http://www.babyandbump.com en Tue, 02 Dec 2008 11:59:11 GMT vBulletin 60 http://www.babyandbump.com/images/bnb-v370/misc/rss.jpg http://www.babyandbump.com http://www.babyandbump.com/teen-pregnancy/77502-advice-please.html Tue, 02 Dec 2008 01:22:52 GMT i am 18 i have the inplant does it allways work ? i am getting the flowing symptoms sickness, dizzy, high temperature, sore breasts, butterfly... i am 18
i have the inplant does it allways work ?

i am getting the flowing symptoms sickness, dizzy, high temperature, sore breasts, butterfly pains

what should i do ]]> Teen Pregnancy emmalovesnick http://www.babyandbump.com/teen-pregnancy/77502-advice-please.html http://www.babyandbump.com/teen-pregnancy/77397-im-well-confused.html Mon, 01 Dec 2008 19:27:56 GMT My partner is so badly confusing me at the moment...
I found out for certain that i'm expecting my first baby today, But me and my partner have had suspicions about me being pregnant for a little while now, and we've been TTC for a few months, but now i'm actually pregnant he's gone all wierd and doesn't seem to want a baby anymore, but then he does :wacko: So i don't know what to think nomore...
He keeps saying he's happy but then he says he thinks it's too soon, but why couldn't he have said something before because then i would have known and we wouldn't of got this far! but now i'm really excited and really want this baby! But i don't want to go against him because I don't want my baby to not have it's parents together. And i don't want me and my partner to end because i love him so so so much! I'm so confused right now. Help me please!! ]]> Teen Pregnancy 0xDanzz http://www.babyandbump.com/teen-pregnancy/77397-im-well-confused.html http://www.babyandbump.com/teen-pregnancy/77290-thoughts-please.html Mon, 01 Dec 2008 14:01:12 GMT Hello I'm really freaking out at the moment. This morning I was spotting a little bit. It was dark dark red. I phoned my doctor and asked if I should come in or go to the hospital. I was told to come in at 4:30pm but I'm in a panic about whether I should ignore my doctor and go to hospital to get checked.

One of my friends said this early they wouldn't be able to do anything anyway.

It was only 3 or 4 drops of blood this morning and seems to have stopped. I get so worked up every time I have to go to the toilet. I'm scared to check after I've wiped myself.

*cries* ]]> Teen Pregnancy foreverloves http://www.babyandbump.com/teen-pregnancy/77290-thoughts-please.html http://www.babyandbump.com/teen-pregnancy/77113-labour-stories.html Sun, 30 Nov 2008 20:34:06 GMT This is the thread to post your labour stories. Soo tell them (: x This is the thread to post your labour stories.
Soo tell them (:

x ]]> Teen Pregnancy karaaa http://www.babyandbump.com/teen-pregnancy/77113-labour-stories.html http://www.babyandbump.com/teen-pregnancy/76824-so-little-time-so-much-confusion.html Sat, 29 Nov 2008 14:47:41 GMT Right..bit of a long story here but i need some advice ASAP. im due on the 6th december..so a week today :) i cant wait to meet my lil man. hes... Right..bit of a long story here but i need some advice ASAP.
im due on the 6th december..so a week today :) i cant wait to meet my lil man. hes already the light of my life and im so excited to have some1 here who will love me unconditionally and eternally no matter what. hes my whole world! iv enjoyed my pregnancy and would defo have another one :) but at the minute i cant help feeling really depressed incase i lose him or theres complications at the birth or even after hes born..like cot death. i lose sleep over it..i cry nearly everyday with worrying. im absaloutly terrified to have this lil boy taken away from me. its starting to control my life and with just a week to go im absaloutly beside myself. does any1 else feel this way? do u think i should seek advice from a professional coz i am terrified.
before i was pregnant i suffered from anxiety problems anyway and was on beta-blockers to try and help my anxiety. it was over losing people. like my boyfriend leaving me, or family or friends dying..or even just falling out with me. its like a really bad phobia. it controls my life daily. i surely cant be the only person to feel like this?

another problem i need advice with is..my boyfriend. been with him for over 2 years and we had a REALLY good relationship for the first year and a bit..then he started going out drinking with the lads. he ended up full on kissing this other girl back in febuary..which he told me about only because her boyfriend was guna tell me first though, but because i love him and it was the first time it happened..i forgave him and thought it wudnt happen again. and then when i was 12 weeks pregnant..him and a big group of lads went to scummy magaluf for a lads holiday..he even missed my scan..when he got back i asked if anything happened and he said no..but then on a website called bebo..i was looking through the photos and there was a picture of him kissing this other girl..so i confronted him about that and all he could say was "i was realllly drunk and i dont remember who she was or why i did it.." so again i forgave him because i was pregnant and i love him and dont wana be by myself..i thought being pregnant would make a difference but..then..about 8 weeks ago i was at his house and he got a text off an unknown number on a sunday night (he had been out the night before) saying "why did u kiss me then if uv got a girlfriend? x" at this point i was 32 weeks pregnant and felt completely stuck in a rut..when i confronted him about it..all he said was "arr get over it..i cant remember what she looks like! rwhy dont u just go get with a lad then?" and he was totally angry at me!! when its him who had cheated..again..whilst iv been pregnant. not only has he cheated..but hes lied to me since may!!!! hes always been into his dope..loves a joint but he promised that he would quit after magaluf..and since may hes always said "rrr iv quit..i dont even miss it..its shit" but the day after he kissed that girl (8 weeks ago) one of his mates let slip that hes been smoking dope..and when i confronted him about that..he denied it..and kept denying it..and then one day a couple of weeks ago he went out with his mates and i asked him if he was smokin dope..and he said "yeah il admit it..i am..i just didnt wana lose u or the baby.." i wouldnt of been bothered from teh start if he hada been honest with me..coz dopes nothing really. i know its not ideal round a baby though. so now everytime he says something about who hes with, or what hes doing..i duno if hes telling me the truth? hes totally distroyed my confidence and my self esteem but i dont wana leave him because i do love him..but its really getting me down. i really duno what to do..coz when ever i confront him..he just tells me to get a grip :( ]]> Teen Pregnancy x-sammi-x http://www.babyandbump.com/teen-pregnancy/76824-so-little-time-so-much-confusion.html http://www.babyandbump.com/teen-pregnancy/76634-could-really-happen.html Fri, 28 Nov 2008 18:21:41 GMT Ok, so here's the deal. I want to know if there's a chance I could be pregnant. I think there is, but I want to be sure. Because if there is, I need to make some changes. And fast. Here's the background story:

I went on birth control about a month after having my son. I was on it steadily until this past month, so I was on it for about 5 months. This month I went to get my prescription refilled and the pharmacy was closed. I had to wait until the next day where they told me that my insurance wouldn't cover it and the Medicaid system was down. So I had to wait two more days to get it and by that time, I would have had to take the pills in the pack until sunday and then get a new one. My pharmacy won't give me a new one though because it was not the end of the month. So I couldn't take my birth control this month and I can't start it again until I get my next period.

The Here and Now:
Needless to say, my boyfriend and I do not use condoms. We're used to me being on the birth control. I did not hide the fact that I'm not on BC this month from him, but we still didn't make a very good effort to use other protection. Now I'm having some pregnancy symptoms. My breasts are sore, I'm getting dull cramps in my lower stomach, I'm getting nauseous relatively easily (especially when I think of mac & cheese, my favorite food, or when I smoke), I'm getting headaches a lot, I'm tired all the time, and I seems to be peeing a lot.

The Question:
Is this probably a pregnancy or all in my head or just symptoms from coming off the birth control? ]]> Teen Pregnancy aidensxmomma http://www.babyandbump.com/teen-pregnancy/76634-could-really-happen.html http://www.babyandbump.com/teen-pregnancy/76524-much-has-your-life-changed.html Fri, 28 Nov 2008 11:09:50 GMT Hiya teen mommies and mommies to be!
I guess I sorta fit into this catagory being 18, but not really as I'm actually TTC.
anyways, just wanted to ask from the people who have been through it all ..
How has your baby changed your life? and just how do you find it all I suppose.
I guess I just want a bit of help persuading me that I am doing the right thing here, because I know Im still very young, but me and OH just want to start our family, it just seems right.
Look forward to hearing from you x ]]> Teen Pregnancy cherryorange http://www.babyandbump.com/teen-pregnancy/76524-much-has-your-life-changed.html http://www.babyandbump.com/teen-pregnancy/76236-extra-scans.html Thu, 27 Nov 2008 11:34:11 GMT Had my 20 week scan today and the midwife told me because im 18 i get assignd a teen midwife. AND get TWO extra scans because im a teen!!!... Had my 20 week scan today and the midwife told me because im 18 i get assignd a teen midwife. AND get TWO extra scans because im a teen!!! :happydance:
Is this normal? or my hospital bein nice because i know my friend only had the two. ]]> Teen Pregnancy Rach276 http://www.babyandbump.com/teen-pregnancy/76236-extra-scans.html http://www.babyandbump.com/teen-pregnancy/75805-maybe-weird-but-im-really-genuinely-scared.html Tue, 25 Nov 2008 21:36:53 GMT Hiya everyone jes wanna ask if any of you are scared of holdin and takin care of a newbborn baby. I have always been scared of holding newborn babys... Hiya everyone jes wanna ask if any of you are scared of holdin and takin care of a newbborn baby. I have always been scared of holding newborn babys especially standing up. I didnt hold my sis until she was two weeks because i was terrified nd my cousin jes had her second baby begining of sept nd didnt hold her until she was 2 weekss old too even then i had to be sittin down. im now only able to her as im now confident as she can hold her neck up nd she aint so tiny.:blush: i really terrified as i will have to hold nd feed nd change my newborn. l8r on wash him/her.:cry: does anyone know where im commin frm. has anyone eva over come this? im i being stupid? ]]> Teen Pregnancy bootyb http://www.babyandbump.com/teen-pregnancy/75805-maybe-weird-but-im-really-genuinely-scared.html http://www.babyandbump.com/teen-pregnancy/75664-any-teen-mums-going-breastfeed.html Tue, 25 Nov 2008 14:46:53 GMT is anyone in here going to breast feed or has or is breastfeeding?? alot of my friend look at me like im wired when i tell them im goin to... is anyone in here going to breast feed or has or is breastfeeding??

