Newly single, few questions

Emma1980 · Jun 12th, 2009, 08:33 AM

Me and my BF split on sunday, im surprised it even lasted that long, he is not at all impressed that i am pregnant, tho he is at least acknowledging it so i guess thats something...

He already has 3 children, to 3 different women so soon to be 4 to 4

i just wondered what i should expect in maintenance payments? he earns around £290 a week after tax. but taking into mind the 3 kids he already has i cant seem to work it out on the csa calculator thingymebob

thanks in advance!

jesse k + x · Jun 16th, 2009, 03:44 AM

I cant help on the child support front hun - maybe give CSA a call and see if they can help??

Ur ex sounds alot like my DD's father - hes got 3 kids to 3 different women. Then again, this babys dad is the same - Xavier will be my ex's 3rd child and i'm the 3rd woman lol Go figure. *sigh*

Hopefully he does the right thing and stands by u and his child. What is he like with his other 2 kids?? My ex does the bare minimum and only when nagged by his mother (or me when i was with him) to make the effort with his kids. He told me he wants nothing to do with me and his baby when i was 12wks pregnant..... and tho we live in the same town, ive heard nothing from him since. He's a jerk, so im not expecting him to do the right thing by this baby....

Good thing these babies have strong mummies!!

jesse k + x · Jun 16th, 2009, 03:45 AM

I cant help on the child support front hun - maybe give CSA a call and see if they can help??

Ur ex sounds alot like my DD's father - hes got 3 kids to 3 different women. Then again, this babys dad is the same - Xavier will be my ex's 3rd child and i'm the 3rd woman lol Go figure. *sigh*

Hopefully he does the right thing and stands by u and his child. What is he like with his other 2 kids?? My ex does the bare minimum and only when nagged by his mother (or me when i was with him) to make the effort with his kids. He told me he wants nothing to do with me and his baby when i was 12wks pregnant..... and tho we live in the same town, ive heard nothing from him since. He's a jerk, so im not expecting him to do the right thing by this baby....

Good thing these babies have strong mummies!!

starbucks101 · Jun 16th, 2009, 06:11 AM

if he earns £290 a week then there is 4 children, providing he doesnt have any living in his household her is liable to pay overall £72 a week then you divide it by 4 so you'll be looking to get £18 a week from him.

Hope that helps! xx

saff1978 · Jun 16th, 2009, 08:11 AM

See if u can arrange an agreement between the 2 of u, wishful thinking probably I know, but from my experience with the CSA it'll be years before anythign is sorted. Good luck x

Jun 12th, 2009, 08:33 AM	#1
Emma1980 Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: May 2009 Location: Ashton Under Lyne Posts: 3,405	Newly single, few questions Me and my BF split on sunday, im surprised it even lasted that long, he is not at all impressed that i am pregnant, tho he is at least acknowledging it so i guess thats something... He already has 3 children, to 3 different women so soon to be 4 to 4 i just wondered what i should expect in maintenance payments? he earns around £290 a week after tax. but taking into mind the 3 kids he already has i cant seem to work it out on the csa calculator thingymebob thanks in advance!

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Jun 16th, 2009, 03:44 AM	#2
jesse k + x Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: Maryborough QLD Australia Posts: 28	I cant help on the child support front hun - maybe give CSA a call and see if they can help?? Ur ex sounds alot like my DD's father - hes got 3 kids to 3 different women. Then again, this babys dad is the same - Xavier will be my ex's 3rd child and i'm the 3rd woman lol Go figure. sigh Hopefully he does the right thing and stands by u and his child. What is he like with his other 2 kids?? My ex does the bare minimum and only when nagged by his mother (or me when i was with him) to make the effort with his kids. He told me he wants nothing to do with me and his baby when i was 12wks pregnant..... and tho we live in the same town, ive heard nothing from him since. He's a jerk, so im not expecting him to do the right thing by this baby.... Good thing these babies have strong mummies!!

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Jun 16th, 2009, 03:45 AM	#3
jesse k + x Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: Maryborough QLD Australia Posts: 28	I cant help on the child support front hun - maybe give CSA a call and see if they can help?? Ur ex sounds alot like my DD's father - hes got 3 kids to 3 different women. Then again, this babys dad is the same - Xavier will be my ex's 3rd child and i'm the 3rd woman lol Go figure. sigh Hopefully he does the right thing and stands by u and his child. What is he like with his other 2 kids?? My ex does the bare minimum and only when nagged by his mother (or me when i was with him) to make the effort with his kids. He told me he wants nothing to do with me and his baby when i was 12wks pregnant..... and tho we live in the same town, ive heard nothing from him since. He's a jerk, so im not expecting him to do the right thing by this baby.... Good thing these babies have strong mummies!!

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Jun 16th, 2009, 06:11 AM	#4
starbucks101 Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: Norfolk Posts: 1,033	if he earns £290 a week then there is 4 children, providing he doesnt have any living in his household her is liable to pay overall £72 a week then you divide it by 4 so you'll be looking to get £18 a week from him. Hope that helps! xx

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Jun 16th, 2009, 08:11 AM	#5
saff1978 Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Dec 2008 Posts: 11	See if u can arrange an agreement between the 2 of u, wishful thinking probably I know, but from my experience with the CSA it'll be years before anythign is sorted. Good luck x

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