Lol his family are gonna be a great support!!!

suzanne108 · Dec 18th, 2009, 19:29 PM

When me and FOB were on the verge of splitting up his family were all "we're always here for support blah blah"....had heard hardly a word from a single one of them until this week.

Text off his SIL "Sorry I haven't been in contact, been so busy......."

Text off his mum "I keep meaning to text you but doing extra hours in work and so busy........."

LMAO!!!!

Then yesterday a text off FOB after about a week of nothing from him.
"Sorry haven't text, had such a busy week........"

Supportive??? My arse.

I found it hilarious that they all said similar things in the space of a few days....and notice how they are all popping up right at the end, trying to keep me sweet you think?

If they are all too busy to text they're gonna be too busy to travel 150 miles to see baby aren't they?!?!

Shireena__x · Dec 18th, 2009, 20:48 PM

definatley tell them to f*ck off. you dont need them around espesh at the end when your anxious/nervous/excited to be there sending you TEXTS (not evn a fone call) saying ''sorry we cant come were busy!'' you dont need the extra stress hun

nievesmama · Dec 19th, 2009, 03:08 AM

Hmmm strange how they all crawling out the woodwork now hun. All to busy??? Sounds a load of crap to me, i agree they seem to be trying to keep you sweet. And no you dont need the extra stress, especially as you havent got long now x

lou_w34 · Dec 19th, 2009, 08:21 AM

Deffinatley trying to keep you sweet. Idiots!
Why didnt they bother when you actually could of done with some help!

AppleBlossom · Dec 19th, 2009, 08:24 AM

Hmm sounds familiar lol when me and FOB split his family were all like, well we're still here for you. Never had a text from them asking how Grace is and maybe once a month his mum will look after her for the day.

All talk hey?

suzanne108 · Dec 19th, 2009, 08:25 AM

I replied to both his SIL and mum with plenty things they coulda asked me about - told them I'd had to finish work at 28 weeks because I wasn't very well, told them I'd had loads of extra scans etc...but got no replies. So it's like they just feel they have a duty to ask....but don't actually care!!

I'm not bothered really, I don't exactly want them in my life, I just thought it was funny how they were so adament they'd be supportive but when it comes down to it they are too busy to even send a text!!!

teal · Dec 19th, 2009, 11:37 AM

I agree it sounds as though they think they need to ask now as you're close to your due date. I think if they were really interested they would have replied (I guess they could reply).

Strange they all sent you similar texts though!

KaeRit21 · Dec 19th, 2009, 19:00 PM

ooooh i know this all too well...i didnt hear from fobs family til i was about oohh 38-39 weeks preg then they started sending numerous texts asking how "ellis was doing" about 5 times a day after he got here. i eventually lost the plot and have told the full lot of em to ahem. get lost.

its extra stress u dont need huni, just ignore them and laugh at there complete see thru-ness. only intrested when they have to be. you deserve better, if they cant find two minutes to send a text, where are they pulling the hours to travel 150 miles to SEE you??

chin up

xxxx

tinkabells · Dec 19th, 2009, 19:03 PM

Yeah have a think and then tell them to feck off, sure its not him telling them to txt ya, to see if you will tell them somethign different? xxx

suzanne108 · Dec 19th, 2009, 19:08 PM

I don't think its him telling them. I don't think he's that clever to be honest!!!

Its all just doing my head in....last 3 days he's text every day...feel like telling him to piss off!!!!!! But I'm too soft

Dec 18th, 2009, 19:29 PM	#1
suzanne108 Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: Manchester Posts: 6,844	Lol his family are gonna be a great support!!! When me and FOB were on the verge of splitting up his family were all "we're always here for support blah blah"....had heard hardly a word from a single one of them until this week. Text off his SIL "Sorry I haven't been in contact, been so busy......." Text off his mum "I keep meaning to text you but doing extra hours in work and so busy........." LMAO!!!! Then yesterday a text off FOB after about a week of nothing from him. "Sorry haven't text, had such a busy week........" Supportive??? My arse. I found it hilarious that they all said similar things in the space of a few days....and notice how they are all popping up right at the end, trying to keep me sweet you think? If they are all too busy to text they're gonna be too busy to travel 150 miles to see baby aren't they?!?!

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Shireena__x Other Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Feb 2009 Posts: 1,279	definatley tell them to f*ck off. you dont need them around espesh at the end when your anxious/nervous/excited to be there sending you TEXTS (not evn a fone call) saying ''sorry we cant come were busy!'' you dont need the extra stress hun

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nievesmama Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Apr 2009 Location: Far. far away Posts: 601	Hmmm strange how they all crawling out the woodwork now hun. All to busy??? Sounds a load of crap to me, i agree they seem to be trying to keep you sweet. And no you dont need the extra stress, especially as you havent got long now x

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lou_w34 Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Apr 2009 Posts: 1,988	Deffinatley trying to keep you sweet. Idiots! Why didnt they bother when you actually could of done with some help!

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AppleBlossom Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: Liverpool, UK Posts: 25,860	Hmm sounds familiar lol when me and FOB split his family were all like, well we're still here for you. Never had a text from them asking how Grace is and maybe once a month his mum will look after her for the day. All talk hey?

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suzanne108 Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: Manchester Posts: 6,844	I replied to both his SIL and mum with plenty things they coulda asked me about - told them I'd had to finish work at 28 weeks because I wasn't very well, told them I'd had loads of extra scans etc...but got no replies. So it's like they just feel they have a duty to ask....but don't actually care!! I'm not bothered really, I don't exactly want them in my life, I just thought it was funny how they were so adament they'd be supportive but when it comes down to it they are too busy to even send a text!!!

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teal Mum (Mom) BnB Elite Join Date: Jun 2009 Posts: 11,385	I agree it sounds as though they think they need to ask now as you're close to your due date. I think if they were really interested they would have replied (I guess they could reply). Strange they all sent you similar texts though!

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KaeRit21 Mum (Mom) Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: Scotland Posts: 1,701	ooooh i know this all too well...i didnt hear from fobs family til i was about oohh 38-39 weeks preg then they started sending numerous texts asking how "ellis was doing" about 5 times a day after he got here. i eventually lost the plot and have told the full lot of em to ahem. get lost. its extra stress u dont need huni, just ignore them and laugh at there complete see thru-ness. only intrested when they have to be. you deserve better, if they cant find two minutes to send a text, where are they pulling the hours to travel 150 miles to SEE you?? chin up xxxx

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tinkabells Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Mar 2009 Posts: 4,088	Yeah have a think and then tell them to feck off, sure its not him telling them to txt ya, to see if you will tell them somethign different? xxx

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suzanne108 Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: Manchester Posts: 6,844	I don't think its him telling them. I don't think he's that clever to be honest!!! Its all just doing my head in....last 3 days he's text every day...feel like telling him to piss off!!!!!! But I'm too soft

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