alot of my friend look at me like im wired when i tell them im goin to brestfeed!
is it cuz im a teen mum ??? ]]> Teen Pregnancy Beth_18 http://www.babyandbump.com/teen-pregnancy/75664-any-teen-mums-going-breastfeed.html http://www.babyandbump.com/teen-pregnancy/75557-my-story.html Tue, 25 Nov 2008 07:47:46 GMT I'm 18 years old and I guess I've just been really worried about how things could be. I came on here because I didn't want to be judge or ridiculed and I need to tell someone my story. My girlfriend is 16 and we've been dating for 8 months now. She is the most amazing girl I have ever been with and I always love being around her. We started having sex a little early, around 2 months, but she is the most amazing girl and she had a condom.

Anyway, flash forward to 8 months later. Now I've had sex with two other girls in my life time, one of which was my first time which lasted all about 15 second tops. The other happened to be on birth control and it wasn't a real worry that she would get pregnant. With me and my girlfriend now it's the first time I've had to really worry and I guess I just get caught up in the mood. So a lot of times I would have sex with her and not use a condom, of course I wouldn't ejaculate in her, but pull out.

I've been worrying lately because she can't remember when she last had her period. She doesn't think she had it last month and she hasn't had it this month. Although a lot has been going on. Last month she found out she was moving and she started work. This month her mother announced that she was going to try and have another child and we've been getting into arugements on and off she also started a Tia Kwon Doe class and has been going there almost every other day. I've read stories about girls who miss their periods for 2-3 months and aren't pregnant, but the obvious reason would be that she is.

I love this girl to death and I actually wouldn't mind being a father. But like any father I want my kid to grow up having something. I don't want to be working barely being able to afford the costs of feeding my child. But I don't think I could ever be comfortable with the idea of abortion. I really do love this girl and I've been talking to her a lot about it. She doesn't feel any different, she says she looked up all the signs and she didn't have any of them, but part of me still worries. I mean, her parents will kill me or she'll be killed by them if she is pregnant. They're very strict and she has often told me stories of them hitting her and even drawing knifes and such at her, which is no way to treat anyone.

I want for us to have a pregnancy test and for her to take it but its hard to do that stuff privately. Also, I wanted to know other people's opinions or advice. Right now I can't sleep and I'm just running through every scenario in my head. I love this girl and I know I want to spend the rest of my life with her, but her having a baby at 16 and me being 18 and still not having a job or a driver's license aren't very good steps in being a responsible adult. I honestly don't think I would be ready for the blessing as a child.

What should I do? How should I feel? What if she is pregnant? ]]> Teen Pregnancy Bleach http://www.babyandbump.com/teen-pregnancy/75557-my-story.html http://www.babyandbump.com/teen-pregnancy/75539-teen-mummies-mummies-introduce-yourself.html Tue, 25 Nov 2008 04:40:37 GMT We should get to know each other a bit better probably!

Maybe name, age.. status & details ie: pregnant with boy and mother of 2 girls (if already a parent age you had your babies).. due date.. where you're from.. any other details you want to share/feel are significant

- - - - - - - - - - - -

I'm Natasha, and I'm 19.

I'm pregnant with my first child- due in March, I wish I could tell you all the sex but baby wasn't giving it up! My pregnancy was unplanned but has changed my life for the better in almost every way imaginable:happydance:

I live with my parents in Hamilton, Ontario until me and my boyfriend can afford to buy a house.

I'm finishing up my semester at college but plan to take either pharmacy tech or nursing when I go back to school because I hated business!! ]]> Teen Pregnancy tasha41 http://www.babyandbump.com/teen-pregnancy/75539-teen-mummies-mummies-introduce-yourself.html http://www.babyandbump.com/teen-pregnancy/75033-biggest-mistake-ever.html Sun, 23 Nov 2008 14:35:31 GMT Hey guys im not a teen but feel better postin here!.....x Well for the past week i have really been feeling like ive made the biggest mistake of my... Hey guys im not a teen but feel better postin here!.....x

Well for the past week i have really been feeling like ive made the biggest mistake of my life by having this baby! I dunno why but ive been seein people just doing things and not have to worry about responsibilities and i think im gunna miss it!

Also the babies dad was interested but not interested that much, and yesterday he randomly come out and said "how we gunna split this kid" like its a bit of meat or sumthin then he said my family will wanna see it, without you! I mean how fuckin rude do u wanna get when all ive ever said is that i want his family involved then he said i wont be comin to your house (thinkin i was livin at mums when baby is born) which i wont be to which he said well why arent u lookin now get it all done now and ill help you i was like i dont want nor do i need your help i dont want anythin from him so he hung up on me!
Some girl who was the reason we always argued when we were together and tried makin moves on him when we were together, has told him that im only wantin his money and whatever else i can get from him cos thats what "girls like me do"......and its so frustratin i wanna punch her aswell!

Im so annoyed with everything and now im realising im stuck with arsewipe in my life forever and i wanna knock him the fuck out! He just makes me feel like a bad person all the time when its him who's always fucked up!
God i really really HATE him, and now im fuckin havin a baby with him i must be outside my fuckin mind.....

Thanks 4 reading guys!!! xx ]]> Teen Pregnancy mz_jackie86 http://www.babyandbump.com/teen-pregnancy/75033-biggest-mistake-ever.html http://www.babyandbump.com/teen-pregnancy/74971-idiots-world-tell-you.html Sun, 23 Nov 2008 05:35:28 GMT My sister went partying out of town at a hotel last night and 2 guys that were my age went with them. My sister's 2 years younger than me; she's a grade 12 in high school and I am a college student. I don't know about you, but that leaves me to believe there must be something wrong with these guys, why on earth would you hang out with high school kids while you're in college.. a 2nd year college student at that?

Anyways f*cking tools called me a slut because I'm pregnant! I'm sorry but if they expect me to believe that they never slept with their girlfriends, who were on birth control, without a condom.. I'm just not going to buy it. I can't stand how ignorant some people can be!

Not to mention it's not like I'm having a baby with a stranger I had a one night stand with, it's my boyfriend. No, we weren't together for very long.. but we had been seeing each other for quite a long time before that. And we're planning to get married and buy a house, I'll be finished college hopefully before my maternity leave is over (hopefully will mean I can get a "real job"), and where will these idiots be? I guess drinking in cheap motel rooms with underage girls or something..

I honestly want to facebook message them or something asking who they think they are.. :gun: ]]> Teen Pregnancy tasha41 http://www.babyandbump.com/teen-pregnancy/74971-idiots-world-tell-you.html http://www.babyandbump.com/teen-pregnancy/74955-depressed.html Sun, 23 Nov 2008 01:24:20 GMT My boyfriend and I haven't really gone out since we heard the news that I was pregnant. So today we decided we would go out, and of course we got the looks from the people around us because they see a girl who isn't old enough pregnant. I was getting really annoyed and I kept talking about how rude it was of the people to just stare at us, and my boyfriend snapped.

He looked at me and raised his voice and said what do you expect when your sixteen and you become pregnant people are going to look at you different. It was your decision to have the baby so you should get over the stares, and if you are having problems with it already than maybe you should have listened to your mother. I got upset because he never talks to me like this. I've known his since I was like five and he never once raised his voice with me. It really upset me, and my emotions are all messed up, and I began to cry, and instead of comforting me like he usually does when I cry he just looked at me, and rolled his eyes.

I don't understand why he would start acting like this now when I really need him. I mean we both have been on the edge lately. I've been sick, and he is nervous about becoming a dad. We haven't talked since we got home because he went with his dad on some trip and wont be home by Monday morning. I talked to his mom, and she said that he was going through a hard time. I mean he has work, school, basketball, and a baby on the way. Its a lot he has to deal with so I understand him getting a little cranky, but he pretty much ignored me for the rest of the day. He didn't even say bye to me.

