Well after 6 months Luke finally bothered to text me but was it to ask about his son NO this the messages I have recieved

'Heya do you fancy goin 4 a drink? x' - I didnt reply

'?' - I replied saying I think you have the wrong person

'No i dnt!lol' - I didnt reply

'So watcha say then?' I didnt reply

'I knw ive been a masive prick, imature, dangerous and untrusting, i didnt treat u rite atal and u do deserve beta! I was jst acting like a stupid young boy instead of being at home with a girl and a son that needed my help. I had no thorts of any1 by myself and was selfish. I realise nw that im way 2 late and thats ok, bt want u 2 knw i thinkabout u and jacob everynite and wish i saw it b4 as nw its so late! Jst wud love 2 have a drink sumtime!' - I didnt reply plus the grammar made me cringe

'Morning!' - I didnt reply

'Hey cn we chat sumtime?' - I didnt reply

'Heya, cud u let me knw if u fanct a drink sumtime>' - I didnt reply

'Do you and jacob fancy cuming over, and i cud cook u a realy nice lunch?' - I didnt reply

After 6 months not once has he asked how his child is! Not a mention of the thousands of pounds he owes me. He is just acting nice as pie as if nothing has happened! I have since found out that him and his new girlfriend have split up and that is the only reason he has come sniffing around!

Sorry to bore you all with my life but he has really wound me up x

Good on you for not replying

You are so much better than me for not replying, I wouldn't have been able to stop myself telling him exactly what I thought of him.

so glad you didn't reply becky, can't believe he never asked about jacob xx

You dont need him and its great to see you feel how I do about Lee now, anger!!

Hmmmmph! He sounds like a real catch (not!)

The bloody cheek of him - good on you for ignoring - I think I would have replied with 7 barrels of shite (which is definitely not better than ignoring!)

You've got the moral high ground and you hang on to it!

I have masses of respect for you

(and you're right about the grammar...cringey!!)

xx

Haha wow this is REALLY similar to my situation except my baby hasn't been born yet. He got a new girlfriend 2 months after I found out I was pregnant and that was it, we didn't say a word to each other for 3 months. Which was fine by me cos I thought he really was the biggest prick in the world. Then, after 3 months of nothing he decided to message me on facebook saying he wanted to be involved again and it was all meaningless apologies and "I know I've been an arsehole but I've had time to think"....(and yeah you guessed it, he'd split up with his girlfriend). Well done for not replying, to be honest at this stage I wish I'd done the same because I gave him 1 more chance (not with me but to have contact with his son) and it's only been 2 weeks and he's already proven that he hasn't changed about 30,000 times. But time shall tell. I know I'd be better off doing it on my own and things were SO much easier the 3 months when he wasn't around.

I really do think you're doing the right thing ignoring him and have so much respect for you for doing so. For me it was guilt that made me give him another chance, I know I'd feel guilty that I hadn't given Aiden one more chance to have a daddy but I know what the outcome is gonna be in the end anyway. I hope he gets off your case soon! can't believe he didn't even ask how Jacob was. What a scumbag!! xxx

What a jerk!

well done for standing your ground hun! How dare he think that after so long of not bothering he can just turn around and say "ok I'm ready now" cheek of it!!!

he has just text again

'Heya, fancy a chat?' - suprise suprise I didnt reply x