches a fish again!!! hahahahahah xxx

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Mar 12th, 2010, 08:37 AM	#9
suzanne108 Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: Manchester Posts: 6,844	LOL....sorry laughing at your pigeon fishy thing! Seriously though...£40?! That's rubbish. You don't want him thinking he has some sort of "hold" over her for the sake of £40 a month so I don't blame you for telling them to stick it. I'm hoping for about £25-30 a week. Not sure exactly what his earnings are like tho. X

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Mar 12th, 2010, 08:53 AM	#10
tinkabells Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Mar 2009 Posts: 4,088	Haha ya have to laugh otherwise i'd cry, fact he spends more money on his poxy pigeons and fishing, than his own daughter amazes me, so yeah he can stick it!!! Mmmm yeah depends what his earning love, i think mine fixed it so he dont have to pay out alot, or his lied whole time bragging how much he earns and then gets feck all xxx

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