I've been thinking about trying to talk to my mom, and moving out because I think us living together won't help our situation we are in. I love him, and I appreciate his mom for letting me live there, but I feel like it is at the cost of our relationship. Sometimes I got to realize we are only teenagers, and even if we are facing adult problems at the end of the day we are still teenagers. If you can please write back and give me advice because I need help. Thank you so much. And sorry about it being kind of long, but I tend to write all my feelings when I talk. Sorry. ]]> Teen Pregnancy xoash729xxo http://www.babyandbump.com/teen-pregnancy/74955-depressed.html http://www.babyandbump.com/teen-pregnancy/74807-help.html Sat, 22 Nov 2008 13:41:09 GMT Ermm yh ok so im 14 in year 10 and i go to a centre for school girl mums and for people that have been kicked out i dont get along with any of the... Ermm yh ok so im 14 in year 10 and i go to a centre for school girl mums and for people that have been kicked out i dont get along with any of the mums As i am not one ... but on sunday (16/11) me and my boyfriend got a bit drunk and we had unprotected sex and he came twice ! my period is duee on the 25/11 and ive been feeling really bloated and been gettin bad cramps 10 x worse than the usual period cramps ive been feeling really sick like i wantt to throw up ut i havent nd ive been eating soo much more then usual and my breasts are sore ..

yesterday i think i came on my period but then i lookd it up and it said it could be implantation bleeding as i took a " Are you pregnant test " online nd it sed my chances are high and the fact that my period is still not due for another 4 days ..? is this normal could i be pregnant or am i just paranoid someone help please !!!im going to see my boyfriend today he already said if i am pregnant hes gunna be there to support me but someone help ]]> Teen Pregnancy BeccaBaybiie http://www.babyandbump.com/teen-pregnancy/74807-help.html http://www.babyandbump.com/teen-pregnancy/74759-aches-accross-tummy.html Sat, 22 Nov 2008 08:01:58 GMT Hi Ladies,
I'm new to this forum and reading your threads lately has been really helpful...Its lovely to chat with people in the same boat as you...
In feb 2006 I suffered a missed misscarriage but 2 weeks later I fell pregnant with my daughter who is now 2..I am now nearly 9 weeks pregnant with my second and over the last 2 days have been having a dull aching feeling accross the top of my tummy...has anyone else had this or getting this or should I be worried!!!
Many Thanks
xxx: ]]> Teen Pregnancy abbeyview http://www.babyandbump.com/teen-pregnancy/74759-aches-accross-tummy.html http://www.babyandbump.com/teen-pregnancy/74730-need-someone-talk.html Sat, 22 Nov 2008 00:34:05 GMT if anyone is bored and wants to listen to me moan please say so :(

just really need someone to talk to, but i warn u in advance i'll go on alot lol x ]]> Teen Pregnancy Laura--x http://www.babyandbump.com/teen-pregnancy/74730-need-someone-talk.html http://www.babyandbump.com/teen-pregnancy/74613-hi-all.html Fri, 21 Nov 2008 17:07:32 GMT Hi all new to this site,17 weeks pregnant today :) wish you all happy pregnanciesss! x Hi all new to this site,17 weeks pregnant today :) wish you all happy pregnanciesss! x ]]> Teen Pregnancy oox_tasha_xoo http://www.babyandbump.com/teen-pregnancy/74613-hi-all.html http://www.babyandbump.com/teen-pregnancy/74559-struggling-today-dont-know-post.html Fri, 21 Nov 2008 14:23:06 GMT I know this forum isn't for this sort of thing, but i guess the girls on here chat about pretty much everything and like to get it all out in the open so hence my call for a lil support. :cry:

Today i'm really finding it hard to stay upbeat.
Let me explain abit.

On the 2nd January 2008, I lost my best friend. We grew up together and she lived down the road from me. Our families are very close and i call her parent my second parents because i have always felt that connected to their family and they always make me aware of how there for me they are.

She died of Pulmonary Hypotension which is a disease of the heart and lungs, and i was with her when she died.

It would have been her 20th Birthday on Weds and i was fine all day and yesterday as i have been kept busy fundraising for her charity PHA-UK. But today back at work boring and mundane i think its kind of caught up with me and i feel all tearful and heart ached again.

Sorry for the moan and groan. I should be being positive since my new house this month but i guess some things never heal.
xx:cry: ]]> Teen Pregnancy LilFlower08 http://www.babyandbump.com/teen-pregnancy/74559-struggling-today-dont-know-post.html http://www.babyandbump.com/teen-pregnancy/74439-any-teens-got-social-services-involved.html Thu, 20 Nov 2008 23:31:14 GMT Jes woundering if any of you have got SS involved for whatever reason and what sort of 'support' they have offered nd how they have treated you. Thanks ]]> Teen Pregnancy bootyb http://www.babyandbump.com/teen-pregnancy/74439-any-teens-got-social-services-involved.html http://www.babyandbump.com/teen-pregnancy/74425-any-teens-live-alone.html Thu, 20 Nov 2008 22:31:47 GMT Or with a partner?

I so desperately want to move out, so bad, but i just couldn't afford it. People have told me the council pay, but that means that they would just shove me in a poxy flat in a rough area which i would hate.

Just thought id ask a few questions if people didnt mind answering!

How do you find living alone?
How do you afford to live? Bills/Food/Baby items ect?
How did you get the place?
How did you afford to furnish the place?

Thanks :) ]]> Teen Pregnancy Laura--x http://www.babyandbump.com/teen-pregnancy/74425-any-teens-live-alone.html http://www.babyandbump.com/teen-pregnancy/74325-hey-ladies.html Thu, 20 Nov 2008 17:51:27 GMT hey girlies, i know im not a teen (im 25!) but i got preg when i was 16, mc'd and so id just like 2 come on this forum sometimes n see how all you young mummies to be are doin. i think its great that bnb has this forum cos its so hard to find good strong support when ur young n expectin, cause theres that negativ image about young mums. but u lot are livin proof that it can be done, and done well! :P
im jessica jane btw, but jess will do nicely! :D and i got a very faint bfp yesterday so gunna test again next few days! ahhh! :D
xxxx ]]> Teen Pregnancy jessicajane http://www.babyandbump.com/teen-pregnancy/74325-hey-ladies.html http://www.babyandbump.com/teen-pregnancy/74191-super-confused.html Thu, 20 Nov 2008 09:56:59 GMT Well im on the contraceptive pill (cilest) and have been for over a year and always get my period on the thursday of my week break. However at the... Well im on the contraceptive pill (cilest) and have been for over a year and always get my period on the thursday of my week break. However at the end of my last cycle, i decided to take a break from the pill for a few months and use condoms instead. It is now the thursday of my would be week break..and no period. Is it just my body maybe adjusting to not being on it, i havent got sore boobs or any pregnancy symptoms. Any idea when she might turn up?
Thanks X ]]> Teen Pregnancy hollie3 http://www.babyandbump.com/teen-pregnancy/74191-super-confused.html http://www.babyandbump.com/teen-pregnancy/74147-mad.html Thu, 20 Nov 2008 00:31:51 GMT I'm 16 and my boyfriend is 17 and my parents kicked me out, because of me being pregnant. Well, I'm living with my boyfriend and his mom, and when we got home from school today I noticed that my mom's car was in his driveway. I didn't even want to go inside I was an emotional wreck, I just started crying, and my boyfriend had to coax me to get me into his house. When we got inside my mom was sitting on their couch talking to my bfs mom. She was telling her how we were to young for a baby, and all about how my bf and me have a life ahead of us and that the baby would just ruin it. She was trying to talk my bf into getting me to give the baby up. He kept saying he wanted to keep the baby, but I now feel like my parents are trying to ruin me. They want me to give the baby up every chance they get.


My bf's mom she says she supports every decision we make because she was only 18 when he was born so she knows what we are going through. My mom doesn't understand that I knew what could happen when I had sex, and now I have to deal with the responsibilty like a big girl, and I want the baby. I'm afraid my parents are going to like eventually going to turn my bf against me, or pay him off or something.

I'm scared and angry, and really emotionaly. I know its not my mom's fault I"m in this problem, and I don't expect her to bail me out, but I don't get why she doesn't get that I want the baby. Sure I'm young, but I had sex. I want the baby. Let me keep it. Thats what I wish she would learn. ]]> Teen Pregnancy xoash729xxo http://www.babyandbump.com/teen-pregnancy/74147-mad.html http://www.babyandbump.com/teen-pregnancy/74097-well-af-update-poas-pics.html Wed, 19 Nov 2008 20:59:43 GMT Where oh where could she be? I was due on yesterday, been having fairly severe pains for the past...week or so... but still no sign of her. I did... Where oh where could she be?

I was due on yesterday, been having fairly severe pains for the past...week or so... but still no sign of her.

I did tell my BF on day 16ish of my cycle I thought I'd ovulated late, so could this be it?

