Made my decision. Leaving OH - Page 3

littlekitten8 · Jan 14th, 2010, 17:37 PM

Its going ok. I've got to go to the housing place tomorrow and register for housing. The phone call went as expected and basically consisted of:

FOB - I'm so sorry. I miss you. I love you so much. I want you back. I can't live without you.

Me - You shoved me into a wall in front of your 3 year old.

FOB - I didn't mean it. I was just trying to stop you cos you were so upset.

Me - It doesn't matter whether you meant to or not, you still did it.

Round and round and round blah blah blah!

sweetlullaby · Jan 14th, 2010, 17:58 PM

Just ignore him.he cant slam you into a wall infront of your LO's and expect you to forgive him !

Glad your getting sorted with housing etc

hope you get housed fairly quickly! xx

littlekitten8 · Jan 14th, 2010, 19:16 PM

Thanks. The 3 year old is his son from a previous relationship. Not that it makes any difference. I can't bloody sleep tonight grr.

pip holder · Jan 14th, 2010, 21:05 PM

Sorry to hear you and James are going through this LK

Look after you both, let me know if I can do anything - sorry no advice re housing though

starbucks101 · Jan 15th, 2010, 04:49 AM

is his 3yr old back with its mum now?

Glad you and James are out safe!

littlekitten8 · Jan 15th, 2010, 06:11 AM

Yeah he lives with his mum and stays with his dad every other week for 2 days.

Gwizz · Jan 15th, 2010, 10:16 AM

sorry to hear how things have turned, hope you get it all sorted. x

sleepinbeauty · Jan 22nd, 2010, 10:16 AM

Didn't want to read and run...

You did the right thing. There are a few women I know that aren't as strong as you are and are living in their own personal hell because of it. If your baby could speak, he would thank you too.

Jan 14th, 2010, 17:37 PM	#21
littlekitten8 Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: Bristol Posts: 2,298	Its going ok. I've got to go to the housing place tomorrow and register for housing. The phone call went as expected and basically consisted of: FOB - I'm so sorry. I miss you. I love you so much. I want you back. I can't live without you. Me - You shoved me into a wall in front of your 3 year old. FOB - I didn't mean it. I was just trying to stop you cos you were so upset. Me - It doesn't matter whether you meant to or not, you still did it. Round and round and round blah blah blah!

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Jan 14th, 2010, 17:58 PM	#22
sweetlullaby Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Apr 2009 Location: Uk Posts: 6,338	Just ignore him.he cant slam you into a wall infront of your LO's and expect you to forgive him ! Glad your getting sorted with housing etc hope you get housed fairly quickly! xx

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Jan 14th, 2010, 19:16 PM	#23
littlekitten8 Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: Bristol Posts: 2,298	Thanks. The 3 year old is his son from a previous relationship. Not that it makes any difference. I can't bloody sleep tonight grr.

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Jan 14th, 2010, 21:05 PM	#24
pip holder Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2009 Posts: 1,908	Sorry to hear you and James are going through this LK Look after you both, let me know if I can do anything - sorry no advice re housing though

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Jan 15th, 2010, 04:49 AM	#25
starbucks101 Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: Norfolk Posts: 1,033	is his 3yr old back with its mum now? Glad you and James are out safe!

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Jan 15th, 2010, 06:11 AM	#26
littlekitten8 Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: Bristol Posts: 2,298	Yeah he lives with his mum and stays with his dad every other week for 2 days.

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Jan 15th, 2010, 10:16 AM	#27
Gwizz Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Jun 2008 Location: Staffordshire Posts: 8,998	sorry to hear how things have turned, hope you get it all sorted. x

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Jan 22nd, 2010, 10:16 AM	#28
sleepinbeauty Waiting To Try (WTT) BnB Addict Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: NY, USA Posts: 3,298	Didn't want to read and run... You did the right thing. There are a few women I know that aren't as strong as you are and are living in their own personal hell because of it. If your baby could speak, he would thank you too.

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