how would you feel if....

Dipar_Butt3 · Dec 19th, 2009, 17:37 PM

I get that some times with my daughter's father. He can live on and get marrried and act like he doesn't have a child out here. And then tell the new women that you are JEALOUS of HER because he is with her and not you. Yea i know what you are going though

tinkabells · Dec 19th, 2009, 19:05 PM

Oh i totally know what ya mean, bloody hormones, i blame it on!
But it is hard and horrible seeing it xxx

nievesmama · Dec 20th, 2009, 03:04 AM

Even with all the crap my LOs FOB has put us through and is still putting us through, id be lieing if it doesnt get to me.
I am not jealous by any means, his new gf is welcome to the abusive, lying idiot. BUT what annoys me is she believes his crap, he can slyly get at me through his friends etc and shes none the wiser. Yet if i was to retaliate id be classed as jealous and that i want him back.

I just hate the fact that he can get on with his life, new girl, new house, while i dont want to meet anyone as hes destroyed all my trust in men, and that because he cant stop harrassing me, i have to move again. Sorry rant over!!
Id say its perfectly normal hun x

thechaosismex · Dec 20th, 2009, 04:02 AM

That would make me feel like crap too sweetie, even though theres no real feelings there. I guess all I would think is that he would have enough time for his GF but bugger all time for his daughter!

stoopid men, constantly making us feel like crap!

Novbaby08 · Dec 20th, 2009, 04:55 AM

Well I've seen pics of one of his gfs since me, and...she looked like and ugly 12 year old. lol he seemed embarrassed when I told him so too.

But it doesn't bother me like jealousy. But it pisses me off a bit because deep down I'm hoping he does the same thing to that skanky bitch

suzanne108 · Dec 20th, 2009, 10:04 AM

Just feel sorry for her....you had a lucky escape

xxx

Jem_x3 · Dec 20th, 2009, 10:55 AM

I know exactly how you feel. My boyfriend moved on pretty quickly even though he apparently wanted to be with me forever and die next to me. Just feel sorry for the girl, she has to put up with him and his lies. It's amazing how some men can hurt you so deeply, mess with your head and your life and then act like they've never done a thing wrong. It's frustrating but you just have to think to yourself that you got a lucky escape. If he wants nothing to do with baby then it's completely his loss. You've got the best deal =) xxxx

xJG30 · Dec 20th, 2009, 12:00 PM

I was gutted at first cause he moved on pretty quickly and got with some girl.. doesn't even acknowledge his son now.

expecting09 · Dec 20th, 2009, 14:28 PM

To be honest.. I think I would be jealous of her. He should be with me and Kacie (although I hate him with a passion)!

But your right, it's not that easy for us to move on when we've got a little person to look after, I think its only natural to feel abit jealous

xx

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Dec 19th, 2009, 17:37 PM	#2
Dipar_Butt3 Waiting To Try (WTT) Active BnB Member Join Date: Sep 2009 Location: Indiana, Pennsylvania Posts: 375	I get that some times with my daughter's father. He can live on and get marrried and act like he doesn't have a child out here. And then tell the new women that you are JEALOUS of HER because he is with her and not you. Yea i know what you are going though

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tinkabells Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Mar 2009 Posts: 4,088	Oh i totally know what ya mean, bloody hormones, i blame it on! But it is hard and horrible seeing it xxx

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nievesmama Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Apr 2009 Location: Far. far away Posts: 601	Even with all the crap my LOs FOB has put us through and is still putting us through, id be lieing if it doesnt get to me. I am not jealous by any means, his new gf is welcome to the abusive, lying idiot. BUT what annoys me is she believes his crap, he can slyly get at me through his friends etc and shes none the wiser. Yet if i was to retaliate id be classed as jealous and that i want him back. I just hate the fact that he can get on with his life, new girl, new house, while i dont want to meet anyone as hes destroyed all my trust in men, and that because he cant stop harrassing me, i have to move again. Sorry rant over!! Id say its perfectly normal hun x

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thechaosismex Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Jul 2009 Location: Wilts Posts: 1,541	That would make me feel like crap too sweetie, even though theres no real feelings there. I guess all I would think is that he would have enough time for his GF but bugger all time for his daughter! stoopid men, constantly making us feel like crap!

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Novbaby08 Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Apr 2008 Location: Utah Posts: 2,379	Well I've seen pics of one of his gfs since me, and...she looked like and ugly 12 year old. lol he seemed embarrassed when I told him so too. But it doesn't bother me like jealousy. But it pisses me off a bit because deep down I'm hoping he does the same thing to that skanky bitch

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suzanne108 Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: Manchester Posts: 6,844	Just feel sorry for her....you had a lucky escape xxx

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Jem_x3 Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: Tonbridge, Kent Posts: 1,687	I know exactly how you feel. My boyfriend moved on pretty quickly even though he apparently wanted to be with me forever and die next to me. Just feel sorry for the girl, she has to put up with him and his lies. It's amazing how some men can hurt you so deeply, mess with your head and your life and then act like they've never done a thing wrong. It's frustrating but you just have to think to yourself that you got a lucky escape. If he wants nothing to do with baby then it's completely his loss. You've got the best deal =) xxxx

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xJG30 Mum (Mom) BnB Elite Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: Nottingham Posts: 18,333	I was gutted at first cause he moved on pretty quickly and got with some girl.. doesn't even acknowledge his son now.

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Dec 20th, 2009, 14:28 PM	#10
expecting09 Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: May 2009 Location: Cornwall Posts: 1,047	To be honest.. I think I would be jealous of her. He should be with me and Kacie (although I hate him with a passion)! But your right, it's not that easy for us to move on when we've got a little person to look after, I think its only natural to feel abit jealous xx

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