Need to rant! - Page 2

KaeRit21 · Nov 8th, 2009, 16:04 PM

yea, but to be honest, before he went the whole family was spineless, would rather shout at me and text me than come to my house to sort everything out.
and the letter i recieved went to HIS SISTERS address and I had to pick it up!!!!, my name isnt even written on it anywhere

his friend has been a friend of mine for a good few years so i know hes not bad mouthing me, and was nice enough to come to me and tell me exactly what fob had told him....and i happily put him straight. he knew there was more to the story and wanted me to have my say

i just feel like my heads round the twist cant do right for seemingly doing wrong...i so wish i could just ignore them...there only stressing me out and if they were so damn worried about seeing this baby or me keeping contact with him, he should have been there when i needed him and shown some interest and support towards me and this baby.

i give up. i hate them and him for all of this

. my baby deserves better.

xxxx

lou_w34 · Nov 8th, 2009, 16:10 PM

Your right, your baby does deserve better. And they do have better, they have you

Ahhh im glad he's a good friend! We all need good friends

Its so hard to suggest whats to do for the best, its so easy to say to you to just ignore them, but at the end of the day its so hard to ignore people when they stress/ upset you so much, I think in time though, especially when your bubs is here (not long now!!!

) they will be the last people on your mind, you will be so busy with the baby.

Your baby has you, and that will be more than enough

KaeRit21 · Nov 8th, 2009, 16:14 PM

thanks chicken

your all being so nice and listening to me rabbit on...wish i could buy you all a presnt and some ear plugs

im over them now. im sick to death of the constant stream of them trying to get me to do what they want

im a grown person, not some silly little girl whos going to bend to his beck and call now it suits him

xxx

lou_w34 · Nov 8th, 2009, 16:17 PM

Haha! Its ok! We all need to let it out at times! Im one of the worst for it, if i keep it inside i feel like im gunna blow up

Exactly! Besides... how much can he really do behind bars

heehee.

KaeRit21 · Nov 8th, 2009, 16:22 PM

aint like he can come and get me.

i actually had this fear that he was going to take my LO away. FAT CHANCE.

ive told his sister that she wont be babysitting and she wont be seeing my baby without me there...i know for a fact that she'd take bubs to see him without me knowing...and then lie. i dont trust them. any of them

thanks again ladies...duno what i'd do without all your words of comfort on here

it really means a lot

xxxx

lou_w34 · Nov 8th, 2009, 16:29 PM

I had that fear too, then one day i just woke up thinking why the hell did i think that??? Id move to the moon before he even had a chance

heehee

Your perfectly within your right to tell her that, and if she really wants to see the baby, she will accept it!

Jemma_x · Nov 8th, 2009, 16:30 PM

KaeRit21 · Nov 8th, 2009, 16:46 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by lou_w34

I had that fear too, then one day i just woke up thinking why the hell did i think that??? Id move to the moon before he even had a chance

heehee

Your perfectly within your right to tell her that, and if she really wants to see the baby, she will accept it!

i just cant stand the thought of my precious wee bundle going into a place like that and getting searched **shudders*. that and the fact he doesnt deserve to have baby go see him for cuddles. hell no.

she has a 18 month lil boy and she wont take him so why she expected me to take bubs i have no idea

xxxx

lou_w34 · Nov 8th, 2009, 16:52 PM

I wouldnt like that either, and i expect i would refuse to let my baby go into a prison either!! No way in hell!!! And thats so hypocritical of her! Shed never take her own child but expects you to take yours?!?!?!

I wish they could all go to a prison where useless men go!! That way we would never have to see them haha!

KaeRit21 · Nov 8th, 2009, 16:57 PM

i know.. its unreal. now you know why i feel like am banging my head off a brick wall.

its gna get to the stage im only gonna text back if shes got a question specifically related to either me or baby, anything remotely related to him im ignoring. i wont answer or text her back. dont see why i should!!

xxx

Nov 8th, 2009, 16:04 PM	#11
KaeRit21 Mum (Mom) Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: Scotland Posts: 1,701	yea, but to be honest, before he went the whole family was spineless, would rather shout at me and text me than come to my house to sort everything out. and the letter i recieved went to HIS SISTERS address and I had to pick it up!!!!, my name isnt even written on it anywhere his friend has been a friend of mine for a good few years so i know hes not bad mouthing me, and was nice enough to come to me and tell me exactly what fob had told him....and i happily put him straight. he knew there was more to the story and wanted me to have my say i just feel like my heads round the twist cant do right for seemingly doing wrong...i so wish i could just ignore them...there only stressing me out and if they were so damn worried about seeing this baby or me keeping contact with him, he should have been there when i needed him and shown some interest and support towards me and this baby. i give up. i hate them and him for all of this . my baby deserves better. xxxx

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lou_w34 Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Apr 2009 Posts: 1,987	Your right, your baby does deserve better. And they do have better, they have you Ahhh im glad he's a good friend! We all need good friends Its so hard to suggest whats to do for the best, its so easy to say to you to just ignore them, but at the end of the day its so hard to ignore people when they stress/ upset you so much, I think in time though, especially when your bubs is here (not long now!!! ) they will be the last people on your mind, you will be so busy with the baby. Your baby has you, and that will be more than enough

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Nov 8th, 2009, 16:14 PM	#13
KaeRit21 Mum (Mom) Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: Scotland Posts: 1,701	thanks chicken your all being so nice and listening to me rabbit on...wish i could buy you all a presnt and some ear plugs im over them now. im sick to death of the constant stream of them trying to get me to do what they want im a grown person, not some silly little girl whos going to bend to his beck and call now it suits him xxx

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Nov 8th, 2009, 16:17 PM	#14
lou_w34 Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Apr 2009 Posts: 1,987	Haha! Its ok! We all need to let it out at times! Im one of the worst for it, if i keep it inside i feel like im gunna blow up Exactly! Besides... how much can he really do behind bars heehee.

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Nov 8th, 2009, 16:22 PM	#15
KaeRit21 Mum (Mom) Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: Scotland Posts: 1,701	aint like he can come and get me. i actually had this fear that he was going to take my LO away. FAT CHANCE. ive told his sister that she wont be babysitting and she wont be seeing my baby without me there...i know for a fact that she'd take bubs to see him without me knowing...and then lie. i dont trust them. any of them thanks again ladies...duno what i'd do without all your words of comfort on here it really means a lot xxxx

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Nov 8th, 2009, 16:29 PM	#16
lou_w34 Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Apr 2009 Posts: 1,987	I had that fear too, then one day i just woke up thinking why the hell did i think that??? Id move to the moon before he even had a chance heehee Your perfectly within your right to tell her that, and if she really wants to see the baby, she will accept it!

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Nov 8th, 2009, 16:52 PM	#19
lou_w34 Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Apr 2009 Posts: 1,987	I wouldnt like that either, and i expect i would refuse to let my baby go into a prison either!! No way in hell!!! And thats so hypocritical of her! Shed never take her own child but expects you to take yours?!?!?! I wish they could all go to a prison where useless men go!! That way we would never have to see them haha!

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Nov 8th, 2009, 16:57 PM	#20
KaeRit21 Mum (Mom) Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: Scotland Posts: 1,701	i know.. its unreal. now you know why i feel like am banging my head off a brick wall. its gna get to the stage im only gonna text back if shes got a question specifically related to either me or baby, anything remotely related to him im ignoring. i wont answer or text her back. dont see why i should!! xxx

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