Well....since I'm up bright and early with my poorly baby I thought I would update on my visit from FOBs mum, his sister (M) and his niece (K).

So if you read my other posts you'll know that I agreed to one day then she went and booked TWO nights in a hotel! I said I wasn't gonna see her two days but then decided that I'd see her a couple of hours fri and sat rather than spend the whole day with her on sat. I also felt a bit tight on M because she doesn't know whats happened and she was desperate to see Lola.

So we arranged to go out for dinner on the Friday night - she said to go somewhere with a play area for K so only places really are pub type restaurants. She was looking through the menu moaning that she didn't like chicken, is allergic to salmon, didn't feel like pasta, didn't see the point in getting fish and chips, didn't want steak because thats all they ever have for her on menus. What a fussy cow! When I said I was getting chicken she said 'well its alright for you isn't it?' Would be alright for her too if she wasn't such a fussy cow. So she went off to order and when our meals came she'd got a jacket potato with salad...looked like a side dish to me ha! So we ate, wasn't too bad, just spoke about Lola. Then we're deciding if we want dessert and she said she "couldn't possibly manage one"....pretending she eats like a bird when she clearly doesn't. I went to have a look in a display case and she was like "I'll hold Lola"....errr no I'll take her with me thank you. So me and M decides to get one and witch starts saying to M "thats your half a stone back on that you lost at weight watchers"....honestly, what a bitch! She said she was bringing M for a weekend away as she'd had a lot on her plate then starts making her feel guilty for eating!

So anyway they started to ask me about sat, said I'd see them a couple of hours because any more and Lola would get cranky ha. So arranged to take them to a park so K could feed ducks and play and just walk round with pram. So we went there...she was going on about my high blood pressure when I was pregnant saying pregnancy just does that to some people. So I said "well no I was quite stressed when I was pregnant, WASN'T I?!" Ha. Anyway she tried getting me to stay out so I said I needed to get Lola back, then she asked if I was free later on so I said no lol. So they said they'd pop round sunday - arghhhh! Couldn't think of another ezcuse so they came but only for like 45 mins just to say bye and take pics of Lola.

So yeah....doesnt sound so bad but I hated every single minute and was so relieved when they'd gone. She text saying we'd have to do it again in summer...NOOOOOOO! At least I know she isn't planning another visit til summer tho. Phew!

Best thing was....Lola was staring at me the whole time no matter who was holding her...she was like "look at nanny" but Lola refused. She obviously doesn't like her nanny witch!!! My friend came later on and Lola was all smiles for her

Oh she also said "Fob said he was playing with Lola and changed her"....which is a complete lie! What an idiot! And apparently he had brought a car seat with him so that he could take Lola out!!!!!! WTF?! he hasn't even asked me and if he had the answer would be a big fat NO!

Sorry this is long and boring....wanted to write it down so that I could remember what a brilliant time I had

Well it could be alot worse. She seems like a right stuck up cow, like the menu wasn't good enough for her haha. And if my mum turned round and said that about putting all the weight back on I woulda told her where to go lol. Aww, there not coming back for a few months what are you going to do, I know your desperate to see them again

Hope Lola feels better soon

Sounds like you had as good a weekend as me.

I admire you for sticking tou your guns. Well Done xx

I love it when Alex follows/watches me when the ex or ex family has him xxx

lol id be the same way x

Omg what a bitchy pushy cow!

Wonder what all that was about with the car seat etc and FOB ...you know I could just imagine FOB driving around with an empty car seat in his car

Well done for sticking to your guns though

Sure you dont wanna ring and invite them back at Easter?

Its a bit weird he brought a car seat. He probably had no intention of taking her anywhere but just brought it so he could tell mummy dear that he had. Where exactly do you take 2 month old babies anyway? To the park put her on a slide? Take her to the cinema? Do they not realise that all she is gonna do in a car is fall asleep?!

Awww poor lola! Hope she is better soon!

Wow! Sounds like you had a fun time!! lol. At least you didnt have to spend every hour of every day woth them i spose! That was one good thing!

And she sounds worse than a witch! What a horrible cow bag!!!

Well done for going though

xxxx

Urgh what a stuck up madam. If my mum said that to me I would tell her to f*** off! Hehe its so funny when they refuse to look at people. James refused to look at FOB last time he bothered coming so there is no chance he will be anywhere near him if he every gets off his ass to come again.

hehe, well it doesnt sound like it was too bad but not fair having to go through all that in the first place, ud thing daddy would be there too so its not so akward, mind u he cant stay in a hotel but they dont need to be doing that !! Anyway, Lola must sense that shes a false woman with false intentions... so when she comes in the summer Lola will be more prepared to deal with her falseness by screaming the place down when she touches her haha. Cant believe he bought a car seat - what a waste of money ! xxx