Well its done :(

Ash_P · Nov 18th, 2009, 15:26 PM

As of 3 o,clock today I am now officially back to my maiden name. The week leading up to it I was so excited, I was really looking forward to it, seen it as a move on day, and step forward in my new life.
But I dont feel like that. I feel deflated

Iv been really upset most of the day. I dont know why, maybe its cause its like a way of saying its definately over. I dunno.
I feel so pathetic. Im 24, going thru a divorce, with a baby on the way, and I havent the faintest idea how Im going to cope with being a single mum.
Why am I feeling so miserable about a name change.

sweetlullaby · Nov 18th, 2009, 15:31 PM

im sure its bound to affect you. I really hope you feel better soon...but you were married to this guy and are having his baby ...your bound to feel down and upset

You will cope fantastically at being a single mum

we all will. It will be hard but we're all strong

xx

lou_w34 · Nov 18th, 2009, 15:46 PM

Yeps!! You will be a fantastic mum!

Your bound to feel sad about it, no matter what you ex has put you through, he was apart of you life, and marriage is a big thing, its bound to take some time.

Have a night infront of the tv, eat some crap, and get a good nights rest, soon youll feel much better

Alexas Mommy · Nov 18th, 2009, 15:50 PM

You just went through a huge thing in your life, and on top of that, you are pregnant, and extra emotional. You will be a great mom, have no doubts!

Ash_P · Nov 18th, 2009, 17:04 PM

Thanks girls. Im sitting here thinking if this is me after just a simple name change, what the hell am I going to be like when the divorce comes thru

I just wish my baby was here so I could have something to focus on.

lauramarie · Nov 18th, 2009, 17:12 PM

hey hun i went back to maiden name before baby was born to, i know how you feel, it is like confirming that it is all over, although you already know that it is. it passes and i now feel good about not having his name and that my son doesn't haven't his name either.

It is strange writing you maiden name again, but you adapt quickly, just a lot of hassle changing your name with DVLA, bank etc.

hope you feel better about it soon x

tinkabells · Nov 18th, 2009, 18:44 PM

Its a big thing your going through, so your going to feel emtional, thinking of you though chick xxx

woadie · Nov 18th, 2009, 19:26 PM

big hugs Ash.... it'll all be okay

even though it feels so horrible right now.

purpledahlia · Nov 19th, 2009, 19:33 PM

you can still focus on baby even tho babys not here yet!

sounds like you did it at the right time tho. x

teal · Nov 20th, 2009, 08:47 AM

Sending you hugs Ash

xx

Nov 18th, 2009, 15:26 PM	#1
Ash_P Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: May 2009 Location: Belfast, Northern Ireland Posts: 997	Well its done :( As of 3 o,clock today I am now officially back to my maiden name. The week leading up to it I was so excited, I was really looking forward to it, seen it as a move on day, and step forward in my new life. But I dont feel like that. I feel deflated Iv been really upset most of the day. I dont know why, maybe its cause its like a way of saying its definately over. I dunno. I feel so pathetic. Im 24, going thru a divorce, with a baby on the way, and I havent the faintest idea how Im going to cope with being a single mum. Why am I feeling so miserable about a name change.

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Nov 18th, 2009, 15:31 PM	#2
sweetlullaby Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Apr 2009 Location: Uk Posts: 6,337	im sure its bound to affect you. I really hope you feel better soon...but you were married to this guy and are having his baby ...your bound to feel down and upset You will cope fantastically at being a single mum we all will. It will be hard but we're all strong xx

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Nov 18th, 2009, 15:46 PM	#3
lou_w34 Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Apr 2009 Posts: 1,987	Yeps!! You will be a fantastic mum! Your bound to feel sad about it, no matter what you ex has put you through, he was apart of you life, and marriage is a big thing, its bound to take some time. Have a night infront of the tv, eat some crap, and get a good nights rest, soon youll feel much better

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Nov 18th, 2009, 15:50 PM	#4
Alexas Mommy Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Jun 2008 Location: Canada Posts: 7,246	You just went through a huge thing in your life, and on top of that, you are pregnant, and extra emotional. You will be a great mom, have no doubts!

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Nov 18th, 2009, 17:04 PM	#5
Ash_P Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: May 2009 Location: Belfast, Northern Ireland Posts: 997	Thanks girls. Im sitting here thinking if this is me after just a simple name change, what the hell am I going to be like when the divorce comes thru I just wish my baby was here so I could have something to focus on.

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Nov 18th, 2009, 17:12 PM	#6
lauramarie Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Feb 2009 Location: scotland Posts: 126	hey hun i went back to maiden name before baby was born to, i know how you feel, it is like confirming that it is all over, although you already know that it is. it passes and i now feel good about not having his name and that my son doesn't haven't his name either. It is strange writing you maiden name again, but you adapt quickly, just a lot of hassle changing your name with DVLA, bank etc. hope you feel better about it soon x

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Nov 18th, 2009, 18:44 PM	#7
tinkabells Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Mar 2009 Posts: 4,088	Its a big thing your going through, so your going to feel emtional, thinking of you though chick xxx

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Nov 18th, 2009, 19:26 PM	#8
woadie Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Aug 2009 Posts: 115	big hugs Ash.... it'll all be okay even though it feels so horrible right now.

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Nov 19th, 2009, 19:33 PM	#9
purpledahlia Mum (Mom) BnB Elite Join Date: Apr 2009 Posts: 14,871	you can still focus on baby even tho babys not here yet! sounds like you did it at the right time tho. x

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Nov 20th, 2009, 08:47 AM	#10
teal Mum (Mom) BnB Elite Join Date: Jun 2009 Posts: 11,382	Sending you hugs Ash xx

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