even told the police

donegalfairy · Mar 2nd, 2010, 12:51 PM

I am surprised.
My baby's father even told the police (whilst he was heard for the complaint I filed against him) that he will not take responsibility for this child, as he apparently said....
I am in total shock, I mean what does his total ignorance and selfishness got to do with the complaint I made?
He must be really stressing about paying child support for him to even say that to the police?

Linz88 · Mar 3rd, 2010, 05:14 AM

why do these guys think they can make children and not support them

sleepinbeauty · Mar 3rd, 2010, 09:41 AM

If we knew the answer to that a lot of problems would get solved reeeeeeeeeal quick. lol

missmisty4 · Mar 3rd, 2010, 20:25 PM

Im very sorry to hear that!

Im in the same situation...except I knew from the get go that my ex does not and will not be involved with the baby nor pay for it. Ugh men can be sooo frustrating sometimes! I hate how they feel they don't have to take any responsibility for their actions! I hope all gets better for you dear! BIG HUGS!!!

donegalfairy · Mar 4th, 2010, 06:12 AM

Oh he will get to pay for the baby alright, we dont have volunteery childsupport here, meaning the goverment will tell him to leave DNA, if he doesnt then the police comes and gets him...
And if he leaves the country then they actually try to trace him and his moves.

sleepinbeauty · Mar 4th, 2010, 12:19 PM

Child Support is a beautiful thing. Some of them still figure out how to avoid it though...

donegalfairy · Mar 4th, 2010, 20:20 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by sleepinbeauty

Child Support is a beautiful thing. Some of them still figure out how to avoid it though...

Doubt its so easily avoided here, apparently we are one of the best countries in the world to make them pay as we got laws all around it! It is just if they would vanish into thin air they can avoid it!

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donegalfairy Pregnant (Expecting) Inactive Join Date: Feb 2010 Posts: 117	even told the police I am surprised. My baby's father even told the police (whilst he was heard for the complaint I filed against him) that he will not take responsibility for this child, as he apparently said.... I am in total shock, I mean what does his total ignorance and selfishness got to do with the complaint I made? He must be really stressing about paying child support for him to even say that to the police?

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Linz88 Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: West Brom\Bham, Uk Posts: 1,679	why do these guys think they can make children and not support them

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missmisty4 Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: Bay Area, Ca Posts: 111	Im very sorry to hear that! Im in the same situation...except I knew from the get go that my ex does not and will not be involved with the baby nor pay for it. Ugh men can be sooo frustrating sometimes! I hate how they feel they don't have to take any responsibility for their actions! I hope all gets better for you dear! BIG HUGS!!!

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Mar 4th, 2010, 06:12 AM	#5
donegalfairy Pregnant (Expecting) Inactive Join Date: Feb 2010 Posts: 117	Oh he will get to pay for the baby alright, we dont have volunteery childsupport here, meaning the goverment will tell him to leave DNA, if he doesnt then the police comes and gets him... And if he leaves the country then they actually try to trace him and his moves.

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