Why would he want a copy of her BC??

Hollys_Twinny · Mar 6th, 2010, 06:31 AM

He would be Able to have her over night, unless he's violent and there's a worry for the childs safety... He'd have to take it step by step though.. Like supervised access, then a few hours a week.. Then probably every other weekend she could stay at his.

lou_w34 · Mar 6th, 2010, 06:35 AM

Even though im breatsfeeding? As she wont take a bottle any more, so its not like i can even give her any EBM

Hollys_Twinny · Mar 6th, 2010, 06:43 AM

I'm not sure if that would change anything, court proceedings would take a while anyway. I wouldn't worry too much atm hun. If he isn't event visiting then I doubt he'll pay all that money for solicitors etc. He probably does just want to see the BC... If he really needed it, he could just go and say he's lost the original and get another for £7 at your local registry office.

lou_w34 · Mar 6th, 2010, 06:52 AM

He lives about two hours away, and i dont think they would let him anyways, he didnt want to be put on it, so he has no proof he is her dad anyways.

Hollys_Twinny · Mar 6th, 2010, 06:57 AM

Ohh rigghhht, if his name isn't down on the BC, then I'm not sure if he has any right to her, unless he proves through a DNA that he's the father, which again will take longer x

Linz88 · Mar 6th, 2010, 07:09 AM

lou_34 dont worry it would be a very long process.
you would probably end up going to court about 4 times nd on his asda wages he wouldnt be able to afford it

Linz88 · Mar 6th, 2010, 07:09 AM

oh and he probably wants proof he has a female child so that he can get a 2 bed room flat

lou_w34 · Mar 6th, 2010, 07:14 AM

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Originally Posted by Linz88

oh and he probably wants proof he has a female child so that he can get a 2 bed room flat

Thats what i was thinking, thats he wants it for some reason like that, or he has just found out that dads get two weeks paternity leave, so he's asked work if he can have it now, and he needs proof.
Hmmm i dunno

I dont think he will take it to court, as he would have to tell his parents first, but it just annoys me that he makes me worry about these things, even though i no i wont hear from him for another month or so!

xxxx

Adelaide · Mar 6th, 2010, 07:16 AM

I'm sorry i'm going to be absolutely no help here as i've never been in your situation.
But i did find this really funny
'He said it wasnt, but it was important for his career.... ummm yeah ok, you work in asda stacking carrots mate, whats next on the list? Onions? Tit.'
hehe

hope everything works out! x

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Hollys_Twinny Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Jun 2008 Location: Uk Posts: 4,231	He would be Able to have her over night, unless he's violent and there's a worry for the childs safety... He'd have to take it step by step though.. Like supervised access, then a few hours a week.. Then probably every other weekend she could stay at his.

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Mar 6th, 2010, 06:35 AM	#3
lou_w34 Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Apr 2009 Posts: 1,988	Even though im breatsfeeding? As she wont take a bottle any more, so its not like i can even give her any EBM

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Hollys_Twinny Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Jun 2008 Location: Uk Posts: 4,231	I'm not sure if that would change anything, court proceedings would take a while anyway. I wouldn't worry too much atm hun. If he isn't event visiting then I doubt he'll pay all that money for solicitors etc. He probably does just want to see the BC... If he really needed it, he could just go and say he's lost the original and get another for £7 at your local registry office.

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lou_w34 Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Apr 2009 Posts: 1,988	He lives about two hours away, and i dont think they would let him anyways, he didnt want to be put on it, so he has no proof he is her dad anyways.

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Hollys_Twinny Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Jun 2008 Location: Uk Posts: 4,231	Ohh rigghhht, if his name isn't down on the BC, then I'm not sure if he has any right to her, unless he proves through a DNA that he's the father, which again will take longer x

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Mar 6th, 2010, 07:09 AM	#7
Linz88 Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: West Brom\Bham, Uk Posts: 1,679	lou_34 dont worry it would be a very long process. you would probably end up going to court about 4 times nd on his asda wages he wouldnt be able to afford it

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Mar 6th, 2010, 07:16 AM	#10
Adelaide Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2010 Posts: 234	I'm sorry i'm going to be absolutely no help here as i've never been in your situation. But i did find this really funny 'He said it wasnt, but it was important for his career.... ummm yeah ok, you work in asda stacking carrots mate, whats next on the list? Onions? Tit.' hehe hope everything works out! x

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