Anyone have really really bad period pains, feel like af was defo coming for a couple of days (felt like she was coming early for me...) then it just went off? Before getting a BFP?

I did a cheapy test a couple of days before I was due on, negatage. Got a test from Sainsburys but think it best to wait until tomorrow and use fmu?? I keep wanting to do one tonight, but if AF comes on tomorrow it's a bit of a waste, and if it's not even going to show up (using end of day pee) then that's another waste!!

xxx

On a completely seperate note: TOSS! I just missed something I was meant to bid on ebay for for my mum. :dohh: ]]> Teen Pregnancy nightkd http://www.babyandbump.com/teen-pregnancy/74097-well-af-update-poas-pics.html http://www.babyandbump.com/teen-pregnancy/74043-anyone.html Wed, 19 Nov 2008 18:15:22 GMT Here from birmingham?

Speak up :) i know theres quite a few girls on here from the west midlands, don't think any of them are teens though.. ]]> Teen Pregnancy Laura--x http://www.babyandbump.com/teen-pregnancy/74043-anyone.html http://www.babyandbump.com/teen-pregnancy/73874-teen-relationship-question.html Wed, 19 Nov 2008 09:26:20 GMT I was just very curious as to what people would answer and think of this. is it possible that us teenagers are capable of knowing when they have... I was just very curious as to what people would answer and think of this.



is it possible that us teenagers are capable of knowing when they have found someone they would want to spend their life with or is it possible that it is just 'puppy love'? knowing that many older people would disagree and say teenagers dont know what love is and what not, blah blah blah really got me thinking.


what do you girls think? ]]> Teen Pregnancy MnRchick http://www.babyandbump.com/teen-pregnancy/73874-teen-relationship-question.html http://www.babyandbump.com/teen-pregnancy/73656-over-controlling-partner.html Tue, 18 Nov 2008 15:38:22 GMT I have been with my OH for three years now. He has always had a problem with jealousy and controlling behavior, but now it's getting out of hand. He doesn't hit me or anything, but when he gets angry he loses his temper and yells so loud and says the worst and most hurtful things. I really love him, but he is getting so controlling I can hardly stand it. I do not want to be a single mother, because when my parents find out they are going to cut me off and kick me out of the house for sure. I am seriously considering going to women's shelter for sure.

I know it's stupid of me to get pregnant by someone I'm not even sure loves me (but I do really love him) and who is emotionally abusive to me, and it's making me feel more and more depressed. It's so hard to sleep at night, and especially during the nighttime I am very sad, and I cry a lot because I'm so lonely. Is it wrong to make a relationship work just for the baby? I am scared that he will just desert me if we break up and end up paying child support.:cry: ]]> Teen Pregnancy meztisa http://www.babyandbump.com/teen-pregnancy/73656-over-controlling-partner.html http://www.babyandbump.com/teen-pregnancy/73568-new.html Tue, 18 Nov 2008 10:01:34 GMT i thought this site was very interesting. its great how much support you can get from people around the world. of course i am one of the confused... i thought this site was very interesting. its great how much support you can get from people around the world. of course i am one of the confused ones lol. i havent had my period since august. i have been experiencing nausea, heartburn, bloating, cramp like pains, lower back pains, stomach soreness, mood swings, constipation, headaches, and of course a lot of food cravings. i also find it funny how tired i have been. i get the feeling of wanting to take naps but find it impossible to actually fall asleep and take one. i have also noticed that my nipples are more erect and very sore. i took a pregnancy test in september and it was negative. i know i should take a couple more tests but i have for some reason been very hesitant. are these possible pregnancy symptoms or am i going crazy? lol thanks a lot girlies ]]> Teen Pregnancy MnRchick http://www.babyandbump.com/teen-pregnancy/73568-new.html http://www.babyandbump.com/teen-pregnancy/73532-15-virgin-think-im-pregnant.html Tue, 18 Nov 2008 04:38:09 GMT firstly im only 15... about 2 weeks and a half ago i was with a friend of mine, we didnt have sex but he did finger me after he had touched himself.... firstly im only 15... about 2 weeks and a half ago i was with a friend of mine, we didnt have sex but he did finger me after he had touched himself. there is a chance cum or pre cum has come in contact with me down there and it would have been around the time i was ovalating as it was almost exactly 2 weeks after my last period. around friday last week my nipples began to get really sore, they arent as sore now but they are more errect and i have this sick feeling which feels like a never ending nervous feeling in my belly right up to my throat and im geting back cramps and ive been dizzy and light headed and last night i had a throbbing head ache. can anyone please help me asap before i cause any un needed stress on my mum when i break the news, incase im not even pregnant! if i am pregnant i couldnt bring myself to abort my baby so a little advice would be great also. no negative feed back please :)
thankyou ]]> Teen Pregnancy conused22 http://www.babyandbump.com/teen-pregnancy/73532-15-virgin-think-im-pregnant.html http://www.babyandbump.com/teen-pregnancy/73472-not-sure-post-really.html Mon, 17 Nov 2008 22:22:23 GMT i miscarried back in july/august, and then had an ectopic pregnancy end of september - both of these times were due to the morning after pill being... i miscarried back in july/august, and then had an ectopic pregnancy end of september - both of these times were due to the morning after pill being taken too late, and the second time i'd been given the injection and it'd caused an ectopic pregnancy- which is rare but does happen.

I had an incident about 4 weeks ago with a guy, condom broke, took MAP- BUT have just been told a brand of antibiotics i was on makes it less effective.

I'd been feeling a bit ill, and had constant bleeding for about a week and a half, not a normal menstrual flow- blow light, dark and sticky- I assumed it was a period. However, i got worried it was a pregnancy- thought it was impossible though, as my whole system was messed up with hormones. However i've taken two..one negative (well only slightly, theres a VERY faint line, but not as strong) and one thats positive with a very prominent line.

I'm broken up with the father, and last time i found out i was pregnant he really lost it, and was adament he wanted to get rid of it - when i didn't. and in a horrible way i was relieved it was ectopic as it took away making that horrible decision- hurting and upsetting my ex or getting rid of a child.

I'm scared i may have to make that decision again, I really am..Im trying to keep positive and remind myself its very unlikely i am pregnant, as the ectopic pregnancy left one of my tubes pretty un-usable.

Im really worried about going the doctors tomorrow..I know I have too, but I have so much going on..and am still recovering from the last two I don't know how i can handle it.

Just want someone to talk too really..i feel so stupid.

im scared...really scared ]]> Teen Pregnancy spanner89 http://www.babyandbump.com/teen-pregnancy/73472-not-sure-post-really.html http://www.babyandbump.com/teen-pregnancy/73336-leaving-you-guys.html Mon, 17 Nov 2008 16:27:36 GMT I was never the most active user in the Teen Pregnancy forum but I do lurk here every day and put my tuppence in where I think it could be... I was never the most active user in the Teen Pregnancy forum but I do lurk here every day and put my tuppence in where I think it could be helpful......

It seems so odd that as of tomorrow I will no longer be a teenager! :shock: I can't believe I'm turning 20 lol I don't feel old enough! :rofl:

Can I still hang around here with you guys and put my comments in every now and then? I find the subject of teen pregnancy quite interesting actually and think I can relate to most issues that young mum's face... I hope you don't mind me sticking around even though I'm not really a teenager any more?? I hope that my age will bring me wisdom :rofl: (pmsl @ that notion!) and that I will be able to help out somewhat with others who find themselves in similar situations to what I did with my unexpected pregnancy.

Before I actually 'leave', I'd just like to say thanks to everyone who ever answered any of the few threads that I posted here and for all the support I have had here re: age-related issues and other problems like homelessness etc

