Made my decision. Leaving OH - Page 2

sweetlullaby · Jan 13th, 2010, 10:39 AM

Good Good

hope you get all sorted out xx

expecting09 · Jan 13th, 2010, 10:41 AM

Oh hun, glad your getting out of there

The girls are right, go to your CAB and they can go through EVERYTHING with you. Are you going to stay at your parents until you are housed? Go to your local housing assosiation and tell them everything that has happened, and you should get somehwere pretty quick, then phone your local council for housing benefit/council tax benefit forms. Phone the tax credits people to them your change of cicrumstances because I'm guessing you already get child tax credits of some sort? The jobcenter will sort out your income support.. I think you can apply for it by phone, then have to go into the jobcenter to go through your application. Umm.. I think thats it. You can PM if you wanna ask about anything

Your so strong!! It will be much better for you and James to get away from all that crap xx

Mumof42009 · Jan 13th, 2010, 10:45 AM

Oh hun im sorry its come to this for you both

your better off without him the directgov website is a good one for you to look at when you can. Good luck xx

littlekitten8 · Jan 13th, 2010, 10:52 AM

Thanks for the support guys. Have been on directgov website. Staying with my sister for a few days and then not really sure. Going to go down to the CAB tomorrow and try to sort something out.

tinkabells · Jan 13th, 2010, 13:34 PM

Hiya,
Yeah you have made the right desicion, dunno abou your area, but with mine, you can go along to your local council and tell them your situation, they have to house you, will prob put you in a b&b or if you dont fancy that, you can then also go on your council website and apply online for your benefits and it will tell you what your intilted to
But good luck xxx

littlekitten8 · Jan 13th, 2010, 13:39 PM

Thanks. I am hoping that I will get housed pretty quickly cos there is quite alot of housing in the area as most people don't wanna live there cos of it not being close to the centre. But its where most of my family are so it doesn't bother me.

nievesmama · Jan 13th, 2010, 15:06 PM

hun. I think youve definately made the right decision. I hope you and LO are ok, and good luck. Hope you get something sorted soon x

littlekitten8 · Jan 14th, 2010, 04:50 AM

Morning girls. Well we are safely at my parents house. OH was on the phone about a million times last night crying saying he was going to kill himself cos he hated himself for what he had done and couldn't live without me. Got him to phone his mum and went to bed. Then he woke me, my mum and James up at 12.45 calling cos he had just realised I had taken all of the clothes and that I wasn't ever planning on coming back. Duh I thought I had made that pretty clear. Managed to get back to sleep then and he has finally listened to me and not phoned again. He is going to phone this afternoon aparantly.

lou_w34 · Jan 14th, 2010, 05:49 AM

Im glad your both safe

I hope the phone call goes ok late!

xx

tinkabells · Jan 14th, 2010, 17:19 PM

Hows everything going now? xxx

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sweetlullaby Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Apr 2009 Location: Uk Posts: 6,338	Good Good hope you get all sorted out xx

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expecting09 Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: May 2009 Location: Cornwall Posts: 1,047	Oh hun, glad your getting out of there The girls are right, go to your CAB and they can go through EVERYTHING with you. Are you going to stay at your parents until you are housed? Go to your local housing assosiation and tell them everything that has happened, and you should get somehwere pretty quick, then phone your local council for housing benefit/council tax benefit forms. Phone the tax credits people to them your change of cicrumstances because I'm guessing you already get child tax credits of some sort? The jobcenter will sort out your income support.. I think you can apply for it by phone, then have to go into the jobcenter to go through your application. Umm.. I think thats it. You can PM if you wanna ask about anything Your so strong!! It will be much better for you and James to get away from all that crap xx

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Mumof42009 Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Feb 2009 Location: Somewhere over the rainbow Posts: 3,668	Oh hun im sorry its come to this for you both your better off without him the directgov website is a good one for you to look at when you can. Good luck xx

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littlekitten8 Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: Bristol Posts: 2,298	Thanks for the support guys. Have been on directgov website. Staying with my sister for a few days and then not really sure. Going to go down to the CAB tomorrow and try to sort something out.

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tinkabells Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Mar 2009 Posts: 4,088	Hiya, Yeah you have made the right desicion, dunno abou your area, but with mine, you can go along to your local council and tell them your situation, they have to house you, will prob put you in a b&b or if you dont fancy that, you can then also go on your council website and apply online for your benefits and it will tell you what your intilted to But good luck xxx

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littlekitten8 Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: Bristol Posts: 2,298	Thanks. I am hoping that I will get housed pretty quickly cos there is quite alot of housing in the area as most people don't wanna live there cos of it not being close to the centre. But its where most of my family are so it doesn't bother me.

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nievesmama Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Apr 2009 Location: Far. far away Posts: 601	hun. I think youve definately made the right decision. I hope you and LO are ok, and good luck. Hope you get something sorted soon x

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littlekitten8 Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: Bristol Posts: 2,298	Morning girls. Well we are safely at my parents house. OH was on the phone about a million times last night crying saying he was going to kill himself cos he hated himself for what he had done and couldn't live without me. Got him to phone his mum and went to bed. Then he woke me, my mum and James up at 12.45 calling cos he had just realised I had taken all of the clothes and that I wasn't ever planning on coming back. Duh I thought I had made that pretty clear. Managed to get back to sleep then and he has finally listened to me and not phoned again. He is going to phone this afternoon aparantly.

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lou_w34 Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Apr 2009 Posts: 1,988	Im glad your both safe I hope the phone call goes ok late! xx

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tinkabells Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Mar 2009 Posts: 4,088	Hows everything going now? xxx

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