News! finally heard from fob! - Page 4

suzanne108 · Nov 13th, 2009, 17:17 PM

The best feeling for me is that all these idiotic FOBs will one day feel regret over what they've done.

If they don't then they are more heartless than I first thought!

surprisebaby · Nov 13th, 2009, 17:21 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by suzanne108

The best feeling for me is that all these idiotic FOBs will one day feel regret over what they've done.

If they don't then they are more heartless than I first thought!

Yeah totally agree!

emmajane · Nov 13th, 2009, 17:31 PM

Thats good. Sorry to sounded negative but sounds like you sent it just at the right time. I hope you hear from her soon as I can't believe what a weak son she has.

EternalRose · Nov 13th, 2009, 17:48 PM

Hi ya hun,

Im glad you used the letter, its formal and takes any emotion out of the equation. He is expecting you to beg e.t.c and that ship has long sailed. Now you just have to put your feet up and wait but I have to say all of the women on this thread that are going through likewise, id admire you all for your strength!! I know deep down it cant be easy but keep your head held high, you have done nothing wrong. xxx

Naya69 · Nov 13th, 2009, 18:44 PM

omg what a nasty pill of shit you have there wow its ok to fill a pram yet not take on the responsibilty of pushing that pram most people will say be glad hes out of your life and move on but i say fight on i wouldnt let him get away with that.

i would give his parents a couple of weeks and the write to them again and send that note along but i wouldnt be hash with them because i bet they feel stuck in the middle so this would only just upset them.

i would write bk to him as well the little worm explaining that you would never let this lie and you will keep sending letters and emails left right and centre till he pulls his finger out of his arse and lives up to his role as a father.

i would also send pics of scans and if still no contact pics of baby to his parents iam sure then they will wont contact. but to be honest i would be making a trip over to ireland to talk face to face with them but i would take my mum or someone close for surport.

good luck i really hope she writes bk

xx

Abz1982 · Nov 13th, 2009, 22:40 PM

Just to throw a curve ball here...................is there a possibility he parents actually told him what to put in the Email?

surprisebaby · Nov 14th, 2009, 05:49 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Abz1982

Just to throw a curve ball here...................is there a possibility he parents actually told him what to put in the Email?

I suppose it's possible. It's hard to know when i haven't heard back from the parents. Maybe like him they are just trying to get rid of the situation i.e me and the baby. I suppose only time will tell. It will be very frustrating if his mum does not respond, cos then I won't know her viewpoint. There's nothing else I can do now but just and see what happens next. Although I do want to send what he wrote in a way, I think it's best to give them a little time to respond first.

Thanks for your thoughts about it though. cos if that were true it wouldn't be good to send his email!!!

suzanne108 · Nov 14th, 2009, 07:56 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Abz1982

Just to throw a curve ball here...................is there a possibility he parents actually told him what to put in the Email?

Kinda thinking the same thing.....my FOBs mum has been horrible to me and I do blame her for us splitting up more than I blame him. She's totally got him brainwashed and he can't seem to think for himself.

So yeah...I'd be careful. You would expect his mum to be on your side being a mother herself, but it doesn't always work that way.

Nov 13th, 2009, 17:17 PM	#31
suzanne108 Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: Manchester Posts: 6,844	The best feeling for me is that all these idiotic FOBs will one day feel regret over what they've done. If they don't then they are more heartless than I first thought!

Status: Offline

Nov 13th, 2009, 17:31 PM	#33
emmajane Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: Brighton Posts: 801	Thats good. Sorry to sounded negative but sounds like you sent it just at the right time. I hope you hear from her soon as I can't believe what a weak son she has.

Status: Offline

Nov 13th, 2009, 17:48 PM	#34
EternalRose Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Jun 2009 Posts: 5,739	Hi ya hun, Im glad you used the letter, its formal and takes any emotion out of the equation. He is expecting you to beg e.t.c and that ship has long sailed. Now you just have to put your feet up and wait but I have to say all of the women on this thread that are going through likewise, id admire you all for your strength!! I know deep down it cant be easy but keep your head held high, you have done nothing wrong. xxx

Status: Offline

Nov 13th, 2009, 18:44 PM	#35
Naya69 Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: Manchester, England Posts: 3,340	omg what a nasty pill of shit you have there wow its ok to fill a pram yet not take on the responsibilty of pushing that pram most people will say be glad hes out of your life and move on but i say fight on i wouldnt let him get away with that. i would give his parents a couple of weeks and the write to them again and send that note along but i wouldnt be hash with them because i bet they feel stuck in the middle so this would only just upset them. i would write bk to him as well the little worm explaining that you would never let this lie and you will keep sending letters and emails left right and centre till he pulls his finger out of his arse and lives up to his role as a father. i would also send pics of scans and if still no contact pics of baby to his parents iam sure then they will wont contact. but to be honest i would be making a trip over to ireland to talk face to face with them but i would take my mum or someone close for surport. good luck i really hope she writes bk xx

Status: Offline

Nov 13th, 2009, 22:40 PM	#36
Abz1982 Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: Aberdeen Posts: 3,963	Just to throw a curve ball here...................is there a possibility he parents actually told him what to put in the Email?

Status: Offline

Similar Threads
Eeeekk! I've finally heard	Pregnancy - Second Trimester
Finally heard from the mw and	Pregnancy - First Trimester
Finally heard baby's heart beat after a week of trying!	Pregnancy - First Trimester
Finally heard the heartbeat! :)	Pregnancy - First Trimester
Finally heard the HB!	Pregnancy - Second Trimester

User Name		Remember Me?
Password