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Old Dec 19th, 2009, 11:04 AM   #1
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Old Dec 19th, 2009, 16:37 PM   #2
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I get that some times with my daughter's father. He can live on and get marrried and act like he doesn't have a child out here. And then tell the new women that you are JEALOUS of HER because he is with her and not you. Yea i know what you are going though
 
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Old Dec 19th, 2009, 18:05 PM   #3
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Oh i totally know what ya mean, bloody hormones, i blame it on!
But it is hard and horrible seeing it xxx
 
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Old Dec 20th, 2009, 02:04 AM   #4
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Even with all the crap my LOs FOB has put us through and is still putting us through, id be lieing if it doesnt get to me.
I am not jealous by any means, his new gf is welcome to the abusive, lying idiot. BUT what annoys me is she believes his crap, he can slyly get at me through his friends etc and shes none the wiser. Yet if i was to retaliate id be classed as jealous and that i want him back.

I just hate the fact that he can get on with his life, new girl, new house, while i dont want to meet anyone as hes destroyed all my trust in men, and that because he cant stop harrassing me, i have to move again. Sorry rant over!!
Id say its perfectly normal hun x
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Old Dec 20th, 2009, 03:02 AM   #5
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That would make me feel like crap too sweetie, even though theres no real feelings there. I guess all I would think is that he would have enough time for his GF but bugger all time for his daughter!

stoopid men, constantly making us feel like crap!
 
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Old Dec 20th, 2009, 03:55 AM   #6
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Well I've seen pics of one of his gfs since me, and...she looked like and ugly 12 year old. lol he seemed embarrassed when I told him so too.
But it doesn't bother me like jealousy. But it pisses me off a bit because deep down I'm hoping he does the same thing to that skanky bitch
 
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Old Dec 20th, 2009, 09:04 AM   #7
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Just feel sorry for her....you had a lucky escape xxx
 
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Old Dec 20th, 2009, 09:55 AM   #8
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I know exactly how you feel. My boyfriend moved on pretty quickly even though he apparently wanted to be with me forever and die next to me. Just feel sorry for the girl, she has to put up with him and his lies. It's amazing how some men can hurt you so deeply, mess with your head and your life and then act like they've never done a thing wrong. It's frustrating but you just have to think to yourself that you got a lucky escape. If he wants nothing to do with baby then it's completely his loss. You've got the best deal =) xxxx
 
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Old Dec 20th, 2009, 11:00 AM   #9
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I was gutted at first cause he moved on pretty quickly and got with some girl.. doesn't even acknowledge his son now.
 
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Old Dec 20th, 2009, 13:28 PM   #10
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To be honest.. I think I would be jealous of her. He should be with me and Kacie (although I hate him with a passion)!

But your right, it's not that easy for us to move on when we've got a little person to look after, I think its only natural to feel abit jealous

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