What a suprise yawn

expecting09 · Mar 1st, 2010, 16:57 PM

Well as you all know, I sent a letter to FOB's parents telling them abit about Kacie, and they rang me back the day they got it saying thanks and that they'll most probably be down at some point to meet her. They said they'll ring me back after that weekend once they sat down and discussed it all. They seemed well enthusiastic.

But it's now been a month, and I've heard NOTHING. I know I did the right thing sending it, but why would they ring me all excited and then not bother ringing me back. They could of atleast have the decency to ring me and say that they spoke about everything and decided they'd leave us be

I've decided I'm definatly going to go to the CSA now, whether FOB has a job yet or not. I think if I did go to them he'd have to tell them when he does get a job

He shouldn't be getting away with not paying for his daughter

Linz88 · Mar 1st, 2010, 19:39 PM

thats rude that they didnnt ring bk.. and yess go to the csa xx

donegalfairy · Mar 1st, 2010, 19:42 PM

Maybe they feel like they are bothering you?
I dont know but thats what some people have said to me when they havent been in touch...

suzanne108 · Mar 1st, 2010, 20:12 PM

Aww, at least you tried and you can always say that to your daughter when she's older

Definitely give the CSA a try xx

expecting09 · Mar 2nd, 2010, 05:43 AM

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Originally Posted by donegalfairy

Maybe they feel like they are bothering you?
I dont know but thats what some people have said to me when they havent been in touch...

I doubt it, if they felt like they were going to be bothering me they wouldn't of said they'd ring me back after they had talked everything through. It's one thing not contacting again, but another when they said they would.

Does anyone know if CSA will keep him on record so he'll have to notify them when he gets a job?

hypnorm · Mar 2nd, 2010, 05:58 AM

i would phone them back and just ask them out right if they are interested or not.
Some people are nervous about phoning, do they know you well?
Give them a 2nd chance but if they blow it then tough on them.
I though csa make fathers pay £5 a month? whether they are working or not or they start to back date it.

expecting09 · Mar 2nd, 2010, 06:27 AM

I think thats just if there on benefits? Not sure. FOB doesn't have any income, he only goes to college part time

I would of rang them if I had there number lol. I was thinking about contacting FOB to ask him what his parents discussed, but thats a no go idea. They know me quite well, so I don't think they would be all that nervous. I'm not going to contact them again, I broke the ice and made first contact, I tried. I'll give them another month or 2 to get in touch again, after that they can forget it. I've already given them a month to phone back or even email me

xJG30 · Mar 2nd, 2010, 06:55 AM

Have to agree with Hypnorm, I'd give them a 2nd chance and see what happens.

Definitely take FOB To CSA though.

lou_w34 · Mar 2nd, 2010, 09:00 AM

Their loss completlety!
You dont need them

At least you can always say you tried!

xxx

teal · Mar 2nd, 2010, 09:19 AM

I agree with lou. You tried and they'll be the ones missing out

xx

Mar 1st, 2010, 16:57 PM	#1
expecting09 Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: May 2009 Location: Cornwall Posts: 1,047	What a suprise yawn Well as you all know, I sent a letter to FOB's parents telling them abit about Kacie, and they rang me back the day they got it saying thanks and that they'll most probably be down at some point to meet her. They said they'll ring me back after that weekend once they sat down and discussed it all. They seemed well enthusiastic. But it's now been a month, and I've heard NOTHING. I know I did the right thing sending it, but why would they ring me all excited and then not bother ringing me back. They could of atleast have the decency to ring me and say that they spoke about everything and decided they'd leave us be I've decided I'm definatly going to go to the CSA now, whether FOB has a job yet or not. I think if I did go to them he'd have to tell them when he does get a job He shouldn't be getting away with not paying for his daughter

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Mar 1st, 2010, 19:39 PM	#2
Linz88 Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: West Brom\Bham, Uk Posts: 1,679	thats rude that they didnnt ring bk.. and yess go to the csa xx

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Mar 1st, 2010, 19:42 PM	#3
donegalfairy Pregnant (Expecting) Inactive Join Date: Feb 2010 Posts: 117	Maybe they feel like they are bothering you? I dont know but thats what some people have said to me when they havent been in touch...

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Mar 1st, 2010, 20:12 PM	#4
suzanne108 Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: Manchester Posts: 6,844	Aww, at least you tried and you can always say that to your daughter when she's older Definitely give the CSA a try xx

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Mar 2nd, 2010, 05:58 AM	#6
hypnorm Pregnant (Expecting) BnB Addict Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Stroud, Gloucester Posts: 4,505	i would phone them back and just ask them out right if they are interested or not. Some people are nervous about phoning, do they know you well? Give them a 2nd chance but if they blow it then tough on them. I though csa make fathers pay £5 a month? whether they are working or not or they start to back date it.

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Mar 2nd, 2010, 06:27 AM	#7
expecting09 Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: May 2009 Location: Cornwall Posts: 1,047	I think thats just if there on benefits? Not sure. FOB doesn't have any income, he only goes to college part time I would of rang them if I had there number lol. I was thinking about contacting FOB to ask him what his parents discussed, but thats a no go idea. They know me quite well, so I don't think they would be all that nervous. I'm not going to contact them again, I broke the ice and made first contact, I tried. I'll give them another month or 2 to get in touch again, after that they can forget it. I've already given them a month to phone back or even email me

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Mar 2nd, 2010, 06:55 AM	#8
xJG30 Mum (Mom) BnB Elite Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: Nottingham Posts: 18,400	Have to agree with Hypnorm, I'd give them a 2nd chance and see what happens. Definitely take FOB To CSA though.

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Mar 2nd, 2010, 09:00 AM	#9
lou_w34 Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Apr 2009 Posts: 1,987	Their loss completlety! You dont need them At least you can always say you tried! xxx

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Mar 2nd, 2010, 09:19 AM	#10
teal Mum (Mom) BnB Elite Join Date: Jun 2009 Posts: 11,382	I agree with lou. You tried and they'll be the ones missing out xx

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