Got a letter from him - Page 2

KaeRit21 · Nov 6th, 2009, 07:47 AM

sorry about the rant

....ive yet to tell my mum ive had a letter from him so ive no one else to talk to this about

xxx

asacia · Nov 6th, 2009, 07:55 AM

Just wanted to let you know that I visited my Dad in prison as a kid, it really wasn't a scary or traumatic place, so don't let fear influence your decision.

KaeRit21 · Nov 6th, 2009, 07:58 AM

its not to do with fear hun, its simply to do with the fact i dont wanna see him. hes done nothing but lie to me and mess me around and i walked away from the relationship, just like i told him i would.
ive forgiven him every time hes treated me badly and this time i just refuse to do it.

i hate the actual sight of him...and i dont know why i should put myself through that for someone who hasnt shown an ounce of care towards me

xxx

lou_w34 · Nov 6th, 2009, 08:00 AM

I personally wouldnt waste my time or effort with a reply...
Everytime FOB would contact me with a load of shit, id always want to reply with a load of abuse back, i did it once and the next day i instantly regretted it, i wished id have taken the higher road and just ignored him. Which is what i do now, and i think the fact that he gets hardly any contact from me just about kills him

Of course its up too you though

Just make sure you dont do or say anything you will regret in the long run

They are such arseholes! grrrrrr

KaeRit21 · Nov 6th, 2009, 08:04 AM

i think i might just write out a letter and get my anger out...and rip it up.
god he makes me so angry....ive never hated sumone so much in my whole life.

xxx

lou_w34 · Nov 6th, 2009, 08:36 AM

Yeah go for it!! And if you find you want to send it then send it too him.
Its so frustrating knowing that they can say/do what they want, and we have to deal with all consequences that it brings!

KaeRit21 · Nov 6th, 2009, 15:14 PM

his sister is in the huff with me now...she text me earlier to ask if i had any messages for him as she was going to visit him....and i um...ignored it.

i just dont get why shes also trying to make me feel guilty. she of all people knows i couldnt have tried any harder with him.

some people make me so angry its unreal!!!

xxxx

lou_w34 · Nov 6th, 2009, 15:42 PM

Why should you have any messages for him??? Youve done nothing wrong, and you did your best to include him. Its his own fault for being in the situation that he is, he's brought it on himself and now has to deal with the consequences...tough.

Just ignore her. She should no better!

I feel your anger! I hate being so angry all the time!

KaeRit21 · Nov 6th, 2009, 15:53 PM

awk i know. im ignoring them all now, him his sister and his "family"

they all think its perfectly acceptable that hes done nothing for this baby, and that i should be running after his ass.

well TOUGH. ive had enough, im a grown person and they're treating me like am about 5

xxx

lou_w34 · Nov 6th, 2009, 16:10 PM

Sounds like my FOB, wants to contribute sod all... yet im sposed to run around after him!

There all such tossers!

Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr

xxx

Nov 6th, 2009, 07:47 AM	#11
KaeRit21 Mum (Mom) Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: Scotland Posts: 1,701	sorry about the rant ....ive yet to tell my mum ive had a letter from him so ive no one else to talk to this about xxx

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Nov 6th, 2009, 07:55 AM	#12
asacia Mum (Mom) Inactive Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: Surrey Posts: 1,708	Just wanted to let you know that I visited my Dad in prison as a kid, it really wasn't a scary or traumatic place, so don't let fear influence your decision.

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Nov 6th, 2009, 07:58 AM	#13
KaeRit21 Mum (Mom) Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: Scotland Posts: 1,701	its not to do with fear hun, its simply to do with the fact i dont wanna see him. hes done nothing but lie to me and mess me around and i walked away from the relationship, just like i told him i would. ive forgiven him every time hes treated me badly and this time i just refuse to do it. i hate the actual sight of him...and i dont know why i should put myself through that for someone who hasnt shown an ounce of care towards me xxx

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Nov 6th, 2009, 08:00 AM	#14
lou_w34 Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Apr 2009 Posts: 1,988	I personally wouldnt waste my time or effort with a reply... Everytime FOB would contact me with a load of shit, id always want to reply with a load of abuse back, i did it once and the next day i instantly regretted it, i wished id have taken the higher road and just ignored him. Which is what i do now, and i think the fact that he gets hardly any contact from me just about kills him Of course its up too you though Just make sure you dont do or say anything you will regret in the long run They are such arseholes! grrrrrr

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Nov 6th, 2009, 08:04 AM	#15
KaeRit21 Mum (Mom) Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: Scotland Posts: 1,701	i think i might just write out a letter and get my anger out...and rip it up. god he makes me so angry....ive never hated sumone so much in my whole life. xxx

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Nov 6th, 2009, 08:36 AM	#16
lou_w34 Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Apr 2009 Posts: 1,988	Yeah go for it!! And if you find you want to send it then send it too him. Its so frustrating knowing that they can say/do what they want, and we have to deal with all consequences that it brings!

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Nov 6th, 2009, 15:14 PM	#17
KaeRit21 Mum (Mom) Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: Scotland Posts: 1,701	his sister is in the huff with me now...she text me earlier to ask if i had any messages for him as she was going to visit him....and i um...ignored it. i just dont get why shes also trying to make me feel guilty. she of all people knows i couldnt have tried any harder with him. some people make me so angry its unreal!!! xxxx

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Nov 6th, 2009, 15:42 PM	#18
lou_w34 Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Apr 2009 Posts: 1,988	Why should you have any messages for him??? Youve done nothing wrong, and you did your best to include him. Its his own fault for being in the situation that he is, he's brought it on himself and now has to deal with the consequences...tough. Just ignore her. She should no better! I feel your anger! I hate being so angry all the time!

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Nov 6th, 2009, 15:53 PM	#19
KaeRit21 Mum (Mom) Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: Scotland Posts: 1,701	awk i know. im ignoring them all now, him his sister and his "family" they all think its perfectly acceptable that hes done nothing for this baby, and that i should be running after his ass. well TOUGH. ive had enough, im a grown person and they're treating me like am about 5 xxx

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Nov 6th, 2009, 16:10 PM	#20
lou_w34 Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Apr 2009 Posts: 1,988	Sounds like my FOB, wants to contribute sod all... yet im sposed to run around after him! There all such tossers! Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr xxx

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