Secondary infertility is the pits!

AliKat · Nov 29th, 2009, 14:03 PM

Hey ladies! My husband and I have been trying for baby #2 for a long time now. Well, more like NTNP. We have used NO birth control what so ever since my daughter was born 11 years ago...crazy.
I was referred to a fertility specialist, got the blood work done on days 3, 10, and 21.... had dye ran through my tubes....all to find out I am still good to go, and even have ovaries of an 18 year old (as my Dr. put it) I'm 31 years old. My husband had a sperm count done and he's normal. That was a bit upsetting to me, as I had hoped we weren't getting pregnant because of him. lol

I'm so happy to see this secondary infertility forum on here! I don't feel so alone in this struggle anymore.

Hoping we all will get our BFP and SOON...I'm sick and tired of disappointment month after month!!!!!!!!

AliKat · Nov 30th, 2009, 21:19 PM

Nevermind!!!! I'm pregnant!!! FINALLYYYYYYYYYYYYY Got 3

today!!

lady blush · Dec 1st, 2009, 09:11 AM

congratulation hunni h&h 9 months.looks like you've been trying for a long long time.

i hope to get a sucssess story like your as i have been trying for years too.

AliKat · Dec 1st, 2009, 18:28 PM

Thank you! You will get yours girl...when you least expect it! We didn't even try last month. He was gone alot so BD'ing was seriously limited. It's as they say....stop trying and it will happen.......and it did! lol

Smiler13 · Dec 2nd, 2009, 15:37 PM

Wow, congratulations! What a coincidence that you'd just posted and then got your BFP! Best wishes for your pregnancy.

mrskcbrown · Dec 15th, 2009, 11:06 AM

I too am a long term TTCer. I have been wanting to get BFP since my daughter was born and she will be 9 next week. I have gotten remarried and it looks like its him, due to morphology issues. So I guess Im in for the long haul. Most people with morphology issues get pregnant but it takes them a long while! 10 months so far.....counting!:<(
I have the option of IUI but DH wants to keep trying without it first, so Ill keep you posted!

AliKat · Jan 10th, 2010, 17:46 PM

sorry ladies, had a chemical pregnancy Dec 4th

I am now 2 days late, No AF, and negative hpt's. UGH....i'm so sick of this!!!!!!!!!!

MommyMichele · Jan 16th, 2010, 06:37 AM

Sorry Ali!

We are right here with you though! No one needs to ever go through this alone.

AliKat · Jan 18th, 2010, 20:26 PM

Thank you

I am now 10 days late with nothing but negative HPT's...I don't know what to think anymore....and about to just give up. I'm beginning to feel as though it's not worth all this heartache month after month after month....

MommyMichele · Jan 19th, 2010, 05:45 AM

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Originally Posted by AliKat

Thank you

I am now 10 days late with nothing but negative HPT's...I don't know what to think anymore....and about to just give up. I'm beginning to feel as though it's not worth all this heartache month after month after month....

Worth changing poopy diapers forever? maybe or maybe not
Worth the smell of a clean baby and that look of unconditional look they give you? Totally worth it!

Nov 29th, 2009, 14:03 PM	#1
AliKat Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2009 Location: New York Posts: 201	Secondary infertility is the pits! Hey ladies! My husband and I have been trying for baby #2 for a long time now. Well, more like NTNP. We have used NO birth control what so ever since my daughter was born 11 years ago...crazy. I was referred to a fertility specialist, got the blood work done on days 3, 10, and 21.... had dye ran through my tubes....all to find out I am still good to go, and even have ovaries of an 18 year old (as my Dr. put it) I'm 31 years old. My husband had a sperm count done and he's normal. That was a bit upsetting to me, as I had hoped we weren't getting pregnant because of him. lol I'm so happy to see this secondary infertility forum on here! I don't feel so alone in this struggle anymore. Hoping we all will get our BFP and SOON...I'm sick and tired of disappointment month after month!!!!!!!!

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Dec 1st, 2009, 09:11 AM	#3
lady blush Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: Oct 2009 Posts: 302	congratulation hunni h&h 9 months.looks like you've been trying for a long long time. i hope to get a sucssess story like your as i have been trying for years too.

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Dec 1st, 2009, 18:28 PM	#4
AliKat Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2009 Location: New York Posts: 201	Thank you! You will get yours girl...when you least expect it! We didn't even try last month. He was gone alot so BD'ing was seriously limited. It's as they say....stop trying and it will happen.......and it did! lol

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Dec 2nd, 2009, 15:37 PM	#5
Smiler13 Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Apr 2009 Location: Surrey Posts: 496	Wow, congratulations! What a coincidence that you'd just posted and then got your BFP! Best wishes for your pregnancy.

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Dec 15th, 2009, 11:06 AM	#6
mrskcbrown Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Sep 2009 Location: MISSISSIPPI (dA DuRtY sOuTh) Posts: 5,300	I too am a long term TTCer. I have been wanting to get BFP since my daughter was born and she will be 9 next week. I have gotten remarried and it looks like its him, due to morphology issues. So I guess Im in for the long haul. Most people with morphology issues get pregnant but it takes them a long while! 10 months so far.....counting!:<( I have the option of IUI but DH wants to keep trying without it first, so Ill keep you posted!

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Nov 30th, 2009, 21:19 PM	#2
AliKat Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2009 Location: New York Posts: 201	Nevermind!!!! I'm pregnant!!! FINALLYYYYYYYYYYYYY Got 3 today!!

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Jan 10th, 2010, 17:46 PM	#7
AliKat Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2009 Location: New York Posts: 201	sorry ladies, had a chemical pregnancy Dec 4th I am now 2 days late, No AF, and negative hpt's. UGH....i'm so sick of this!!!!!!!!!!

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Jan 16th, 2010, 06:37 AM	#8
MommyMichele AutoSignup (SAAB) BnB Addict Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: Iowa Posts: 2,526	Sorry Ali! We are right here with you though! No one needs to ever go through this alone.

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Jan 18th, 2010, 20:26 PM	#9
AliKat Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2009 Location: New York Posts: 201	Thank you I am now 10 days late with nothing but negative HPT's...I don't know what to think anymore....and about to just give up. I'm beginning to feel as though it's not worth all this heartache month after month after month....

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