is he really going to let go of her that easy??

jazmine18 · Jun 27th, 2009, 15:09 PM

im just feeling down. me and OH spilt up, i found out he was cheating with at least 3 other girls, he has had sex with them all, then before i had a chance to sling him. he told me he dont think he loves me and dont want to be with me
since we spilt he hasnt asked how his daughter is, or how her doctor appointment went, nothing. he said he still wants to see her but hasnt made any arrangement of when.

i dont want to be in limbo, so i text him in the morning saying "can you let me know which days and where do you want to see sophia? if you dont text back by tonight, i'll take it you dont care and cut you out of both our lifes"
im sick of chasing him down, even when we were together i had to.

so, anyway, its now around 8pm and nothing. i know im going to be devasted if he doesnt reply,not for me but my lil girl, just needed to vent really, any support would be nice

thanks

Tinka · Jun 27th, 2009, 15:25 PM

hey,

I'm kinda new to this site but i feel so sorry for you, it must be hard for you to feel anything but let down by this guy. I haven't had contact with my ex since i was 7 months pregnant - my LO is now 18 months - he's not bothered and to be honest were doin fine by ourselves.

I'd leave it to him to make contact, but i wouldn't get your hopes up even if he does get in touch, he just seems to want to have his cake and eat it.

Anyway stay strong, don't worry about it and just take care of your beautifully little girl.

Karma will catch up with him eventually

x

jazmine18 · Jun 27th, 2009, 15:49 PM

i just had a good vent to one of his female friends that i trust, and she must of just giving him an ear bashing down the phone because within minutes of our convo, he had text me back..but still he could be just saying stuff to keep me quite..and if he thinks he's taking the baby off by himself round his new lil gf's then he has another thing coming.

dreams · Jun 27th, 2009, 16:40 PM

I haven't spoken to Ffion's father since i was erm 3 months pregnant i think it was. I sent him scan pictures but he didn't seem interested and never bothered. I did have a text the week i was due though and that was it. He hasn't seen her and asked anything since.

Some men are just so immature but in my circumstances i think that we are much better off if he isn't in her life because he has a history of violence.

I hope that you do manage to sort out a routine and things happen the way you want. Take care x

jazmine18 · Jun 27th, 2009, 17:05 PM

thanks. yeah, i suppose i just need to be strong and get on with my last then he will be the last thing on my mind.

Jun 27th, 2009, 15:09 PM	#1
jazmine18 Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jun 2008 Location: London Posts: 919	is he really going to let go of her that easy?? im just feeling down. me and OH spilt up, i found out he was cheating with at least 3 other girls, he has had sex with them all, then before i had a chance to sling him. he told me he dont think he loves me and dont want to be with me since we spilt he hasnt asked how his daughter is, or how her doctor appointment went, nothing. he said he still wants to see her but hasnt made any arrangement of when. i dont want to be in limbo, so i text him in the morning saying "can you let me know which days and where do you want to see sophia? if you dont text back by tonight, i'll take it you dont care and cut you out of both our lifes" im sick of chasing him down, even when we were together i had to. so, anyway, its now around 8pm and nothing. i know im going to be devasted if he doesnt reply,not for me but my lil girl, just needed to vent really, any support would be nice thanks

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Jun 27th, 2009, 15:25 PM	#2
Tinka Mum (Mom) Join Date: Jun 2009 Posts: 3	hey, I'm kinda new to this site but i feel so sorry for you, it must be hard for you to feel anything but let down by this guy. I haven't had contact with my ex since i was 7 months pregnant - my LO is now 18 months - he's not bothered and to be honest were doin fine by ourselves. I'd leave it to him to make contact, but i wouldn't get your hopes up even if he does get in touch, he just seems to want to have his cake and eat it. Anyway stay strong, don't worry about it and just take care of your beautifully little girl. Karma will catch up with him eventually x
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Jun 27th, 2009, 15:49 PM	#3
jazmine18 Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jun 2008 Location: London Posts: 919	i just had a good vent to one of his female friends that i trust, and she must of just giving him an ear bashing down the phone because within minutes of our convo, he had text me back..but still he could be just saying stuff to keep me quite..and if he thinks he's taking the baby off by himself round his new lil gf's then he has another thing coming.

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Jun 27th, 2009, 16:40 PM	#4
dreams Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: Pontyberem, Llanelli Posts: 1,941	I haven't spoken to Ffion's father since i was erm 3 months pregnant i think it was. I sent him scan pictures but he didn't seem interested and never bothered. I did have a text the week i was due though and that was it. He hasn't seen her and asked anything since. Some men are just so immature but in my circumstances i think that we are much better off if he isn't in her life because he has a history of violence. I hope that you do manage to sort out a routine and things happen the way you want. Take care x

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Jun 27th, 2009, 17:05 PM	#5
jazmine18 Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jun 2008 Location: London Posts: 919	thanks. yeah, i suppose i just need to be strong and get on with my last then he will be the last thing on my mind.

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