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Nov 23rd, 2009, 14:46 PM
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#1 | | Waiting To Try (WTT) Active BnB Member
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| No birth partner? Ok so carrying on from the going to scans alone thread has anyone given birth alone?
I am not pregnant at mo but when I am I will be doing it alone donnor sperm etc and I think I'd liek to be alone at the birth, what do others think of this? | | | | Status: Offline
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Nov 23rd, 2009, 14:47 PM
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#2 | | Mummy BnB Spammer Elite
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| What about your mum or something?
Midwives are busy down the other end, you need someone to hold your hand IMO x | | | | Status: Offline
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Nov 23rd, 2009, 15:04 PM
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#3 | | Pregnant (Expecting) BnB Addict
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| I'm having my mum and my best friend with me when I'm giving birth. Personally I don't like the thought of going through labour alone. xx | | | | Status: Offline
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Nov 23rd, 2009, 15:07 PM
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#4 | | Pregnant (Expecting) Chat Happy BnB Member
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| I'm having my best friend. My mum will be waiting outside the room!
Do you not have someone like that to do it with you? Friend, mum, sister? You can even hire a professional birth partner (doula). Personally I wouldn't like to go it alone!
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Nov 23rd, 2009, 15:09 PM
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#5 | | Last month! Yikes! :) Active BnB Member
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| I'm having my sister there, but I don't think I'd care about going through it alone if she is late or whatever haha..but would like some visitors so show my baby off to after tho! | | | | Status: Online
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Nov 23rd, 2009, 15:25 PM
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#6 | | & Tom BnB Addict
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| My dad came to scans with me and my mum was my birthing partner.
I couldn't of done it without someone there. | | | | Status: Offline
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Nov 23rd, 2009, 15:36 PM
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#7 | | Waiting To Try (WTT) Active BnB Member
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| See the idea of my mum or sister being there makes me feel physicaly sick, a friend wouldn't be so bad I guess. I really want to do it on my own tho. | | | | Status: Offline
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Nov 23rd, 2009, 15:43 PM
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#8 | | Pregnant (Expecting) Chat Happy BnB Member
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| If you want to do it alone, go for it  | | | | Status: Offline
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Nov 23rd, 2009, 15:47 PM
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#9 | | Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member
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| why does the idea of your mum or sister make you feel sick ur mum has certainly been thrugh it before hun but its everyones prefrence if u want to do it alone u go for it whatever makes you feel comfotable | | | | Status: Offline
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Nov 23rd, 2009, 17:35 PM
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#10 | | Waiting To Try (WTT) Active BnB Member
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| I am not sure just the idea doesn't really sit well, maybe it will change when I am actualy facing labour. | | | | Status: Offline
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