Things would have been a lot harder without you all! :hug: ]]> Teen Pregnancy TashaAndBump http://www.babyandbump.com/teen-pregnancy/73336-leaving-you-guys.html http://www.babyandbump.com/teen-pregnancy/73182-please-help.html Mon, 17 Nov 2008 01:14:02 GMT Hey everyone, i have just joined this but not sure about how to use it or anything. Me and my boyfriend have regular sex and i am on the... Hey everyone, i have just joined this but not sure about how to use it or anything.
Me and my boyfriend have regular sex and i am on the contraceptive pill but there has been a few times i have forgotten to take it, anyway thats not why i am here....
I have a feeling i might be pregnant - cant get it out of my head. I am getting sore heads, back ache, tiredness, heartburn, a bit of sickness and mood swings. And also im peeing all the time when i usually never pee.
I normally stop taking my pill on wed and my periods come and go before i start taking them again the next wed. Its now mon and they havnt come yet and i am meant to start taking it again on wed.
Is there much chance that i am pregnant?
I will appreciate your advice and comments.
Thanks xxxxx ]]> Teen Pregnancy CG- http://www.babyandbump.com/teen-pregnancy/73182-please-help.html http://www.babyandbump.com/teen-pregnancy/73162-one-other-thing.html Sun, 16 Nov 2008 22:37:48 GMT what methods of protection have you girls used/do use? as i said in my previous thread, i'm not aiming to get pregnant for at least another year. i've been on the pill (i'm on yasmin and was on ovranette before that) but i have several issues with it. for one thing i hate taking something that messes with my body and is unnatural. another thing, neither pill has kept my periods regular, they give me moodswings and makes me not want sex as much. and also i find it really hard to remember to take it everyday.
i dont like condoms as i cant feel as much during sex and also a good 75% of the ones ive used have split in the past. i'm not sure which way to turn as i know that no protection is 100% perfect. any ideas??
:lolly: ]]> Teen Pregnancy LilMiss_91 http://www.babyandbump.com/teen-pregnancy/73162-one-other-thing.html http://www.babyandbump.com/teen-pregnancy/73160-help-im-new-here.html Sun, 16 Nov 2008 22:33:38 GMT Hi..I'm 17 and 27 weeks pregnant. 18 in just under a month.
Basically..im bricking it!
My baby wasn't planned so was a HUGE shock for me & the father.
I don't kno any mums in my area so don't have anyone i can do baby things with! My Friends have been great but i feel like im boring them with baby talk.
I live in an area that is very upper middle class and judgemental of teen mums which is also making it harder!
I would love some advice and some people to talk to who are in the same situ as me!
x ]]> Teen Pregnancy Vicky_17 http://www.babyandbump.com/teen-pregnancy/73160-help-im-new-here.html http://www.babyandbump.com/teen-pregnancy/73156-hii-im-new-here-just-need-some-advice-really.html Sun, 16 Nov 2008 22:25:24 GMT
Hii :]
i'm just here for a little bit of advice tbh. i'm not pregnant and not really planning to be anytime soon. but i'm one of those people that worries about simplyy everything way before it happens haha :] i just wanted to talk some things over. i really hope you won't judge me for anything i say. i'm just here for advice :]
well... my situation is this, i'm 17, 18 next year. ive been with my boyfriend for about a month and i love him more than anything in the world. i feel soso lucky to have found someone so special so early on in my life. for the last couple of weeks the subject of moving in together after graduation (we're both at college atm) next year has come up. i really want to, and i think he does too. but what i really want is a baby. this isnt just a silly phase i'm going through because ever since i was little myself i knew all i ever wanted to be was a mummy. i know my partner absolutely adores kids and whenver i see him with my nephews he's so natural with them. and a few nights ago he was talking about how happy he thinks i will be when i have a "little miracle" growing inside my belly. he was lying next to me and stroking his fingers across my stomach almost as if he wanted there to be something there. when i told to stop because he was making me broody he asked "do you wnat a baby?" n i didnt know what to say. i didnt want to say yes in case i terrified the poor guy :s i dont want to start trying to conceive yet, we havent been together long enough and besides, i dont think we could support a child quite yet. but i really hope its not too long before we can start trying. i'm not sure how to go about putting it to him though, when the time comes. ANY help would be absolutely amazing. but please be gentle.. i'm new!! :blush: ]]> Teen Pregnancy LilMiss_91 http://www.babyandbump.com/teen-pregnancy/73156-hii-im-new-here-just-need-some-advice-really.html http://www.babyandbump.com/teen-pregnancy/72891-hayy.html Sat, 15 Nov 2008 20:37:24 GMT Helloo.. Im Totally New Too This But Lookin For Mums/Mums To Be Around My Agee Too Chat Too..
Im 17 And Having A Boy Who's Due In 6 Weeks
X ]]> Teen Pregnancy AmyyJanee http://www.babyandbump.com/teen-pregnancy/72891-hayy.html http://www.babyandbump.com/teen-pregnancy/72838-scared-tell-my-father.html Sat, 15 Nov 2008 15:26:36 GMT Here's my story . I'm 19 (will be 20 when the baby is born) and am 6 weeks pregnant . I have a wonderful , very supportive boyfriend and we are in a very stable relationship . This was a unplanned pregnancy and while we would have liked to have waited a bit longer we are very excited and happy .

I live with my father , he means the world to me . After my mother passed away last year I have been taking care of him , I do all the cleaning , cooking , laundry , take care of all banking and making sure the bills get paid , all he has to do is go to work ever thing else is done for him . We even work together at the same job .

I know he's going to be very unhappy and disappointed in me . I'm terrified to tell him .

How far along were you when you told your parents ? How did you tell them ? ]]> Teen Pregnancy Komatsu http://www.babyandbump.com/teen-pregnancy/72838-scared-tell-my-father.html http://www.babyandbump.com/teen-pregnancy/72602-do-you-shave.html Fri, 14 Nov 2008 16:47:58 GMT No-one has to answer if they don't want i know some people find it too personal, just wanted to see how many people do or not.. Shave down below that is.. ]]> Teen Pregnancy Laura--x http://www.babyandbump.com/teen-pregnancy/72602-do-you-shave.html http://www.babyandbump.com/teen-pregnancy/72487-really-need-help.html Fri, 14 Nov 2008 10:25:40 GMT Basically, ive just found out that im pregnant. my last monthlie started the 19th Sep, and calculations say that conception was 3rd October. This... Basically, ive just found out that im pregnant. my last monthlie started the 19th Sep, and calculations say that conception was 3rd October. This makes me 8 weeks.
I didnt actually start having sex until the weekend starting the 3rd october. My mum is telling me that it isnt possible for me to be pregnant then. Is this true? ]]> Teen Pregnancy Cheeky_monkey http://www.babyandbump.com/teen-pregnancy/72487-really-need-help.html http://www.babyandbump.com/teen-pregnancy/72368-something-thats-been-bothering-me.html Thu, 13 Nov 2008 20:32:46 GMT Okie so I just recently told my parents that im pregnant.. I was scared to tell them because my mom has said loads of times that she doesnt want to... Okie so I just recently told my parents that im pregnant.. I was scared to tell them because my mom has said loads of times that she doesnt want to be a grandmother, and she was dead serious.. Plus my dad is VERY protective over me, even tho i am 18 and dont even live with them.. Thats why im not too sure why im so concerned what they think.. But now that ive told my parents they are acting extreamly happy for me and my boyfriend.. I seriously think they are faken it.. It just seems so unreal when i talk to them.. Before this they thought i was a virgin, then all of a sudden i come to them and say im pregnant.. I come from a family that doesnt believe an 18 year old should be pregnant....Its really bothering me that this bugs me, and i have no idea how to ask them about it.. Cause if they are truly happy for me and want this baby to be apart of their lives then i know they would be really offended. And if they are lying to me then that just sucks too.. What should I do ladies? should i just leave it and enjoy that they maybe just pretending to be happy for me.. ]]> Teen Pregnancy Mommyy2be http://www.babyandbump.com/teen-pregnancy/72368-something-thats-been-bothering-me.html http://www.babyandbump.com/teen-pregnancy/72272-plan-b.html Thu, 13 Nov 2008 16:03:32 GMT Okay, I know in Canada that you can walk into any pharmacy and purchase a plan B or "the morning after pill" for about $40, or go to a clinic and get it for about $10-$20 if you are able to go during clinic hours. I took one before and I've been to get one for 2 friends, and I know that LOTS of people here have used them.. it only takes a short consultation with the pharmacist where they ask you simple questions you'd know the answers to,

You can take it for the first 72 hours after you had sex if you think there's a risk of pregnancy from it, it's more effective the sooner you take it, and the only side effects are normally flu-like symptoms (which I did not experience when I took it).. you're allowed to take gravol for them too.

Is this available anywhere else? ie: UK/USA/etc? Because I think this would be a helpful tidbit of information for some of the girls on here.

*edit* ALSO it's not an "abortion pill" if you were wondering, it just prevents implantation.
http://www.planb.ca/ ]]> Teen Pregnancy tasha41 http://www.babyandbump.com/teen-pregnancy/72272-plan-b.html http://www.babyandbump.com/teen-pregnancy/72113-scared.html Thu, 13 Nov 2008 02:55:24 GMT I'm 13 and i'm not shure if i'm pregnat & I don't know really what to do ]]> Teen Pregnancy Diamond14 http://www.babyandbump.com/teen-pregnancy/72113-scared.html http://www.babyandbump.com/teen-pregnancy/71895-down-below.html Wed, 12 Nov 2008 13:36:21 GMT This is probably going to sound really stupid but I'm actually pretty worried.
I've been shaving 'down below' for quite some time, as most teens do...
But my mum's 50 and I don't think people did it in her day because she keeps saying things like:
Me: I need to get a new sponge, mine's full of Jordan's (my brother's) pubes
Mum: How do you know they're not yours?
Just little things like that that make it clear she doesn't expect me to be shaven and I'm getting worried about her seeing me give birth because of it! ]]> Teen Pregnancy indianorchi http://www.babyandbump.com/teen-pregnancy/71895-down-below.html http://www.babyandbump.com/teen-pregnancy/71791-rough-day.html Wed, 12 Nov 2008 06:51:54 GMT I don't know what made my mom so angry.

It started out a good day, things were fine... i hung out with my ex boyfriend and things went REALLY well. Way better than expected.

