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Old Feb 24th, 2010, 11:02 AM   #1
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Old Feb 24th, 2010, 11:20 AM   #2
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Aww Lou How many times are you gonna let him walk all over you. He's full of empty promises time after time. I hope you gave him an ear full for not coming round. He really needs to buck up his ideas big time! xx


 
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Old Feb 24th, 2010, 11:28 AM   #3
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How many chances has he had now? I would consider giving him an ultimatum or cutting him off. He cant keep doing this to you and to scarlett! As she gets older she will become more aware, Dont get yourself into debt because of his idiocy,


 
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Old Feb 24th, 2010, 12:11 PM   #4
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I agree that you can't keep letting him do this to you and Scarlett
I hope you're ok xx


 
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Old Feb 24th, 2010, 12:18 PM   #5
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Hun he's walking all over you. Thats a day wasted and money wasted because of a stupid ignorant BLLLLEEEEEEEEEPPPPPP!!!

He needs a serious wake up call. Could your mum take Scarlett for a while. Ring him and tell him to get his arse over to your house right away otherwise he'll not see scarlett ever again. That might make him come over. Then BAWL him out! Tell him that he messes you and scarlett about ONCE more and thats it. You will change your number etc and ignore him and cut all contact. A slap across the face wouldn't go amiss either (dont actually you could get done for assault no matter how tempting it is lmao)

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Old Feb 24th, 2010, 12:26 PM   #6
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Its been the third time hes been a no show now, he hasnt seen her since she was 12 days old.

He's not aloud in my house, im living with my parents, and my dad would tear his head off if he did.... so then again maybe i should let him come over lol

Yeah im ok, just feel weird that someone could do this to thier own child, also feel a tad stupid for basically just bending over backwards to help him meet and get to no scarlett just to have it thrown back in my face.

Im may just change my number now, theres no talking to him really!

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Old Feb 24th, 2010, 12:27 PM   #7
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Oh and i just noticed! Todays the day teal!!!! Yay! Happy due date to you!! xx


 
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Old Feb 24th, 2010, 12:49 PM   #8
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hun. I think an ultimatum is in order to. He cant keep doing this, its not fair. Youve given him enough chances now x


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Old Feb 24th, 2010, 12:51 PM   #9
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Maybe get him to meet you somewhere? You need to bawl him out face to face show him your deadly serious! He cant keep messing you's about! Either go for one last chance or just tell him thats it you've blown it dont ever contact me again Some men really are complete tossers! ( change tossers to something extremly rude lol)

Happy due date Teal xx


 
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Old Feb 24th, 2010, 12:56 PM   #10
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Thanks lou and sweetlullaby No sign of him yet!

You shouldn't feel stupid for trying to get him involved in Scarletts life. I agree that it sounds like a good idea to give him one last chance to make sure he understands you're serious that he can't mess you both around or if he won't listen just cut contact. You've done everything you can do xx


 
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