Boiling point ex's 18yrold daughter called bub a brat! - Page 2

nievesmama · Jan 4th, 2010, 03:37 AM

I have to agree with most of the ladies on here. She was lashing out, as you said she said it when you told her you were expecting. I think it may have hit home that her mum and dad were really over, lets face it most kids harbour a wish for split parents to reunite.
I can understand how upset you are, what with hormones and the need to defend your baby, but things are said in the heat of the moment, and teenage girls are awful for saying stuff that they dont mean but is said for the shock impact.
Be the bigger person . Is she close to her dad?
Just asking as she could feel threatened that bubs will take his attention once born.
Hope it goes ok hun xx

rewizz · Jan 4th, 2010, 04:27 AM

well thanks girli's i have taken all ur advice on board and to be fair to his daughter.. she has conntacted my 12yr old on face book asking how we all are which to be honest is more than her dad has done !!!!
she has sent a friend request on fb for myself .. which i have declined as this is where it all started .. However i have sent her a personal message with my email and mobile no ... This way she can contact me direct...
Now i will wait and see the outcome ...
I was lashing out i guess and as her dad is the real one that is pissing me off!!!!
I still feel chelsea needs to accept that what her and her mom did was extremley hurtful and apologise at some point ...
thanks again ... all

Jan 4th, 2010, 03:37 AM	#11
nievesmama Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Apr 2009 Location: Far. far away Posts: 601	I have to agree with most of the ladies on here. She was lashing out, as you said she said it when you told her you were expecting. I think it may have hit home that her mum and dad were really over, lets face it most kids harbour a wish for split parents to reunite. I can understand how upset you are, what with hormones and the need to defend your baby, but things are said in the heat of the moment, and teenage girls are awful for saying stuff that they dont mean but is said for the shock impact. Be the bigger person . Is she close to her dad? Just asking as she could feel threatened that bubs will take his attention once born. Hope it goes ok hun xx

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Jan 4th, 2010, 04:27 AM	#12
rewizz Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: midlands Posts: 156	well thanks girli's i have taken all ur advice on board and to be fair to his daughter.. she has conntacted my 12yr old on face book asking how we all are which to be honest is more than her dad has done !!!! she has sent a friend request on fb for myself .. which i have declined as this is where it all started .. However i have sent her a personal message with my email and mobile no ... This way she can contact me direct... Now i will wait and see the outcome ... I was lashing out i guess and as her dad is the real one that is pissing me off!!!! I still feel chelsea needs to accept that what her and her mom did was extremley hurtful and apologise at some point ... thanks again ... all

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