Am joining you girls - Page 2

aliss · Feb 15th, 2010, 21:48 PM

Oh no hun, I was so shocked to see your name on this

I will be around if you need a shoulder, I'm not a single parent, but you are my fitness buddy!

polomaplus3 · Feb 16th, 2010, 03:03 AM

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Originally Posted by rafwife

My valentines this year included a separation from my husband. 5 years down the pan.

I've made many a thread on BnB about how rocky its been in the last two years, but tried to keep everything smoothed over recently. Enough was enough though.

Hope its ok to join you ladies. I'll need a shoulder or two while I house hunt and move on.

Hey there
Dont know if you remember me from Dec 08 mummies? (was poloma)
Anyhoo you have my full sympathy and understanding hun and any support I can offer you

I split from ex when Ollie was just 8 weeks old

I moved back home to be near my parents (well had nowhere else to go!) and their support has been invaluble to me and the kids. We have been able to settle into our new home and my eldest has started school (my old primary!)
I dont think I could have done it without their help.
Hope you are as ok as you can be, it sounds like this has been on the cards for a while now.
If Niamh's dad drives then let him come to you (where ever you may be) Do what you feel is right for you and your lil one hun. Dont struggle to accomodate others at the cost of your happiness.

expecting09 · Feb 16th, 2010, 04:34 AM

I agree with the last post. If you've got nothing keeping you around there then I would move to be with your family, they will be able to help so much, and Niamh's dad should travel to see her. Only you know whats best to do. Sorry don't really know about the estate agent thing

nievesmama · Feb 16th, 2010, 04:38 AM

Huge

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I agree, i moved to be nearer my parents for support. Good luck with the house hunting x

Eoz · Feb 16th, 2010, 04:49 AM

Oh Nic that is a shock hun.I know you 2 have had ups n downs but you always worked at it.When Mark was ill I thought that bought you closer.I am so sorry darling.Ever need a friend you know where I am.Hugs to you and your precious little girl xxxxxxx

Aidedhoney · Feb 16th, 2010, 04:54 AM

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Originally Posted by rafwife

Have a question for you girls.....

When you split with your OHs, did any of you move away? I'm living in a town that the RAF posted us to last year, but my family lives a couple of hours away. I find the area ok, and have friends here but have no real reason to stay other than to keep things convenient for Niamh seeing her Dad.

Don't really know what to do though.

Plus I don't drive, so when house hunting would estate agents take me to the properties? Have never done this before :S

Hello hun

I spilt with my OH at end of Jan, like you i am having too move away, i live in a house his father owns, but all my friends and family are 2 hours away. I moved 2 years ago to be with my ex giving up my flat and half decent job.

Sady i cant afford to buy so i have had to arrange to move back in with my parents while awaiting council housing.
I move once term finishes

I did think about staying down here but i have no one down here apart from the ex and his family so pointless really.

I know how your feeling big hugs

teal · Feb 16th, 2010, 06:48 AM

I'm so sorry. Sending you lots of hugs

xx

AppleBlossom · Feb 16th, 2010, 06:51 AM

Sorry to hear this

I know you'd been having your ups and downs but thought you had figured things out. Hope you're ok x

Pyrrhic · Feb 16th, 2010, 10:24 AM

Thanks for the posts and PM girls

purpledahlia · Feb 16th, 2010, 10:31 AM

I agree i think moving to be near your family would be wise, he can travel to you! not sure about the estate agents, x

Feb 15th, 2010, 21:48 PM	#11
aliss AutoSignup (SAAB) BnB Elite Join Date: Sep 2009 Location: Québec Posts: 14,778	Oh no hun, I was so shocked to see your name on this I will be around if you need a shoulder, I'm not a single parent, but you are my fitness buddy!

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expecting09 Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: May 2009 Location: Cornwall Posts: 1,047	I agree with the last post. If you've got nothing keeping you around there then I would move to be with your family, they will be able to help so much, and Niamh's dad should travel to see her. Only you know whats best to do. Sorry don't really know about the estate agent thing

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Feb 16th, 2010, 04:38 AM	#14
nievesmama Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Apr 2009 Location: Far. far away Posts: 601	Huge . I agree, i moved to be nearer my parents for support. Good luck with the house hunting x

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Feb 16th, 2010, 04:49 AM	#15
Eoz Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: Oxfordshire Posts: 5,834	Oh Nic that is a shock hun.I know you 2 have had ups n downs but you always worked at it.When Mark was ill I thought that bought you closer.I am so sorry darling.Ever need a friend you know where I am.Hugs to you and your precious little girl xxxxxxx

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Feb 16th, 2010, 06:48 AM	#17
teal Mum (Mom) BnB Elite Join Date: Jun 2009 Posts: 11,385	I'm so sorry. Sending you lots of hugs xx

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Feb 16th, 2010, 06:51 AM	#18
AppleBlossom Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: Liverpool, UK Posts: 25,860	Sorry to hear this I know you'd been having your ups and downs but thought you had figured things out. Hope you're ok x

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Feb 16th, 2010, 10:24 AM	#19
Pyrrhic Mum (Mom) BnB Elite Join Date: Mar 2008 Posts: 14,567	Thanks for the posts and PM girls

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Feb 16th, 2010, 10:31 AM	#20
purpledahlia Mum (Mom) BnB Elite Join Date: Apr 2009 Posts: 14,871	I agree i think moving to be near your family would be wise, he can travel to you! not sure about the estate agents, x

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