Do you also sometimes get a bit annoyed with ladies with a OH?

donegalfairy · Mar 3rd, 2010, 07:03 AM

I do.
I see threads where they whine for nothing.
That they had to go to the store alone etc etc the list can be made long but I wont bother!

Anyone else getting annoyed at these ladies nagging?

AppleBlossom · Mar 3rd, 2010, 07:07 AM

I don't really see it as them whinging for nothing. I suppose when you're not used to being a single parent things like that don't seem trivial. The thing that does annoy me a bit is people (not necessarily on here, just in general) who complain about doing night feeds and things when their OH shares it with them because I never had any help from my ex with anything like that and I was expected to cook all the meals and do all the housework as well!

xJG30 · Mar 3rd, 2010, 08:07 AM

It doesn't really bother me tbh.. There's more important things in life that you can worry about.

frouphea · Mar 3rd, 2010, 08:24 AM

I think we are all guilty about complaining about things that aren't important in the grand scheme of things.

It does seem a little harsh to get angry at those in relationships though, I think people are entitled to talk about their relationships, and the ups and downs.

MissE007 · Mar 3rd, 2010, 09:17 AM

I don't really notice the threads but it annoys me when people I know do it. My friend is always complaining about her oh and has said loads of times things like "I know how you feel" because her boyfriend goes to work, comes home by 3pm and is sometimes "tired".

She doesn't understand being alone during the daytime because your oh has a job doesn't compare to being alone physically, emotionally and financially 24/7.

Midnight_Fairy · Mar 3rd, 2010, 09:19 AM

I think its a bit sad those that cant go anywhere without OH. People who moan when OH goes on a night out etc, but thats their problem not mine x

Janidog · Mar 3rd, 2010, 10:44 AM

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Originally Posted by donegalfairy

I do.
I see threads where they whine for nothing.
That they had to go to the store alone etc etc the list can be made long but I wont bother!

Anyone else getting annoyed at these ladies nagging?

Eer I think we have the right to vent our annoyance at our OH if we like, that is what the forum is for - you're using it to vent your frustrations then why can't we??????

Linz88 · Mar 3rd, 2010, 12:11 PM

it wouldnt say it annoys me but i think damnnnn u dnt no how lucky you are..
so what your oh told his friends..
so what your oh stayed out an hour later

Jetters · Mar 3rd, 2010, 13:03 PM

It doesn't make me angry or annoyed, but it does make me sad! I HATE feeling so alone, I'm overwhelmed with panic at how i'll cope on my own and just wish they wouldn't take it for granted so much.

What DOES make me angry is how every fricking pregnancy book/leaflet/mag I read refers to partners CONSTANTLY. Let your partner do this, take into account his feelings, yadda yadda. Never f-all about going it alone!

pinkflamingo · Mar 3rd, 2010, 16:47 PM

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Originally Posted by Janidog

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Originally Posted by donegalfairy

I do.
I see threads where they whine for nothing.
That they had to go to the store alone etc etc the list can be made long but I wont bother!

Anyone else getting annoyed at these ladies nagging?

Eer I think we have the right to vent our annoyance at our OH if we like, that is what the forum is for - you're using it to vent your frustrations then why can't we??????

Agreed!

Mar 3rd, 2010, 07:03 AM	#1
donegalfairy Pregnant (Expecting) Inactive Join Date: Feb 2010 Posts: 117	Do you also sometimes get a bit annoyed with ladies with a OH? I do. I see threads where they whine for nothing. That they had to go to the store alone etc etc the list can be made long but I wont bother! Anyone else getting annoyed at these ladies nagging?

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Mar 3rd, 2010, 07:07 AM	#2
AppleBlossom Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: Liverpool, UK Posts: 25,860	I don't really see it as them whinging for nothing. I suppose when you're not used to being a single parent things like that don't seem trivial. The thing that does annoy me a bit is people (not necessarily on here, just in general) who complain about doing night feeds and things when their OH shares it with them because I never had any help from my ex with anything like that and I was expected to cook all the meals and do all the housework as well!

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Mar 3rd, 2010, 08:07 AM	#3
xJG30 Mum (Mom) BnB Elite Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: Nottingham Posts: 18,403	It doesn't really bother me tbh.. There's more important things in life that you can worry about.

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frouphea Mum (Mom) Inactive Join Date: Feb 2010 Posts: 294	I think we are all guilty about complaining about things that aren't important in the grand scheme of things. It does seem a little harsh to get angry at those in relationships though, I think people are entitled to talk about their relationships, and the ups and downs.

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Mar 3rd, 2010, 09:17 AM	#5
MissE007 Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: UK Posts: 145	I don't really notice the threads but it annoys me when people I know do it. My friend is always complaining about her oh and has said loads of times things like "I know how you feel" because her boyfriend goes to work, comes home by 3pm and is sometimes "tired". She doesn't understand being alone during the daytime because your oh has a job doesn't compare to being alone physically, emotionally and financially 24/7.

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Mar 3rd, 2010, 09:19 AM	#6
Midnight_Fairy Other BnB Elite Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: South Coast UK Posts: 17,335	I think its a bit sad those that cant go anywhere without OH. People who moan when OH goes on a night out etc, but thats their problem not mine x

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Mar 3rd, 2010, 12:11 PM	#8
Linz88 Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: West Brom\Bham, Uk Posts: 1,679	it wouldnt say it annoys me but i think damnnnn u dnt no how lucky you are.. so what your oh told his friends.. so what your oh stayed out an hour later

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Mar 3rd, 2010, 13:03 PM	#9
Jetters Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: London Posts: 5,033	It doesn't make me angry or annoyed, but it does make me sad! I HATE feeling so alone, I'm overwhelmed with panic at how i'll cope on my own and just wish they wouldn't take it for granted so much. What DOES make me angry is how every fricking pregnancy book/leaflet/mag I read refers to partners CONSTANTLY. Let your partner do this, take into account his feelings, yadda yadda. Never f-all about going it alone!

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