Aaaaaaaarrrrrgggghhhhh!!!!

louise85 · Dec 30th, 2009, 08:02 AM

Sorry this may be a longish one!!

Fob finally got in touch last week after nothing for about 8weeks, saying he was sorry and he does want to be involved, hes just scared, hope I can forgive him, acting all interested etc. He said he was gonna come see me this week (he lives about an hour away) He asked me to send him the scan pics, which I did, and said if I wanted him to be at the next scan he will be there.

Anyways I was curious as to why he wanted to see me (I still have feelings for him...stupid I know) So a couple days ago I asked him, his reply...."I just wanted to see how u are but forget it"

I've text him and now he's decided he's not coming and can't come to scan next week!

Was I wrong to ask why he wanted to see me??? What do you all make of this??

I'm so confused and it doesn't help that I still love him

xxx

sweetlullaby · Dec 30th, 2009, 10:09 AM

Im not sure but i think you have a right to know why he wanted to come see you type thing so there was nothing wrong with you asking. I would personally tell him that he cant mess you around and that you arnt gonna take it with him saying il come to scans etc then changing his mind and saying i cant go or forget it.

Not sure what to make of it but sounds a bit as if guilt got the better of him and he decided to apologise/make an effort and now he's running scared again type thing as the scan gets closer...maybe its too "real" for him and hasnt sunk in yet. Im not sure but I would try not to worry about it etc maybe send him a text message saying if you change your mind the scan is on "day of week" at "time" and your welcome to come if you want il leave it up to you. And then just wait and see.

louise85 · Dec 30th, 2009, 14:08 PM

Bit of an update, he's just told me he's going to work abroad for over a year!!!!

I asked him why he said he wanted to be involved and he said I do want to be involved but how can I be!! WTF!!!

Why get in touch with me last week sayin all that if he knew he was fucking off??!!!

I'm so pissed off again!!!!!

Yep I think the guilt did get to him, I just don't get why he said all that and now this!!

I don't even know if it's true or not or just another excuse!

xx

Dec 30th, 2009, 08:02 AM	#1
louise85 Pregnant (Expecting) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: Birmingham Posts: 1,377	Aaaaaaaarrrrrgggghhhhh!!!! Sorry this may be a longish one!! Fob finally got in touch last week after nothing for about 8weeks, saying he was sorry and he does want to be involved, hes just scared, hope I can forgive him, acting all interested etc. He said he was gonna come see me this week (he lives about an hour away) He asked me to send him the scan pics, which I did, and said if I wanted him to be at the next scan he will be there. Anyways I was curious as to why he wanted to see me (I still have feelings for him...stupid I know) So a couple days ago I asked him, his reply...."I just wanted to see how u are but forget it" I've text him and now he's decided he's not coming and can't come to scan next week! Was I wrong to ask why he wanted to see me??? What do you all make of this?? I'm so confused and it doesn't help that I still love him xxx

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Dec 30th, 2009, 10:09 AM	#2
sweetlullaby Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Apr 2009 Location: Uk Posts: 6,338	Im not sure but i think you have a right to know why he wanted to come see you type thing so there was nothing wrong with you asking. I would personally tell him that he cant mess you around and that you arnt gonna take it with him saying il come to scans etc then changing his mind and saying i cant go or forget it. Not sure what to make of it but sounds a bit as if guilt got the better of him and he decided to apologise/make an effort and now he's running scared again type thing as the scan gets closer...maybe its too "real" for him and hasnt sunk in yet. Im not sure but I would try not to worry about it etc maybe send him a text message saying if you change your mind the scan is on "day of week" at "time" and your welcome to come if you want il leave it up to you. And then just wait and see.

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Dec 30th, 2009, 14:08 PM	#3
louise85 Pregnant (Expecting) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: Birmingham Posts: 1,377	Bit of an update, he's just told me he's going to work abroad for over a year!!!! I asked him why he said he wanted to be involved and he said I do want to be involved but how can I be!! WTF!!! Why get in touch with me last week sayin all that if he knew he was fucking off??!!! I'm so pissed off again!!!!! Yep I think the guilt did get to him, I just don't get why he said all that and now this!! I don't even know if it's true or not or just another excuse! xx

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