Then after he leaves, about an hour later when i came downstairs after watching a show to make my dinner.
My mom started talking about this book i'm reading in school for some reason, and i just started reading it and i dont want her to give any parts away. And so i told her to stop. and she wouldn't so i raised my voice. She got REALLY mad and started freaking out.
And idk why but she kept saying she wishes i wasnt here , like living with them (my mom and my dad) and i mumbled "that makes two of us" (but she didn't hear me say that she was in the other room.). and then got all mad saying "you think you can raise a kid? well you better find your self a place to live!!" i shrugged it off because she's already threatened this before, then says a few days later "I CANT PUT YOU OUT ON THE STREETS WITH A CHILD!!"
so I went up to my room and i was eating, she came outside my door and started screaming things, i don't even know what she was talking about. and she says "WELL YOU BETTER TAKE A BUS TO YOUR DOCTOR APPOINTMENT WHEN EVER IT IS BECAUSE I DON'T FEEL LIKE TAKING you".. uhh yeah i dont know how to get there...
then she just like left.. like the house.... idk where. but then she came back and hasn't said a word to me since.



Can you say STRESSED THE FUCK OUT
pardon my language. but WOW
i really needed to vent. :cry: ]]> Teen Pregnancy LilMama2be http://www.babyandbump.com/teen-pregnancy/71791-rough-day.html http://www.babyandbump.com/teen-pregnancy/71712-why-do-people-judge-us-teen-mums-long.html Tue, 11 Nov 2008 21:25:38 GMT so i'm 17 i had a baby on the 3rd oct 08, for anyone else this is great but because im a teenager its wrong it makes me laugh how people judge us but no matter what age you are it doesnt effect your ability being a mum...im no worse off than anyone 5-10years older than me having a baby i work and i pay my way, im still with my babies dad and he works to..just because we are young people think we are having children for councell houses and benefits wen not all of us are it really gets to me.

what do you all think about people judging young mums is it fair or not?
should we all be sterotyped? is it the problem of too many ''young mums'' having babies and wanting houses or is it the councell giving the houses to asylum seekers and using us teen mum's as an excuse? ]]> Teen Pregnancy lucy16 http://www.babyandbump.com/teen-pregnancy/71712-why-do-people-judge-us-teen-mums-long.html http://www.babyandbump.com/teen-pregnancy/71446-finally-told-my-mother.html Tue, 11 Nov 2008 09:45:23 GMT Her reaction was 'ohhhh beth, oh god, are you keeping it? how are you going to cope?'

She was so shocked. After a few minutes she calmed down a bit and started saying that the baby comes first, my life is going to change so much.

I think she's worried and a bit scared of how i'm going to do this but i think she's ok. I'm glad i told her but i kinda liked no one knowing like its was mine lol but anyway i hope i'll have some support now.

She hasn't told my father yet, i know he's not going to be happy but atleast i've told my mother and i've waited long enough to tell her lol ]]> Teen Pregnancy dreams http://www.babyandbump.com/teen-pregnancy/71446-finally-told-my-mother.html http://www.babyandbump.com/teen-pregnancy/71403-byeee.html Tue, 11 Nov 2008 01:19:10 GMT i'm afraid i have to leave the teen forum now as i turned 2O yesterday!!
so i have to say bye to you lovely ladies..but i'll still be coming back to check how your all doing! lots of love and good luck to everyone xxx ]]> Teen Pregnancy maddiwatts19 http://www.babyandbump.com/teen-pregnancy/71403-byeee.html http://www.babyandbump.com/teen-pregnancy/71385-has-anyone-had-people-trying-force-them-into-abortion.html Mon, 10 Nov 2008 23:07:41 GMT How do you cope with the constant pressure from people to convince you that abortion is the right thing? As many of you know my other half is dead... How do you cope with the constant pressure from people to convince you that abortion is the right thing?

As many of you know my other half is dead set on our only option being abortion.

I've tried to explain to him every single aspect of it, from what happens, to how it will emotionally destroy me. I've finally got it into his thick skull that I will have to sit in front of my doctor (who I have been seeing for depression) and convince her that my mental state will deteriorate significantly more if I go through with the pregnancy, and that an abortion will be mentally better for me... which is bullshit, there's no way my doctor will believe that.

So his answer to that is "So we would have to get a referral from your doc then? Could we not just pay for it? I guess we'll just have to see what happens then"

We are going to talk more when he gets back, maybe see if I can get him to understand a little more about everything.

I love him so much, and I love our baby so much, and I just don't know what to do.

:cry: ]]> Teen Pregnancy orange-sox http://www.babyandbump.com/teen-pregnancy/71385-has-anyone-had-people-trying-force-them-into-abortion.html http://www.babyandbump.com/teen-pregnancy/71359-changes-have-you-made.html Mon, 10 Nov 2008 21:30:04 GMT I'm 10 weeks pregnant and I'm cutting out so much!

I've cut sushi, tuna, soda, tea, deli meats from my diet. Deli meats and sushi are not cooked thoroughly (or at all), tuna has a high level of mercury and caffiene is correlated to a high percentage of miscarriages.

Also, even though I'm only 10 weeks, I've feel so concious of my stomach, I try not to stretch or do any "sit ups". I know it sounds silly!

What changes have you gals made, if any? ]]> Teen Pregnancy meztisa http://www.babyandbump.com/teen-pregnancy/71359-changes-have-you-made.html http://www.babyandbump.com/teen-pregnancy/71270-probably-being-really-silly-but.html Mon, 10 Nov 2008 17:24:35 GMT Argh, I really need to start being more careful. Anyways, last Saturday (1/11), I had sex with OH. We were both a bit drunk, used withdrawal but I... Argh, I really need to start being more careful.
Anyways, last Saturday (1/11), I had sex with OH. We were both a bit drunk, used withdrawal but I doubt he withdrew in time, and I didn't get up or anything afterwards, just fell asleep. Period was 24/10 and finished 30/10, so I know we didn't do it when I was O'ing. Been feeling really weird the past few days, totally gone off food, woke up this morning totally nasally congested (probably completely irrelevant haha), felt sick all day but managed to eat and fell asleep by half 9 last night. Half 9!
Anyway, I'm probably just being silly and worrying because had so many scares before but I'm a bit worried. Should I be? Period is due 25th of this month so I'm just gonna wait. CM has been weird this week, too, been loads more of it. Dunno if that has anything to do with anything...
Thanks guys.
x ]]> Teen Pregnancy exquisite http://www.babyandbump.com/teen-pregnancy/71270-probably-being-really-silly-but.html http://www.babyandbump.com/teen-pregnancy/71269-newbie-user-mommy.html Mon, 10 Nov 2008 17:23:34 GMT I'm new to these forums. I am originally on the babyexpert forums, but I'm looking for a place that relates more to my age group and location.

I'm 18 and 10 weeks and 1 day pregnant. My due date is June 8, 2009. Hello everyone! :blush: ]]> Teen Pregnancy meztisa http://www.babyandbump.com/teen-pregnancy/71269-newbie-user-mommy.html http://www.babyandbump.com/teen-pregnancy/71098-great-news-girls.html Mon, 10 Nov 2008 08:03:47 GMT Im soooo soooooooo soooo happy!!!:happydance: Well cut a long story short for those of you who I havent spoken to before, Me and babys dad were... Im soooo soooooooo soooo happy!!!:happydance:

Well cut a long story short for those of you who I havent spoken to before, Me and babys dad were together for two years and things were going really great with just the normal relationship up and downs, but then things took a BIG turn for the worst when I found out I was pregnant. It was a huge shock for us both and we ended up splitting up which has been horrible, We never sorted anything out just constant argueing for 10 weeks! And it makes it even harder cos we live far apart (I live in Devon and he lives in Sheffield).

Well anywayyy that was then, and this is now... After a few good long conversations and actually listening and understanding eachother, We got back together last week!! And I couldn't be happier! It feels sooo right again, And we've been choosing baby names together(well trying to lol) and planning on moving in together hopfully before baby is born!:wohoo:
Im on top of the world and really hope we can work things out. Its like everything has finally fallen into place!


xxxxxxxx ]]> Teen Pregnancy LongRoadAhead http://www.babyandbump.com/teen-pregnancy/71098-great-news-girls.html http://www.babyandbump.com/teen-pregnancy/71076-young-scared.html Mon, 10 Nov 2008 03:32:13 GMT Hi I'm new. I found this website on google one day and thought I would give it try. I'm sixteen and I'm pregnant. I'm due on April 15 and I don't have the support of my parents. My boyfriend and I are going to keep the baby, and we hope to get married soon. Right now I'm currently living with my boyfriend and his mom. She understands what I'm going through because she was only seventeen when she had my boyfriend. All of my old friends ditched me they didn't really like the idea of me being pregnant they thought like my parents that I should abort the baby, but I couldn't do that to my own child. Sometimes I'm not sure if I can make it through this I mean its a big adjustment and I know its not going to be easy, but I thought this website could help me a little because I can actually maybe talk to some girls who are going through the same problems as me, and some women who have already been through my problems. Well I'm Ashley and I hope we all can talk sometime. Please reply. ]]> Teen Pregnancy xoash729xxo http://www.babyandbump.com/teen-pregnancy/71076-young-scared.html http://www.babyandbump.com/teen-pregnancy/70913-me-again-lol.html Sun, 09 Nov 2008 13:55:21 GMT Ok,

I was talking to my mum today & basically im a little worried about my nipples...

