Had to go to hospital tonight, they thought I was in pre-term labour. After being examined etc they told me that cause of the size of the baby - its a big un, and the serverity of my SPD they might want to start me early cause my pelvis isnt handling the extra weight etc.

When the hospital told me to come up rite away as it sounded like pre-term labour, She rang FOB (i leave it up to her when those decisions are made, as im in no fit state to make it myself) She said he answered with a distant "Hello" She said, Ashlene is in hospital, they think shes in pre-term labour, "UM...um... She cant be in labour, its too early" "No its not, she could go at any stage" He replied apparently in a paniced voice "UM.. what will I do... Do u need me to do anything" She just said No and that shed keep him informed. She said he sounded like he shit himself, totally paniced, and shocked.

When we got out she sent him a text saying, "she and baby are ok, baby is very big, and with the SPD they are considering starting her early, but shes to rest as she could go at anytime, so u need to keep ur fone on at all times, and make sure ur near by" he replied saying Ok, Thank you.

Somehow I doubt being in Cran Canairia is being handy to me. God he confuses me so much, for someone who cant stand me, and has shown no interest in this pregnancy, then when he thinks baby is on its way, he shits a brick and apparently shows a great deal of concern.

Why do they pickle our bloody heads.

Im glad your ok nows

I dont no why they do it??
I cant really suggest anything, as who knows whats going through his head
But for now, maybe just leave him, and if anything else happens you can ring him.

Firstly I'm so glad you're okay... phew... and secondly (((hugs))) over FOB and a lol about his panic as well... I actually felt really encouraged for you there, it was a nice sign and I hope it's a good one, for the real birth

With big bump... tell bubs to hang in there!

Iv just re-read my post, im a numpty lol "She" is referring to my sister incase any of u were wondering lol

When we got home, my sister and I had a long chat, she gave me some advice about FOB, she told me to start taking on board what she tells me, shes younger than me, but has been thru a similar situation and says she knows exactly how it is going to pan out, so to start listenin to her, and just sit back and wwatch how t goes. Aparently it will make me stronger, so im gonna try do that and see if she is right.

And in the meantime hoe baby stays put

I think thats some good advice

Sending you hugs I agree it sounds like some good advice! Hope you're little one stays in there! xx

I agree as well your sister sounds like she's being really supportive and offering you good advice Hope your LO hangs on in there!

I agree with everything love, :hug xxx