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Old Mar 4th, 2010, 08:13 AM   #1
oxfairycakexo
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FOB's seriously mental ex..


I just need to rant! Idk if I'm bein OTT or not :\ Not quite sure where to post this, but seem as this jealous ex has basically ruined mine and FOB's relationship and i'm a single parent then i guess here ?!

FOB has a very jealous ex.. she has issues (no, really she does.. she's becomes suicidal and stuff on a regular basis, partly because she lost her mother a year ago).

In the last year and half she has txt threatening to kick my son out of my stomach, drown him in a bucket of water at birth, and on MSN she has wished him to drop dead only a fortnight ago and then called him a C**T (REALLY!). God knows what else she has done, I can't think atm. Oh yeah, she actually moved in to a house across the street from me and used to send her little sisters around to shout abuse through the letterbox & window so then me and LO had to move..

The thing that bugs the hell out of me is she ALWAYS turns it around to look like I'M the one hassling her.. she puts crazy statuses on facebook about me and now her cousin is even threatening to come and 'do me over' classy huh? lol! She always makes something big out of nothing, just to get attention off other people.. and then most of the time she ends up turning them on me because they don't know the truth!

Obviously i react when she says these things about my son, what mother wouldnt? But then she's even gone as far as logging her MSN convos and then CHANGING some of the text so make out that I said something I didnt!!!

I have deleted her and blocked her etc. but she still puts up statuses about me and then friends come and tell me about it.. obviously i'm going to fight my corner.. i don't know what to do?! She is a nasty piece of work, a compulsive liar and an attention seeker! She even made up a disgusting story about FOB rapeing someone and then went through a faze of saying 'You must have no dignity or even care about your son if you're with a rapeist, be careful of him around your son, you never know!' this is total crap, it's just her way of trying to make herself feel better!

I got so stressed because of her while pregnant that I ended up having to go into hospital for days at a time from 5 months onwards because it affected my son's heart so we both needed monitoring on a daily basis. Was rushed in by ambulance and almost ended up having emergency c-section twice aswell, all because my blood pressure was going sky high due to her causing me SERIOUS stress!!

Sorry for the long rant.. i just needed to get it off my chest! Don't know what good it'll do but oh well xx


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Old Mar 4th, 2010, 08:18 AM   #2
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hey dont respond to her and maybe she'll go away
if you respond your gibing her ammunition to say more
ino it hurts when she says things about your son but there only words.. shes just jealous.. ignore the crazy bitch =]

log everything and in 3 months if its stil continuing repot her to the police xx


 
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