Well, I didnt think I'd be joining the single mummies club...

andbabymakes3 · Jan 29th, 2010, 13:59 PM

but it would appear I am.

Things gone well and truly tits up with my other half, although if I'm being honest its been rocky for a while. Its all kind of come to a head recently, and we have both realised that its not working.

We both grew up with parents who only stayed together 'for the sake of the kids', and we've agreed that its our job as parents to let Holly grow up surrounded by people in healthy, loving, stable relationships - even if that means us being apart.

We're trying to see if we can make it work living in the same house, just for the time being, for Holly's sake. Neither one of us wants to miss out on anything with her, and I'm not prepared to let her stay away from me for the night, so we're kind of in limbo. We're both self employed and work from home, so have to help eachother out with childcare.

Its just such a mess. And so sad. I really love him, and I so wanted us to be a little family. Part of me is hoping that we will get back together, but I dont know.

I need a hug

lou_w34 · Jan 29th, 2010, 14:37 PM

Awww im sorry!

I hope things work out the way you want them too! If they dont though, i think in the long run it will be better to live apart, you can never move on if your both still under each noses.

littlekitten8 · Jan 29th, 2010, 15:27 PM

Oh hun I'm sorry. I hope things work out how you want them to. Massive hugs for you hun.

Aidedhoney · Jan 29th, 2010, 16:06 PM

Big hugs honey, i am in the same boat as you.............its crap

lauramarie · Jan 29th, 2010, 16:32 PM

i really hope it works out for you, it's good that you split amicably and are doing whats best for your daughter, maybe a wee time apart will help

honey08 · Jan 29th, 2010, 16:33 PM

massive hugs

im in the exact same bout

sweetlullaby · Jan 29th, 2010, 17:13 PM

Massive hugs

xx

purpledahlia · Jan 29th, 2010, 18:03 PM

It sounds like there is a chance things could possibly be fixed... i hope it does for you, We're always here if you wanna rant x

nievesmama · Jan 30th, 2010, 04:19 AM

Huge

. I hope it all works out ok for you xx

Jan 29th, 2010, 13:59 PM	#1
andbabymakes3 Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2009 Location: Southsea Posts: 1,681	Well, I didnt think I'd be joining the single mummies club... but it would appear I am. Things gone well and truly tits up with my other half, although if I'm being honest its been rocky for a while. Its all kind of come to a head recently, and we have both realised that its not working. We both grew up with parents who only stayed together 'for the sake of the kids', and we've agreed that its our job as parents to let Holly grow up surrounded by people in healthy, loving, stable relationships - even if that means us being apart. We're trying to see if we can make it work living in the same house, just for the time being, for Holly's sake. Neither one of us wants to miss out on anything with her, and I'm not prepared to let her stay away from me for the night, so we're kind of in limbo. We're both self employed and work from home, so have to help eachother out with childcare. Its just such a mess. And so sad. I really love him, and I so wanted us to be a little family. Part of me is hoping that we will get back together, but I dont know. I need a hug

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Jan 29th, 2010, 14:37 PM	#2
lou_w34 Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Apr 2009 Posts: 1,988	Awww im sorry! I hope things work out the way you want them too! If they dont though, i think in the long run it will be better to live apart, you can never move on if your both still under each noses.

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Jan 29th, 2010, 15:27 PM	#3
littlekitten8 Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: Bristol Posts: 2,298	Oh hun I'm sorry. I hope things work out how you want them to. Massive hugs for you hun.

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Jan 29th, 2010, 16:06 PM	#4
Aidedhoney Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2009 Location: Scotland Posts: 2,444	Big hugs honey, i am in the same boat as you.............its crap

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Jan 29th, 2010, 16:32 PM	#5
lauramarie Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Feb 2009 Location: scotland Posts: 126	i really hope it works out for you, it's good that you split amicably and are doing whats best for your daughter, maybe a wee time apart will help

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Jan 29th, 2010, 16:33 PM	#6
honey08 Pregnant (Expecting) BnB Spammer Elite Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: north yorkshire,uk Posts: 28,682	massive hugs im in the exact same bout

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Jan 29th, 2010, 17:13 PM	#7
sweetlullaby Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Apr 2009 Location: Uk Posts: 6,338	Massive hugs xx

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Jan 29th, 2010, 18:03 PM	#8
purpledahlia Mum (Mom) BnB Elite Join Date: Apr 2009 Posts: 14,871	It sounds like there is a chance things could possibly be fixed... i hope it does for you, We're always here if you wanna rant x

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Jan 30th, 2010, 04:19 AM	#9
nievesmama Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Apr 2009 Location: Far. far away Posts: 601	Huge . I hope it all works out ok for you xx

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