Had my DNA test today - another step closer

edinsam · Dec 2nd, 2009, 13:41 PM

WEll its going slooooowly

DNA test done for Lils and I today - now need to wait the 10-14 days to get the result - I figure that puts me right in the middle of xmas almost lol!

Wonder who does "Merry Xmas Confirmed Daddy" cards???!!!

Tee heee

Lets see how long after this that CSA get their act together. Bets anyone?

Get back to work and 15 mins after getting in from the test I have a bloody meeting with the moron. Ive got holes in my tongue from biting it sooo hard

lou_w34 · Dec 2nd, 2009, 13:52 PM

I think moonpig.com may do!! haha

Heres to hoping the csa work quickly for yous!!

xx

edinsam · Dec 2nd, 2009, 15:22 PM

aw Lou Scarlett is gorgeous - love that name too - it was one of my shortlists. She is adoreable - congrats

AtomicPink · Dec 2nd, 2009, 15:25 PM

You are having a f***ing laugh, is he seriously gettin u to do this? I'm totally missing everything these days honey xxxxxxxxxxxxxx

sweetlullaby · Dec 2nd, 2009, 16:00 PM

I hope you dont mind me asking.....but see the whole dna test thing....how does that work?

Its just FOB in my case is demanding that a dna tst is done once LO is born and i dont have a clue how its gonna be done as in do i contact csa and then he denies he's the father and then a dna test is done or something? Also who pays for it csa, him or me? I know i sound incredibly stupid

but i really hadnt thought about csa or anything along those lines! And with just over a week until due date thought i should get an idea of whats gonna happen!

hope the meeting went ok for you!! Dont know why these stupid men do these things to complicate everything!! xx

edinsam · Dec 2nd, 2009, 16:59 PM

he sure is Sandy

Ive waited 12 weeks to get it sorted - he had his 2 weeks ago and now ours. Results in another 2 weeks! moron

edinsam · Dec 2nd, 2009, 17:06 PM

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Originally Posted by sweetlullaby

I hope you dont mind me asking.....but see the whole dna test thing....how does that work?

Its just FOB in my case is demanding that a dna tst is done once LO is born and i dont have a clue how its gonna be done as in do i contact csa and then he denies he's the father and then a dna test is done or something? Also who pays for it csa, him or me? I know i sound incredibly stupid

but i really hadnt thought about csa or anything along those lines! And with just over a week until due date thought i should get an idea of whats gonna happen!

hope the meeting went ok for you!! Dont know why these stupid men do these things to complicate everything!! xx

Aw sweet dont aplogise, absolutely cool to talk about it.

Basically you need to go through CSA to do if you are pursuing finances that way. When they finally get a hold of him - about 8 weeks from the start of the process they ask him if hes the father, he denies, they set up a DNA test. They get him in first, then once his is done you and the baby go for yours. They pay for it so you dont exchange money with everyone

If you need more info let me know

sweetlullaby · Dec 2nd, 2009, 18:35 PM

Thanks for this!!

Thought it was along those lines lol its just confusing me....i never really thought about csa and getting finance etc from FOB but im guessing this is the way to do it lol also he should probably contribute to this LO seeing as he hasnt bothered his ass up so far!

Damm was kinna hoping he'd have to fork out for it as he's the idiot demanding one

Thanks though!! Flip it takes that long to get it all sorted out!!!! Thats ridiculous!!!

Guess he's kinna bit himself in the arse though.....because you only get 6 weeks to register LO's birth and him being "not sure" he's the father and wanting dna test done he can hardly complain when his name aint on the birth certificate!

purpledahlia · Dec 2nd, 2009, 22:30 PM

Good point sweet lullaby!!

Thank god its finally done for you sam, takes its time doesnt it!! I hope he gets whats coming and he leaves your work!!

edinsam · Dec 3rd, 2009, 02:10 AM

sweet - if you miss the cut off for putting him on the birth certificate thats fine (although not great I will grant you that) however you can add him later if you both agree so if he gets the dna and all good then you can add it later

Good luck hun

He should pay

Dec 2nd, 2009, 13:41 PM	#1
edinsam Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Feb 2009 Location: Edinburgh, Scotland Posts: 645	Had my DNA test today - another step closer WEll its going slooooowly DNA test done for Lils and I today - now need to wait the 10-14 days to get the result - I figure that puts me right in the middle of xmas almost lol! Wonder who does "Merry Xmas Confirmed Daddy" cards???!!! Tee heee Lets see how long after this that CSA get their act together. Bets anyone? Get back to work and 15 mins after getting in from the test I have a bloody meeting with the moron. Ive got holes in my tongue from biting it sooo hard

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Dec 2nd, 2009, 13:52 PM	#2
lou_w34 Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Apr 2009 Posts: 1,988	I think moonpig.com may do!! haha Heres to hoping the csa work quickly for yous!! xx

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Dec 2nd, 2009, 15:22 PM	#3
edinsam Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Feb 2009 Location: Edinburgh, Scotland Posts: 645	aw Lou Scarlett is gorgeous - love that name too - it was one of my shortlists. She is adoreable - congrats

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Dec 2nd, 2009, 15:25 PM	#4
AtomicPink Mum (Mom) BnB Elite Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: Scotland Posts: 19,126	You are having a f***ing laugh, is he seriously gettin u to do this? I'm totally missing everything these days honey xxxxxxxxxxxxxx

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Dec 2nd, 2009, 16:00 PM	#5
sweetlullaby Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Apr 2009 Location: Uk Posts: 6,338	I hope you dont mind me asking.....but see the whole dna test thing....how does that work? Its just FOB in my case is demanding that a dna tst is done once LO is born and i dont have a clue how its gonna be done as in do i contact csa and then he denies he's the father and then a dna test is done or something? Also who pays for it csa, him or me? I know i sound incredibly stupid but i really hadnt thought about csa or anything along those lines! And with just over a week until due date thought i should get an idea of whats gonna happen! hope the meeting went ok for you!! Dont know why these stupid men do these things to complicate everything!! xx

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Dec 2nd, 2009, 16:59 PM	#6
edinsam Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Feb 2009 Location: Edinburgh, Scotland Posts: 645	he sure is Sandy Ive waited 12 weeks to get it sorted - he had his 2 weeks ago and now ours. Results in another 2 weeks! moron

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Dec 2nd, 2009, 18:35 PM	#8
sweetlullaby Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Apr 2009 Location: Uk Posts: 6,338	Thanks for this!! Thought it was along those lines lol its just confusing me....i never really thought about csa and getting finance etc from FOB but im guessing this is the way to do it lol also he should probably contribute to this LO seeing as he hasnt bothered his ass up so far! Damm was kinna hoping he'd have to fork out for it as he's the idiot demanding one Thanks though!! Flip it takes that long to get it all sorted out!!!! Thats ridiculous!!! Guess he's kinna bit himself in the arse though.....because you only get 6 weeks to register LO's birth and him being "not sure" he's the father and wanting dna test done he can hardly complain when his name aint on the birth certificate!

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Dec 2nd, 2009, 22:30 PM	#9
purpledahlia Mum (Mom) BnB Elite Join Date: Apr 2009 Posts: 14,871	Good point sweet lullaby!! Thank god its finally done for you sam, takes its time doesnt it!! I hope he gets whats coming and he leaves your work!!

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Dec 3rd, 2009, 02:10 AM	#10
edinsam Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Feb 2009 Location: Edinburgh, Scotland Posts: 645	sweet - if you miss the cut off for putting him on the birth certificate thats fine (although not great I will grant you that) however you can add him later if you both agree so if he gets the dna and all good then you can add it later Good luck hun He should pay

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