Need to rant! - Page 3

angie79 · Nov 8th, 2009, 17:05 PM

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Originally Posted by KaeRit21

aint like he can come and get me.

i actually had this fear that he was going to take my LO away. FAT CHANCE.

ive told his sister that she wont be babysitting and she wont be seeing my baby without me there...i know for a fact that she'd take bubs to see him without me knowing...and then lie. i dont trust them. any of them

thanks again ladies...duno what i'd do without all your words of comfort on here

it really means a lot

xxxx

turn your phone off honey and that way you wont know also dont bother telling her anything
also just to give you piece of mind she would not be able to take the baby to the prison unless she had id so dont worry about that.

As i said before these people are not worth your time or worry.

xxx

KaeRit21 · Nov 8th, 2009, 17:18 PM

i have done, i really am done with them.

i didnt realise she'd need ID to take bubs in, thank you for the info, that helps settle my mind somewhat!

im glad im not the only one to think im not being unreasonable

you ladies are angels, honestly

xxxx

angie79 · Nov 8th, 2009, 17:32 PM

glad it settles your mind

sounds like your the only reasonable one out of all of them

xx

KaeRit21 · Nov 8th, 2009, 17:38 PM

not that theyd have you believe that. amazes me how some people just cant see two feet in front of them

awk i dont even know why i bother gettin all upset and ratty at all. where does it get me? and its not like they care or take any notice. if they'd listened, i wouldnt have to keep repeating myself...

xxx

angie79 · Nov 8th, 2009, 17:56 PM

record it and put it on a loop and send it to them

i still let people bother me far too much but i'm getting alot better in the last few years
i would love to be having a baby in a few weeks your very lucky to have gift like that (cheesy i know) just remember that thats all you need right now

xx

KaeRit21 · Nov 8th, 2009, 18:01 PM

this little squirmy bundle is the only thing keeping me sane, i know im a lucky girl

just wish they would stop trying to ruin my last weeks and let me get on with enjoying my wee baby.

itl be your turn soon hunni and ul have your own wee bundle

xxx

angie79 · Nov 8th, 2009, 18:15 PM

i know - thanks

they should know to leave it cos of the stress to the baby but some people just dont think about these things

xx

sweetlullaby · Nov 8th, 2009, 18:30 PM

read through the post...i hope you had your bath and tummy massage

You sound as though your not as upset now! Dont let her get to you....though i know thats a lot easier said than done!

Awwwk its so unfair you've only 3 weeks to go and your being harrassed and stressed like this. The woman should know better than to put so much pressure on you!!

I know how you feel about being stressed and worried...i realised when glancing through my messages that FOB has text the last few times... exactly 3 weeks apart!! So i keep having this feeling of dread that he's gonna contact me tomorrow and stress me out and upset me all over again

And as due date is waaay closer now...i reckon the stress will be waaay worse...im gonna be like a time bomb tomorrow just waiting if he texts me at all!

Oh and your definately not being unreasonable!

xxx

KaeRit21 · Nov 8th, 2009, 18:31 PM

some people just lack common sense. irritates the life out of me.

i sometimes wonder how she'd have reacted if it'd been her when she was having her LO.

xxx

sweetlullaby · Nov 8th, 2009, 18:35 PM

I would ask her next time she annoys you lol

Tell her to put herself in your shoes and would she be doing what she's trying to pressurise you and guilt trip you into doing?

Either that or use the "not so polite" words from the dictionary and tell her where to go! lol xx

Nov 8th, 2009, 17:18 PM	#22
KaeRit21 Mum (Mom) Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: Scotland Posts: 1,701	i have done, i really am done with them. i didnt realise she'd need ID to take bubs in, thank you for the info, that helps settle my mind somewhat! im glad im not the only one to think im not being unreasonable you ladies are angels, honestly xxxx

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Nov 8th, 2009, 17:32 PM	#23
angie79 Pregnant (Expecting) BnB Addict Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: herts Posts: 6,557	glad it settles your mind sounds like your the only reasonable one out of all of them xx

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Nov 8th, 2009, 17:38 PM	#24
KaeRit21 Mum (Mom) Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: Scotland Posts: 1,701	not that theyd have you believe that. amazes me how some people just cant see two feet in front of them awk i dont even know why i bother gettin all upset and ratty at all. where does it get me? and its not like they care or take any notice. if they'd listened, i wouldnt have to keep repeating myself... xxx

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Nov 8th, 2009, 17:56 PM	#25
angie79 Pregnant (Expecting) BnB Addict Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: herts Posts: 6,557	record it and put it on a loop and send it to them i still let people bother me far too much but i'm getting alot better in the last few years i would love to be having a baby in a few weeks your very lucky to have gift like that (cheesy i know) just remember that thats all you need right now xx

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Nov 8th, 2009, 18:01 PM	#26
KaeRit21 Mum (Mom) Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: Scotland Posts: 1,701	this little squirmy bundle is the only thing keeping me sane, i know im a lucky girl just wish they would stop trying to ruin my last weeks and let me get on with enjoying my wee baby. itl be your turn soon hunni and ul have your own wee bundle xxx

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Nov 8th, 2009, 18:15 PM	#27
angie79 Pregnant (Expecting) BnB Addict Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: herts Posts: 6,557	i know - thanks they should know to leave it cos of the stress to the baby but some people just dont think about these things xx

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Nov 8th, 2009, 18:30 PM	#28
sweetlullaby Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Apr 2009 Location: Uk Posts: 6,337	read through the post...i hope you had your bath and tummy massage You sound as though your not as upset now! Dont let her get to you....though i know thats a lot easier said than done! Awwwk its so unfair you've only 3 weeks to go and your being harrassed and stressed like this. The woman should know better than to put so much pressure on you!! I know how you feel about being stressed and worried...i realised when glancing through my messages that FOB has text the last few times... exactly 3 weeks apart!! So i keep having this feeling of dread that he's gonna contact me tomorrow and stress me out and upset me all over again And as due date is waaay closer now...i reckon the stress will be waaay worse...im gonna be like a time bomb tomorrow just waiting if he texts me at all! Oh and your definately not being unreasonable! xxx

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Nov 8th, 2009, 18:31 PM	#29
KaeRit21 Mum (Mom) Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: Scotland Posts: 1,701	some people just lack common sense. irritates the life out of me. i sometimes wonder how she'd have reacted if it'd been her when she was having her LO. xxx

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Nov 8th, 2009, 18:35 PM	#30
sweetlullaby Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Apr 2009 Location: Uk Posts: 6,337	I would ask her next time she annoys you lol Tell her to put herself in your shoes and would she be doing what she's trying to pressurise you and guilt trip you into doing? Either that or use the "not so polite" words from the dictionary and tell her where to go! lol xx

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