Moron called tonight - apparently I am getting a letter from his parents!

edinsam · Dec 18th, 2009, 15:43 PM

So sitting having a coffee with a friend, my mobile goes, she picks it up lets out a scream and shouts its him!

I answer and he says my mum and dad want to send you a letter whats your address. I tell him. I ask him whats in the letter he says how the hell should I know!

He then follows up with a oh by the way mum and dad have also said that if you are planning on sending xmas cards like you said you were through the week then its innapropriate so dont. What the hell?

Now Im all worked up about whats going to be in this letter. I mean common whats wrong with them picking up the phone and speaking to me? At this rate I am going to get this letter on xmas eve and Im anticipating it will say we dont want anything to do with our grand daughter - nice nice huh - just another slap in the face for xmas time!

Ash_P · Dec 18th, 2009, 16:03 PM

Hey hun, Try not to worry about it, it will only stress u out and thats the last thing u need. Apparently my FOB`s dad is wanting to take me to court cause Im giving bubs my maiden name, it stressed me out to the point where I wasnt sleeping but then just thought Fuck it, let them.

If u dont want the hassle of it all is there someone else u can give the letter to when it arrives, and see if its something u should be reading. They can just tell u thigns that they feel u need to know, and if its rude or nastily worded then u dont need to know about it.

U dont need to be getting something so close to xmas and upsetting u x

edinsam · Dec 18th, 2009, 16:16 PM

I know Ash and I think thats what I am going to do - give it to my friend to open - its bloody cruelty a week before xmas I tell ya!

Ash_P · Dec 18th, 2009, 16:21 PM

They certainly pick their moments. Sometimes I think they do it for badness, but we just gotta rise above what they throw at us and even tho it could be messing our heads up just give the impression we dont give a damn lol

tinkabells · Dec 18th, 2009, 18:21 PM

Oh what is there problems, do you think they will do this, or his just saying this and his parents might just turn around and say, yes they do and maybe not tell him, cos of the way he has been?
But if they are going to be doing this, once i have recieved the letter i would then see what it says if they dont wanna no, i would write back to them, thanking them for letting you know, and that you have kept there letter and will be giving it to her, when she is old enough to undertsand and i'd also stick a picture of her in the letter and say this is her at so and so age, your never seen what she looks like again
thank you, merry christmas and a nice heartattack yr xxx

Ash_P · Dec 18th, 2009, 18:49 PM

lol love it!!! brilliant tinks x

Shireena__x · Dec 18th, 2009, 20:51 PM

Pyrrhic · Dec 18th, 2009, 21:22 PM

Maybe, given that Christmas is a time of joy and goodwill to all men, they want to let you know how they are really feeling and want to re-connect with their grandchild?

Try not to stress too much

edinsam · Dec 19th, 2009, 05:37 AM

I guess there is nothing I can do until I get it so just switching off until then. I think either way it will be a horrible thing to get. I mean what are my options then?
a) They write and say we want to see her - that will be super hard as they havent even bothered for 4 months since she was born. I know that I would need to let them see her but would still be hard
b) they want nothing to do with her (which I trully suspect is the letter I am getting) and thats just another slap in the face for my wee girl who has done nothing to deserve any of this

Merry bloody xmas huh!

Just so not what I wanted to happen in the days before, ah well not a lot I can do is there....

MiissMuffet · Dec 19th, 2009, 05:46 AM

omg if they are sending u a nasty letter that is pathetic!!

x

Dec 18th, 2009, 15:43 PM	#1
edinsam Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Feb 2009 Location: Edinburgh, Scotland Posts: 645	Moron called tonight - apparently I am getting a letter from his parents! So sitting having a coffee with a friend, my mobile goes, she picks it up lets out a scream and shouts its him! I answer and he says my mum and dad want to send you a letter whats your address. I tell him. I ask him whats in the letter he says how the hell should I know! He then follows up with a oh by the way mum and dad have also said that if you are planning on sending xmas cards like you said you were through the week then its innapropriate so dont. What the hell? Now Im all worked up about whats going to be in this letter. I mean common whats wrong with them picking up the phone and speaking to me? At this rate I am going to get this letter on xmas eve and Im anticipating it will say we dont want anything to do with our grand daughter - nice nice huh - just another slap in the face for xmas time!

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Dec 18th, 2009, 16:03 PM	#2
Ash_P Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: May 2009 Location: Belfast, Northern Ireland Posts: 997	Hey hun, Try not to worry about it, it will only stress u out and thats the last thing u need. Apparently my FOB`s dad is wanting to take me to court cause Im giving bubs my maiden name, it stressed me out to the point where I wasnt sleeping but then just thought Fuck it, let them. If u dont want the hassle of it all is there someone else u can give the letter to when it arrives, and see if its something u should be reading. They can just tell u thigns that they feel u need to know, and if its rude or nastily worded then u dont need to know about it. U dont need to be getting something so close to xmas and upsetting u x

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Dec 18th, 2009, 16:16 PM	#3
edinsam Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Feb 2009 Location: Edinburgh, Scotland Posts: 645	I know Ash and I think thats what I am going to do - give it to my friend to open - its bloody cruelty a week before xmas I tell ya!

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Dec 18th, 2009, 16:21 PM	#4
Ash_P Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: May 2009 Location: Belfast, Northern Ireland Posts: 997	They certainly pick their moments. Sometimes I think they do it for badness, but we just gotta rise above what they throw at us and even tho it could be messing our heads up just give the impression we dont give a damn lol

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Dec 18th, 2009, 18:21 PM	#5
tinkabells Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Mar 2009 Posts: 4,088	Oh what is there problems, do you think they will do this, or his just saying this and his parents might just turn around and say, yes they do and maybe not tell him, cos of the way he has been? But if they are going to be doing this, once i have recieved the letter i would then see what it says if they dont wanna no, i would write back to them, thanking them for letting you know, and that you have kept there letter and will be giving it to her, when she is old enough to undertsand and i'd also stick a picture of her in the letter and say this is her at so and so age, your never seen what she looks like again thank you, merry christmas and a nice heartattack yr xxx

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Ash_P Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: May 2009 Location: Belfast, Northern Ireland Posts: 997	lol love it!!! brilliant tinks x

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Pyrrhic Mum (Mom) BnB Elite Join Date: Mar 2008 Posts: 14,567	Maybe, given that Christmas is a time of joy and goodwill to all men, they want to let you know how they are really feeling and want to re-connect with their grandchild? Try not to stress too much

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edinsam Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Feb 2009 Location: Edinburgh, Scotland Posts: 645	I guess there is nothing I can do until I get it so just switching off until then. I think either way it will be a horrible thing to get. I mean what are my options then? a) They write and say we want to see her - that will be super hard as they havent even bothered for 4 months since she was born. I know that I would need to let them see her but would still be hard b) they want nothing to do with her (which I trully suspect is the letter I am getting) and thats just another slap in the face for my wee girl who has done nothing to deserve any of this Merry bloody xmas huh! Just so not what I wanted to happen in the days before, ah well not a lot I can do is there....

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Dec 19th, 2009, 05:46 AM	#10
MiissMuffet Pregnant (Expecting) BnB Addict Join Date: Sep 2009 Location: New Zealand Posts: 9,927	omg if they are sending u a nasty letter that is pathetic!! x

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