thechaosismex

Has anyone been out clubbing/pub crawling pregnant? I went out tonight for the first time in 6 months for my sisters 18th, the pub crawl was fine but as soon as we got to the club I was having a huge paranoia/panic attack that I would see people who knew me, or that people were looking at my bump or that I could possibly bump into FOB if he was out? And then all of a sudden everything got realllyyyy loud and people seemed to be everywhere so I bailed and left.

IDK why I even wrote all this here, just needed a moan as I'm feeling all weird now. Why is it him and his friends are ruling my life when they arn't even out..maybe I need to move towns...

lou_w34

Ummm i went out when i was around 14 weeks for a friends bday, but i left early as i got tired lol, And i sat in a pub when i was with some friends when i was around 25 weeks, so i dont think that really counts, as i didnt move haha. To be honest i got bored really quickly as they were all drinking and getting drunk and i was just watching them haha.

Ahhhh you shouldnt let them stop you having a good time! I keep considering moving! But i dont even think Austrailia will be far enough haha xx

thechaosismex

I odnt even think the moon would be far enough hahahah xxx

lou_w34

Good point! Then again... lets send them there... then we can stay where we are!! haha

xx

suzanne108

Can I send mine to the moon too???

I don't have to worry about bumping into FOB because he lives 150 miles away but thats waaayyyy too close for my liking!

In answer to the original question...the only time I've been out whilst pregnant was for my birthday when I was about 25 weeks....sat in a pub watching my friends getting drunk was not fun! To be honest I'm scared to go out in case people bump into bump....stupid I know but I wouldn't like to around lots of drunk people! xx

purpledahlia

I went out a couple times, once for my bday at bout 20weeks, and once on holiday at 24weeks, i think, but it was ok, i did get tired and leave a tad early tho. i miss dancing!!

sweetlullaby

I've been out a few times....sort of just quiet pub dinner type thing with few mates and once in pub sitting there drinking soft juice and watching everyone else get drunk. I did go home early that night and felt a wee bit sad coz i was missing out and was bored and didnt wanna dance coz was scared of peope banging into me!

I've declined all invitations to go pub crawling/clubbing at weekends etc as my mates (mostly work ones) all go to the same places that FOB and his mates go to and i just didnt want to get into any awkward or difficult situations or arguments or anything or have him staring at me all night or criticising me for being out if ya know what i mean!

On holiday we went out quite a few times and it was fun but then again was on holiday with family and friends and had younger brothers there so i was drinking the kiddies coctails alongside them and chattering to the locals and playing pool etc with my brothers while everyone else was dancing and getting drunk. But i wasnt bored and enjoyed it!

My own birthday was few weeks ago and i didnt do the usual party/clubbing type birthday just went out for dinner with family on it and then the next day went to cinema and out shopping with some friends.

Guess when your pregnant we all worry about everything and dont feel like going out it seems scarier!

thechaosismex

Being pregnant has just made me paranoia central I think hahaha! thanks for your advice ladies xxx

babybaillie

I havent been. Bit to worried to go anywhere to busy incase i got bumped etc.

Have been invited to a few nites n had to turn them all down

tinkabells

I went out clubbing when i was 16 weeks for mates bday and to celebrate i was having a girl, then went out clubbing again for mates bday when i was 7 months, did feel very weird as was in centre of london by oxford street, but tbh i dont think anyone really noticed my bump, they were all out of it lol
but it wouldn't let him rule ya, go out if ya wanna xxx