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Old Jan 29th, 2010, 13:59 PM   #1
andbabymakes3
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Well, I didnt think I'd be joining the single mummies club...


but it would appear I am.

Things gone well and truly tits up with my other half, although if I'm being honest its been rocky for a while. Its all kind of come to a head recently, and we have both realised that its not working.

We both grew up with parents who only stayed together 'for the sake of the kids', and we've agreed that its our job as parents to let Holly grow up surrounded by people in healthy, loving, stable relationships - even if that means us being apart.

We're trying to see if we can make it work living in the same house, just for the time being, for Holly's sake. Neither one of us wants to miss out on anything with her, and I'm not prepared to let her stay away from me for the night, so we're kind of in limbo. We're both self employed and work from home, so have to help eachother out with childcare.

Its just such a mess. And so sad. I really love him, and I so wanted us to be a little family. Part of me is hoping that we will get back together, but I dont know.

I need a hug


 
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Old Jan 29th, 2010, 14:37 PM   #2
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Awww im sorry!

I hope things work out the way you want them too! If they dont though, i think in the long run it will be better to live apart, you can never move on if your both still under each noses.



 
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Old Jan 29th, 2010, 15:27 PM   #3
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Oh hun I'm sorry. I hope things work out how you want them to. Massive hugs for you hun.


 
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Old Jan 29th, 2010, 16:06 PM   #4
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Big hugs honey, i am in the same boat as you.............its crap


 
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Old Jan 29th, 2010, 16:32 PM   #5
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i really hope it works out for you, it's good that you split amicably and are doing whats best for your daughter, maybe a wee time apart will help


 
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Old Jan 29th, 2010, 16:33 PM   #6
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massive hugs

im in the exact same bout


 
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Old Jan 29th, 2010, 17:13 PM   #7
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Massive hugs xx


 
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Old Jan 29th, 2010, 18:03 PM   #8
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It sounds like there is a chance things could possibly be fixed... i hope it does for you, We're always here if you wanna rant x


 
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Old Jan 30th, 2010, 04:19 AM   #9
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Huge . I hope it all works out ok for you xx


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