Wow no wonder you were angry and upset, i would be aswell, but stay strong and sending you loads of hugs xxx

Thanks ladies....didn't get much sleep last night as this was constantly on my mind, not sleeping much anyway though so can't blame him entirely!!!

I'm gonna text him today....not gonna send the text I wrote out above. Just gonna keep it short and tell him not to be involving my mum again, I can't be bothered getting into an argument but I need him to know that he can't involve my mum. I tell her everything so she knows all that is going on. I was thinking maybe he thinks that she doesn't know he wants to get back together....maybe he was hoping she would talk me into it. My mum is actually someone that thinks you should try your best to be together for kids...but she sees how annoying he can be and she knows everything he's done and completely understands why I don't want that.

Ash - you're right about talking being a waste of time and energy. He's proved that by not listening to a word I've said to him! I know people don't agree that I haven't met up with him, I just don't see much point in him driving all this way for me to tell him exactly what I can tell him over the phone....seeing him in the flesh is not going to make any difference whatsoever.

Thanks xx

ignorance is bliss!!!!!! and thats what i am doing !!!!! all the way .... i won't even tell him immediatley when bub is here cause i just do not want the pressure of him and his whinning voice and his mothers thinking they know best durrrhhhh !!!!!
and pressuring me into invading my space ... none of them gave a shite whilst i was the one carrying bub.. stopping smoking ,saving like a nut ,paying for everything ,and what when it's here thinking they have every right ... uh uh uh ... oh noooooooooo...
whilst i will not deny them the right to see bub ... it will be on my terms !!!!!!!
rah hhhhhhhh .. look u have me ranting now ... lol xxxx
rach..x

I hope you had lots more cake!
Just ignore him for nows... hard i know! But you dont need the stress so close to your due date!

xxxxxx

I think you must be calm down as you and him have a conversation. when you calm down I think you will be more intelligent and have more opinion to talk to him. If you talk to him with the angry emotion, you and him can not have the same idea to resolve your problem.

He doesn't listen to a word I say.....so what is the point? The only result is that it makes me angry because I think something has been resolved only for him to bring it all back up again weeks later. The thing making me most angry is the fact that I'm repeating myself over and over and over...

It doesn't matter now anyway, I'm not angry anymore....until next time.

Sending you hugs Suzanne

I'm glad you're feeling calmer now. I hate how much they can wind us up xx

hey, Did you text him and did he reply?

nothing wrong with being angry and having a good rant on here, you do need to sit down and tell him but only once the baby is here, then reality might sink in with him. Till he can see the baby he is living in a dreamworld!

I text him saying that he wasn't to put my mum in that position again, she didn't want to be involved. I didn't bother with the rest, decided it wasn't the best time to be getting into an argument and to be honest I just can't be bothered with all the bickering anymore. I'm sick of it....granted most of it is me but its him that makes me this way!!!

Anyway I couldn't risk him texting my mum again as she felt so awkward, she had no idea what to say. So I had to at least tell him that. He replied saying he wanted her opinion...which to me is a bit daft, no offence to my mum but why should her opinion matter when he knows mine?! I just hate that things are between me and him but he has to involve other people...looking for the sympathy vote I reckon.

He'll be here in a few weeks anyway to see baby when it arrives. So he has the oppurtunity to speak to me then...if he wants to talk about getting back together I will discuss it with him. I can tell him again my reasons for not wanting that.

ANYWAY.....Ava is gorgeous Claire, been nosying at your pics on FB!! xx

awh thanks

i cant understand why he thinks your mums opinion of you two being or not being together is important.. what are you 15?? lol what a fool!

lets hope he gets the hint soon!