Possible secondary infertility

Obsessed4baby · Jul 14th, 2009, 23:53 PM

Hi I have a 12 year old daughter, I have wanted a second child for 7 years but because my husband only wanted one we waited. A year ago we decided to start trying , he saw the light. Well it has been 10 months and still nothing. I have survived the tww and stopped taking tests because the bfn was too depressing. I am wondering if anyone out there has experienced secondary infertility?

tasha41 · Jul 15th, 2009, 00:46 AM

Hi & Welcome!
There's actually a section here that may help you find ladies in similar situations:
http://www.babyandbump.com/secondary-infertility/ there you go!!

Good luck hun.

Obsessed4baby · Jul 15th, 2009, 01:01 AM

Thanks, I will check it out

**polo_princess** · Jul 15th, 2009, 07:34 AM

Ive moved this across to our secondary infertility section, im sure the ladies in here will be able to give you some advice and answer any question you have

Sambatiki · Jul 15th, 2009, 07:57 AM

HI hun!

Im currently being treated with secondary infertility after a MC 15 months ago. Most docs will refer you after 12 months TTC. I understand the frustration! Why wont our bodies fall pregnant again! xxx

Wishing you lots of luck with your journey xxx

bumski · Jul 15th, 2009, 08:10 AM

Hi i have a DD who is nearly 10 i fell pregnant with her very easily when i was 17, after she was born i went on the pill for about 6 months, as this didnt agree with me i chose different methods of contraception

IYKWIM
i am now with my DH (not daughters dad), we have been trying for 4 years now, 2 yrs NTNP and 2 yrs trying with no joy but all in all no pill for 9 yrs,
We have recently found out i dont ovulate and have PCOS

Sometimes i just wonder where she came from. good luck to you and getting your

very soon

JASMAK · Jul 15th, 2009, 12:25 PM

I have secondary infertility. I have a son, 6 years, and a daughter, 4 years. I have NEVER used b/c in my life. Both my kids took effort. This time, since my daughter was born, 4.5 years ago, we never used any b/c. It was Dec. 2006 (my husband would argue it was earlier) that we started really trying. I have been on 8 or 9 rounds of Clomid. I also take Prometrium. I have been pregnant 3 times, and I have lost 4 babies (one set was twins). I have had an HSG, lap/hysterscopy/D&C and so far nothing. I have now been referred for a second opinion in Victoria, BC at their fertility clinic. I still TTC on Clomid while waiting, though they want me to take next month off Clomid, but still TTC and "see what my body does on it's own".

Obsessed4baby · Jul 15th, 2009, 19:56 PM

I am sorry to hear that Jasmak, that is alot of emotional ups and downs and lots of work. I wish you all the luck!

It makes me so frustrated. I fell pregnant with my daughter with my husband (then boy friend) by accident. Really, I was like OH my goodness what now? I was scared and unprepared. I just am so thankful to have her.

The problem doesn't seem that im not ovulating because I test and it shows a big Smiley around that time, it's more around the implantation time. I am going to make an appointment for a ovarian ultrasound to see whats going on in there.

I too have not used any birth control since having my daughter 12 1/2 years ago though we did often do natural birth control because my hubby wasn't into it at the time, so frustrating. Well, right now I am at 11dpo and having AF cramps so i'm sure I will be getting her this month. I actually gave up the tww because I was creating phantom pregnancy feelings.

Obsessed4baby · Jul 15th, 2009, 20:00 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by bumski

Hi i have a DD who is nearly 10 i fell pregnant with her very easily when i was 17, after she was born i went on the pill for about 6 months, as this didnt agree with me i chose different methods of contraception

IYKWIM
i am now with my DH (not daughters dad), we have been trying for 4 years now, 2 yrs NTNP and 2 yrs trying with no joy but all in all no pill for 9 yrs,
We have recently found out i dont ovulate and have PCOS

Sometimes i just wonder where she came from. good luck to you and getting your

very soon

Good luck to you too, she must be a strong one, just got in and latched on. Thank God.

