taken by suprise...

toby2 · Mar 24th, 2009, 17:35 PM

am on a proper emotinal rollercoaster at the mo-felt fine earlier and then i went to my litte boys two year reveiw...was a bit excited to go in a proud mummy way and its at a new childrens centre which i wanted a nosey at,its a group thing where you are all in together and they watch the children play and then come for a chat with you-i sat down,looked around and realised i was trapped in a room with about 12 mums, all with two year olds but most of whom also either had little/large bumps or newborn babies.....i just burst into tears,am sure they all thought i was mental!lukily col was with me so i just explained to one of the health visitors and she talked to me first so i could go,then felt really guilty as jimbob was having a lovely time but i just couldnt stay-couldnt stop crying for ages after

Welly · Mar 24th, 2009, 19:07 PM

Oh hun

I know exactly how you must have felt. My ds is 4 soon and when I take him to pre-school it upsets me at how many Mums are pushing a buggy, have a bump or are announcing their pregnancies!

I am so aware of the age-gap issue that it is driving me insane! How long have you been ttc? We've been ttc number 2 since Jan 07

Sending massive hugs

Barneyboo · Mar 25th, 2009, 06:41 AM

toby2 · Mar 25th, 2009, 14:59 PM

have been trying to concieve number two since november 2007-had two BFP's since but two m/c at 13wks as well,last one was last month

Welly · Mar 25th, 2009, 20:30 PM

Oh sweet, it's so hard. Words just don't seem to help.

It doesn't get easier though does it? It's CD1 for me today, and it hit me as hard as every other appearance of the witch.

It's nice to meet others experiencing secondary infertility, it is quite a common problem but apparently many sufferers tend to stay quiet as they feel bad complaining as they already have a child??? Not sure how true that is, I read it on another website

Here's hoping your super sticky bfp comes very soon

toby2 · Mar 26th, 2009, 14:28 PM

thank you and yours too!!
I have to say i actually do feel guilty at times as i think ' i already have one and should b grateful for that' BUT on here everyone has been suportive of me and not made me feel like that
your right it is nice to meet people in the same position
am getting +ve opks at the mo so not even at 2ww yet, sorry

got you

JASMAK · Mar 26th, 2009, 20:45 PM

Mar 24th, 2009, 17:35 PM	#1
toby2 Pregnant (Expecting) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Feb 2009 Location: Devon,England Posts: 1,713	taken by suprise... am on a proper emotinal rollercoaster at the mo-felt fine earlier and then i went to my litte boys two year reveiw...was a bit excited to go in a proud mummy way and its at a new childrens centre which i wanted a nosey at,its a group thing where you are all in together and they watch the children play and then come for a chat with you-i sat down,looked around and realised i was trapped in a room with about 12 mums, all with two year olds but most of whom also either had little/large bumps or newborn babies.....i just burst into tears,am sure they all thought i was mental!lukily col was with me so i just explained to one of the health visitors and she talked to me first so i could go,then felt really guilty as jimbob was having a lovely time but i just couldnt stay-couldnt stop crying for ages after

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Welly Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: UK Posts: 362	Oh hun I know exactly how you must have felt. My ds is 4 soon and when I take him to pre-school it upsets me at how many Mums are pushing a buggy, have a bump or are announcing their pregnancies! I am so aware of the age-gap issue that it is driving me insane! How long have you been ttc? We've been ttc number 2 since Jan 07 Sending massive hugs

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toby2 Pregnant (Expecting) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Feb 2009 Location: Devon,England Posts: 1,713	have been trying to concieve number two since november 2007-had two BFP's since but two m/c at 13wks as well,last one was last month

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Welly Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: UK Posts: 362	Oh sweet, it's so hard. Words just don't seem to help. It doesn't get easier though does it? It's CD1 for me today, and it hit me as hard as every other appearance of the witch. It's nice to meet others experiencing secondary infertility, it is quite a common problem but apparently many sufferers tend to stay quiet as they feel bad complaining as they already have a child??? Not sure how true that is, I read it on another website Here's hoping your super sticky bfp comes very soon

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toby2 Pregnant (Expecting) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Feb 2009 Location: Devon,England Posts: 1,713	thank you and yours too!! I have to say i actually do feel guilty at times as i think ' i already have one and should b grateful for that' BUT on here everyone has been suportive of me and not made me feel like that your right it is nice to meet people in the same position am getting +ve opks at the mo so not even at 2ww yet, sorry got you

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