KaeRit21

arrrrrrrrrrrrrrggggggggggggggggggghhhh

fobs sister text me not 10 minutes ago, asking if everything was alright as she hadnt heard from me!!!

i didnt bloody realise i needed to send hourly updates to her on how i was feeling and where i was.

then she text back to say that FOB had phoned and was asking for "both of you".

CHEEK. glad he can phone her, but I'M carrying his "beloved" child and hes got my number and all ive recieved is a shitty A5 sized letter (ONE SIDED may i add) that doesnt even ask how me or baby is, but goes on about how HE'S doing.

shes then texts me back, have you made your mind up about going into see him. ive already explained to her that under NO circumstances am i going into see, nor do i want to as i have NOTHING to say to him and i quite frankly dont want anything more to do with him. HE let me down. HE treated me like shit.
she also asked if i'd replied to his letter. NO i havent. its currently lying at the bottom of a drawer and i have no intentions of writing back. i dont want to haave any contact with him.

Sooo WHY is she getting onto me constantly...im beginning to feel like there trying to push me into a corner and make me feel bad. i have NOTHING to feel bad or guilty for and its really starting to upset me now. i can understand why she goes to see him and why she wants to hear from him but i dont. we're not together, we havent been for a while and its HIS fault i walked away. he showed NO interest in this baby til the decision was taken out his hands but hes making it out like i should feel sorry for him (HULLO. you put yourself in jail)

i dont know how else to make this clear to his family. im on the verge of loosing the plot because they're getting me upset to the point of sheer anger. im THREE WEEKS away from my due-date, i just wish theyd leave me the hell alone. i hate them all

sorry girls i needed to vent

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Aidan's Mummy

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KaeRit21

thank you. god im so mad im actually nearly hyperventilating.

no means NO!!!!

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Aidan's Mummy

Breath. Go get a nice hot bath and talk to baby as he/she will feel your stress. Switch you phone off and they will soon get the message to leave you alone. Your heavily pregnant for chirst sake do they not realise that you should be resting up for the birth and relaxing not stressing over a spinless excuse for a man
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angie79

oh ffs dont they give up - i take it you have told her all this
i would just say my baby is having nothing to do with a criminal and i wont either and if you dont stop pushing me in a corner i will do the same with you

its time to start telling them exactly how you feel - its not fair to you being so close to your due date

oh and by the way he could ring you as they can dominate numbers they want to ring

good luck honey dont let it get you down just concentrate on baby and you as thats all that counts

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KaeRit21

thanks hun... at your nice-ness bless you

am sorry i feel like all ive done on here the last week is rant n vent, but ive no other way to get it out. i just want peace to try and enjoy the last weeks of my pregnancy which so far hasnt been great and forget about him and it just feels like there backing me into a corner and im going to explode.

i dont know what else to do or say to get through to them

ive upset bubs now too...had a few braxton hicks

gonna go for a bath and give tummy a rub.

what a crap ending to an otherwise good weekend

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louise85

Just concentrate on you and your little one I know its hard when you've got people stressing you out, it makes me laugh how they think they can treat you like shit through your pregnancy and now your near to your due date they all of a sudden want to know!!

You'll do just fine without him or any of them for that matter!!

lou_w34

Ahhhh shes a tit, just ignore her.
If i were you, i would block her number... after all you owe her nothing. If her brother wants to get in contact then let HIM call you or write to you or whatever. She doesnt need to get involved. I understand its her brother at the end of the day... But he's in prison for a reason... TOUGH.

Have you told her any of this?? Maybe explain that youve had enough of her involving herself, and does she realise just how much she upsets/ stresses you out??

I hope your feeling better nows

KaeRit21

ive told her exactly how i feel and that im not happy with them trying to force me to see him...the only person that gets it is his best friend, who without his support right now id be off my head.
ive even had him try and explain to both FOB and his sister and its like talking to a brick wall

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lou_w34

They sound like a right nightmare... i dont no what to suggest , short of cutting his families contact with you, blocking their numbers ect ect. But you live in the same area as them dont you... so i guess they no where you live.

Im glad you have some support
At first i thought i had FOBs best friends support aswell, but it turned out he was telling FOB everything i had said. I was gutted. Im not saying that to scare you, just be careful, i though his friend was on my side, turned out he was using me... Im sure that was just me though, i think most men are tossers these days lol