Im frustrated because I do ovulate but don't seem to get implantation. Very disappointing when I get so happy to see a smily on my O-test and nothing after.

bumski · Jul 16th, 2009, 04:20 AM

Its really confusing isnt it? i thought when i had my daughter that i would be able to choose exactly the right time to concieve again as i fell so easily with her.
Have you had any tests done yet? x

Jul 14th, 2009, 23:53 PM	#1
Obsessed4baby Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jul 2009 Location: Cali Posts: 23	Possible secondary infertility Hi I have a 12 year old daughter, I have wanted a second child for 7 years but because my husband only wanted one we waited. A year ago we decided to start trying , he saw the light. Well it has been 10 months and still nothing. I have survived the tww and stopped taking tests because the bfn was too depressing. I am wondering if anyone out there has experienced secondary infertility?

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Jul 15th, 2009, 00:46 AM	#2
tasha41 Mum (Mom) BnB Spammer Elite Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: Hamilton, Canada Posts: 23,921	Hi & Welcome! There's actually a section here that may help you find ladies in similar situations: http://www.babyandbump.com/secondary-infertility/ there you go!! Good luck hun.

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Obsessed4baby Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jul 2009 Location: Cali Posts: 23	Thanks, I will check it out

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polo_princess Mum (Mom) BabyandBump Team Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: Hertfordshire Posts: 45,510	Ive moved this across to our secondary infertility section, im sure the ladies in here will be able to give you some advice and answer any question you have

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Sambatiki Trying to conceive (TTC) BnB Spammer Elite Join Date: Apr 2008 Location: Warwickshire/oxfordshire border Posts: 31,030	HI hun! Im currently being treated with secondary infertility after a MC 15 months ago. Most docs will refer you after 12 months TTC. I understand the frustration! Why wont our bodies fall pregnant again! xxx Wishing you lots of luck with your journey xxx

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Jul 15th, 2009, 08:10 AM	#6
bumski Trying to conceive (TTC) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Jun 2008 Location: stoke on trent Posts: 1,633	Hi i have a DD who is nearly 10 i fell pregnant with her very easily when i was 17, after she was born i went on the pill for about 6 months, as this didnt agree with me i chose different methods of contraception IYKWIM i am now with my DH (not daughters dad), we have been trying for 4 years now, 2 yrs NTNP and 2 yrs trying with no joy but all in all no pill for 9 yrs, We have recently found out i dont ovulate and have PCOS Sometimes i just wonder where she came from. good luck to you and getting yourvery soon

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Jul 15th, 2009, 12:25 PM	#7
JASMAK Mum (Mom) BnB Elite Join Date: May 2008 Location: CANADA!!! Posts: 10,951	I have secondary infertility. I have a son, 6 years, and a daughter, 4 years. I have NEVER used b/c in my life. Both my kids took effort. This time, since my daughter was born, 4.5 years ago, we never used any b/c. It was Dec. 2006 (my husband would argue it was earlier) that we started really trying. I have been on 8 or 9 rounds of Clomid. I also take Prometrium. I have been pregnant 3 times, and I have lost 4 babies (one set was twins). I have had an HSG, lap/hysterscopy/D&C and so far nothing. I have now been referred for a second opinion in Victoria, BC at their fertility clinic. I still TTC on Clomid while waiting, though they want me to take next month off Clomid, but still TTC and "see what my body does on it's own".

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Jul 15th, 2009, 19:56 PM	#8
Obsessed4baby Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jul 2009 Location: Cali Posts: 23	I am sorry to hear that Jasmak, that is alot of emotional ups and downs and lots of work. I wish you all the luck! It makes me so frustrated. I fell pregnant with my daughter with my husband (then boy friend) by accident. Really, I was like OH my goodness what now? I was scared and unprepared. I just am so thankful to have her. The problem doesn't seem that im not ovulating because I test and it shows a big Smiley around that time, it's more around the implantation time. I am going to make an appointment for a ovarian ultrasound to see whats going on in there. I too have not used any birth control since having my daughter 12 1/2 years ago though we did often do natural birth control because my hubby wasn't into it at the time, so frustrating. Well, right now I am at 11dpo and having AF cramps so i'm sure I will be getting her this month. I actually gave up the tww because I was creating phantom pregnancy feelings.

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Jul 16th, 2009, 04:20 AM	#10
bumski Trying to conceive (TTC) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Jun 2008 Location: stoke on trent Posts: 1,633	Its really confusing isnt it? i thought when i had my daughter that i would be able to choose exactly the right time to concieve again as i fell so easily with her. Have you had any tests done yet? x

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