SInce falling pregnant they have grown (naturally!) but one both of them it kinda has a flap looking thing... its hard to explain... kinda looks like a wart ? on the top part of the nipple... my right side is bigger than the left too....

When i was 15 i peirced my nipple... do u think this would be why ?

Is this abnormal ?

Has anyone else had this ? ]]> Teen Pregnancy MissTeexx http://www.babyandbump.com/teen-pregnancy/70913-me-again-lol.html http://www.babyandbump.com/teen-pregnancy/70885-new-scared.html Sun, 09 Nov 2008 11:42:45 GMT Hi there everybody, I have just joined this website and im really scared and confused. I am 18 on the 22nd of Nov and i have been with my... Hi there everybody,

I have just joined this website and im really scared and confused.

I am 18 on the 22nd of Nov and i have been with my boyfriend for 3 years in february. I have a full time apprenticeship in payroll and accounts.

I am really scared as there is a possibility that i could be pregnant...

I had 'relations' with my boyfriend the other night and we never used any condoms as we have never slept with anyone else at all as we have only been with eachother (i know your probably thinking that im stupid but i trust him 100% and i would never do anything behind his back anyway)

So anyway, i am very strict with my pill as i take it religiously, well yesterday (8th Nov) i forgot to take it in the morning :dohh:- even when we done something on the fri (7th ). Im really worried as im due on my period on thurs and i could tell you the exact date i would start and whether i would be on in the morning or afternoon.

Im worried as i would love to have children, but dont know how my family or his would take it if i was pregnant, i know my mum loves big families and cant wait for us to have kids (she was 19 when she had her first and lost it so she was quite young.) but i just dont want people to look at me and judge me in a certain way or just think of me as a typical girl getting pregnant.

If you have any comments or advice as to what i should do (if i am pregnant- which i have to wait and see for my period to come- if it does) then i would be very happy to listen.

Thank you for reading this and making me feel welcome to the site.

x ]]> Teen Pregnancy lilgem90 http://www.babyandbump.com/teen-pregnancy/70885-new-scared.html http://www.babyandbump.com/teen-pregnancy/70877-sigh-still-waiting.html Sun, 09 Nov 2008 10:55:33 GMT well my due date has come and gone, she must be really comfortable in there lol. and i just really want to get it over with now, its getting really... well my due date has come and gone, she must be really comfortable in there lol. and i just really want to get it over with now, its getting really uncomfortable to sleep.getting really impatient but excited to, cant wait to meet her :D ]]> Teen Pregnancy Danielle http://www.babyandbump.com/teen-pregnancy/70877-sigh-still-waiting.html http://www.babyandbump.com/teen-pregnancy/70776-hello-there-room-me.html Sat, 08 Nov 2008 20:54:47 GMT Okay so I am about 3 weeks out of my teenage years, but I didn't think you'd mind me too much!

So I got my BFP today, my OH has just gone away for a week!

We live at home with my mother, and I am 100% shit scared of telling her... a few months ago a had a pregnancy scare and she had said that if it hadn't turned out to be a bfn she would've made sure that i didn't have the baby :shock::shock::shock:

So in a nutshell... I'm a bit fucked (pardon the pun) ]]> Teen Pregnancy orange-sox http://www.babyandbump.com/teen-pregnancy/70776-hello-there-room-me.html http://www.babyandbump.com/teen-pregnancy/70710-not-hungry-all.html Sat, 08 Nov 2008 17:02:27 GMT OK,

So before i was pregnant i would wake up & generally skip breakfast. Usually i would get hungry at about 10:30/11-ish. But since being pregnant the thought of food is making me feel sick... i dont get hungry until about 5-ish in the arvo... but get headspins all day but jst know i wouldnt be able to stomach food.... although i havent had morning sickness...

My mum is trying to get me into an eating rountine but today i felt mself dry-reaching over a salad ?

Does anyone else feel this & is it normal ??

xx ]]> Teen Pregnancy MissTeexx http://www.babyandbump.com/teen-pregnancy/70710-not-hungry-all.html http://www.babyandbump.com/teen-pregnancy/70637-worried-like-mad.html Sat, 08 Nov 2008 12:03:03 GMT Helloo, Ok im 3 months preg, my partners left me and my work recently whet bankrupt so im unemployed. Im really worried bout the money situation as I... Helloo, Ok im 3 months preg, my partners left me and my work recently whet bankrupt so im unemployed. Im really worried bout the money situation as I dont have a penny saved for anything.. Im also moving into a hostel next week so i should have a flat within the next 3 months (so they say) so im extreamly worried about my flat and my baby. im not due until may and people are telling me to take it slow! but its difficult becuase i want the best for my baby. My mum passed away 3 years ago now and my dad isnt to pleased with my whole situation.


Im also interestd about birth stories :D.

xxx ]]> Teen Pregnancy newbieee2this http://www.babyandbump.com/teen-pregnancy/70637-worried-like-mad.html http://www.babyandbump.com/teen-pregnancy/70548-hello-newbie.html Fri, 07 Nov 2008 22:33:43 GMT Hi girls, Im Samantha 20 and expecting my first. Being a bit of a worry wart atm but thats because im so happy im expecting lol! will be nice... Hi girls,

Im Samantha 20 and expecting my first. Being a bit of a worry wart atm but thats because im so happy im expecting lol!

will be nice talking to you all


:hug: ]]> Teen Pregnancy samantha_sarah http://www.babyandbump.com/teen-pregnancy/70548-hello-newbie.html http://www.babyandbump.com/teen-pregnancy/69982-new-here.html Thu, 06 Nov 2008 00:02:43 GMT Hey, i'm Laura, i'm 15 and yes, you've guessed it, i'm new. I'm 12 weeks 5 days, and due may the 16th. Expecting my first. just thought i'd say hi :) ]]> Teen Pregnancy xBumpandLaura http://www.babyandbump.com/teen-pregnancy/69982-new-here.html http://www.babyandbump.com/teen-pregnancy/69616-so-many-questions.html Tue, 04 Nov 2008 19:14:24 GMT :blush:Sorry for all my questions but i was really just wondering:blush: *is it okay to have sex after 4 months?* ive been having penetrative sex... :blush:Sorry for all my questions but i was really just wondering:blush:

is it okay to have sex after 4 months? ive been having penetrative sex with my boyfriend, not hard, but is it still safe?

i think i can feel bump kicking but not sure as when i put my hand there to feel it goes away:( it feels like butterflys or little twinges, is this normal?

can you eat cooked salmon whilst being pregnant? my sister cooks DELICIOUS salmon soup but i dont no if i can have any:(

my belly feels all jiggly but when i press lightly on my belly theres like a firm ball in there. is that baby?

is it okay to eat scrambled egg? i love my egg and noodles but in my book it says no egg. is that all egg or strickly raw egg?

will being around loud music now damage babys hering? i went to a club the other day. no alcohol/smoking or hevay partying for me but the music was really loud even hurting my own ears is that bad on baby:(??

i get up evry morning at 4:25 or 5:25, and REALLY need a drink is this anything to do with baby?

Can You Eat citric acidic sweets i had one of those sweets that you spray in your mouth and its sour and it was REALLY nice so i brought another to packs. only thing is now my toungue seems to have plit (OUCH!) and i dhuno if it harmed baby.

i cant think of any more quesions off my head but i will update:blush: if i think of any more nes that have really been buggin me. THANKS!!!! ]]> Teen Pregnancy TheyCallMe... http://www.babyandbump.com/teen-pregnancy/69616-so-many-questions.html http://www.babyandbump.com/teen-pregnancy/69608-scared-newbeii.html Tue, 04 Nov 2008 18:29:58 GMT Hi im 17, 18 soon and im 17 weeks and 2 dayz gone im coming from another pregnancy forum site (which i wont name) but they never seemed to help... Hi im 17, 18 soon and im 17 weeks and 2 dayz gone

im coming from another pregnancy forum site (which i wont name) but they never seemed to help :(

i have loads of questions i want to ask but my major one is...

i have a scan on thursday (in 2 dayz) for a scan and was wondering weather i would be able to find out the sex yet. some people i asked in the other forum just called me silly or looked down on me, but hello first pregnancy how am i supose to no:cry:

so erm yeah would m/w b able to tell me the sex thursday :blush: ]]> Teen Pregnancy TheyCallMe... http://www.babyandbump.com/teen-pregnancy/69608-scared-newbeii.html http://www.babyandbump.com/teen-pregnancy/69531-breastfeeding.html Tue, 04 Nov 2008 14:28:29 GMT Are any of you girlies planning to breastfeed? Anyone that does allready was it hard to get the hang of? Are any of you girlies planning to breastfeed?
Anyone that does allready was it hard to get the hang of? ]]> Teen Pregnancy Rach276 http://www.babyandbump.com/teen-pregnancy/69531-breastfeeding.html http://www.babyandbump.com/teen-pregnancy/69514-long-every1-thinkin-findin-work-studyin-after-baby-arives-bein-f-t-mum.html Tue, 04 Nov 2008 13:44:21 GMT Just wondering as my bf's 5 yr old goes to f/t school and im thinking of getting my 6 month old daughter and my bfs 18 month old son into p/t nursery next year and due in march with my 2nd and hoping to start studing in Sept so just wondering what everyones plans are- currently i'm a full time mum.

Rhi 18 xx ]]> Teen Pregnancy Haaganbumpx http://www.babyandbump.com/teen-pregnancy/69514-long-every1-thinkin-findin-work-studyin-after-baby-arives-bein-f-t-mum.html http://www.babyandbump.com/teen-pregnancy/69478-strange-cravings.html Tue, 04 Nov 2008 12:07:08 GMT Does anyone hav a strange craving.? My one is that im addicted to drinking coke lol have it for lunch and dinner could even have it for brekkie bt... Does anyone hav a strange craving.? My one is that im addicted to drinking coke lol have it for lunch and dinner could even have it for brekkie bt thats a bit 2 much lol:rofl: Anyone else got any funny cravings?

Rhi

Mummy of 6 month old Sparkly and no 2 due in March 09 ]]> Teen Pregnancy Haaganbumpx http://www.babyandbump.com/teen-pregnancy/69478-strange-cravings.html http://www.babyandbump.com/teen-pregnancy/69460-im-just-sick.html Tue, 04 Nov 2008 11:27:53 GMT I am sick of getting dirty looks, people tutting and me and basically treating me like ive commited some major crime. The other day i was waiting for... I am sick of getting dirty looks, people tutting and me and basically treating me like ive commited some major crime. The other day i was waiting for a bus and i was in the line. And this lady came up behind me and i just glanced at her. She looked at me, and then looked at my bump like it was a piece of shit (sorry about the language) and tutted. So that really made me wana cry but id tryed to ignore it. So i get on the bus and sit down and she gets on and gives me the dirtiest look ever and then when she goes to get off she gives me another looks and says kids these days. :cry:. i mean yeah im 16 and that is young and its not liked a planned it, but this lil man growing inside me is my world now and i just dont get why people have to make me feel so wrong for having a baby and make me feel like im nothing.

And today i got a letter from my old school saying they were holding a prize evening, to present us with our GCSE certificates this month. and i do wana go but im put off by the fact that i don't know if i will be able to handel all the stares, dirty looks, tuts and comments from all the parents :hissy:

Sorry for the rant girls i just needed to get it out:cry:
xx:hug: ]]> Teen Pregnancy http://www.babyandbump.com/teen-pregnancy/69460-im-just-sick.html http://www.babyandbump.com/teen-pregnancy/69242-bit-rant-negativity.html Mon, 03 Nov 2008 18:05:35 GMT I HATE how negative people are about teen pregnancy.. I left this site to surf elsewhere for a few minutes and wherever you go there's some kind of video or comment or article about teen pregnancy being some huge problem and even if the article/video speaks of the situation positively.. the majority of people who comment are SO negative or they think it's a joke.

What's wrong with it really? I think it's more responsible than waiting until you're old and wrinkly to have kids, I mean the risks of having a child born with birth defects etc is much higher for older mums AND your own health is an issue the older you get.. I'm going to have a 20 year old son or daughter when I'm 39/40, this child is getting the best years of my life, a huge network of people who love me and my boyfriend that are going to love the baby just as much, and tons of LOVE from mommy and daddy.

Not to mention that we BOTH graduated high school; in 2006 and 2007.. and since my boyfriend has gotten a promising full time job and is hoping to become a plumbing apprentice, and I am a college student studying accounting. All of the grandparents are supportive and still working; 3/4 in the healthcare sector, so I can't see the baby ever having 'inadequate care' or anything.

By the way.. combined we make about $50,000 per year, which is too much to qualify for "welfare", social assistance, etc, I'll only be getting a baby bonus which is $300/month and I may get subsidized childcare while I go to school.. my parents are living pretty comfortably and all this affords a better home than a "crack den" or trailer park.

FINALLY, those who have something negative to say mainly comment on the hurdles facing young parents.. don't you think adding your piece and voicing how unsupportive you are is just adding one more?

Ughh.. I want to smack them all out haha. Or get them fertilized or something :) ]]> Teen Pregnancy tasha41 http://www.babyandbump.com/teen-pregnancy/69242-bit-rant-negativity.html http://www.babyandbump.com/teen-pregnancy/69221-pregnancy-boredom.html Mon, 03 Nov 2008 16:36:43 GMT Anyone else desperately bored ALL THE TIME? I'm 20 weeks and dying of boredom. I miss my friends and I feel like I'm being annoying by calling my boyfriend all the time and by being with him all the time.

My friends are all 17-21 and they're all party animals or away at school.. and they get to just carry on with their lives the way they normally do and while I get invited to the club or to the parties, I can't go because people smoke weed inside at house parties and get rowdy and drunk.. and my boyfriend doesn't think the club is a good idea (I agree, I'm always so hot, and at A LOT of clubs you can't get much that isn't alcoholic). Oh and they shop.. blowing all of their money on clothes all the time, whereas I went to the maternity store and bought 2 items for $85, and they were literally the only 2 items I liked in the store!

I'm sick of watching TV/movies all the time and playing around on the computer.. what do you guys do to amuse yourselves? Sorry this was a bit of a venting session on my part.. but hopefully some of you can sympathize!! ]]> Teen Pregnancy tasha41 http://www.babyandbump.com/teen-pregnancy/69221-pregnancy-boredom.html http://www.babyandbump.com/teen-pregnancy/69215-having-bad-day.html Mon, 03 Nov 2008 16:24:45 GMT well ladies where do i start im having such a bad day my oh went to work away this morning and isnt back till FRIDAY!!!!:hissy: i have done nothing... well ladies where do i start im having such a bad day
my oh went to work away this morning and isnt back till FRIDAY!!!!:hissy:
i have done nothing but cry from the min he left and still feeling very teary now. he has to go away every so often (which i hate) but this time is different i dont seem to trust him and i dont understand why hes never doe anythink for me not to trust him.

help please as i dont know why im feeling like this:cry:
x x x ]]> Teen Pregnancy Beth_18 http://www.babyandbump.com/teen-pregnancy/69215-having-bad-day.html http://www.babyandbump.com/teen-pregnancy/69135-often-do-you-see-your-oh-ratio-often-he-sees-his-mates.html Mon, 03 Nov 2008 12:39:19 GMT If that makes sense.. How many times a week are you with your oh, and how many times a week is he with his friends? x If that makes sense..

How many times a week are you with your oh, and how many times a week is he with his friends?

x ]]> Teen Pregnancy Laura--x http://www.babyandbump.com/teen-pregnancy/69135-often-do-you-see-your-oh-ratio-often-he-sees-his-mates.html http://www.babyandbump.com/teen-pregnancy/68909-hate-being-called-statistic-msn-convo.html Sun, 02 Nov 2008 15:33:01 GMT Aghhh i got angry over this convo then i realised its just because he knowns what im saying is true. But being called a statistic and "Basically" A Slut just because im going to be a teen mum. i dont understand why appernly if you a teen and a mum your a big fat slut :l
Mark says:
is ur m8 becki single?
-- Hannah 23 weeks to go x (: says:
shes 14
Mark says:
no shes not
-- Hannah 23 weeks to go x (: says:
yes she is
Mark says:
is she single
-- Hannah 23 weeks to go x (: says:
her brithday is the 20/05/94
Mark says:
thats ur birthday
Mark says:
not everyone u know has ur bdau hannah
-- Hannah 23 weeks to go x (: says:
No mines 21/05/91
-- Hannah 23 weeks to go x (: says:
shes 14 that is sick if you wanna no if shes single your 25
Mark says:
well becki or becci or however u wanna spell it was fit i want her
-- Hannah 23 weeks to go x (: says:
thats just pedo
Mark says:
no its not
-- Hannah 23 weeks to go x (: says:
yeh it is
-- Hannah 23 weeks to go x (: says:
shes underage
-- Hannah 23 weeks to go x (: says:
your bascially a pedo
Mark says:
lol if u say hannah
Mark says:
u basically a teen pregnancy statistic
Mark says:
who now has no life
Mark says:
and inevitably will b a single mum
Mark says:
slag is the other word for it
-- Hannah 23 weeks to go x (: says:
yeh ofcourse, your "basically" and 20 something year old pedo, who likes to perv over 14 year old girls,





Then he blocked me - i dont even no why i used to be involded with weirdo's like this ]]> Teen Pregnancy HannahGraceee http://www.babyandbump.com/teen-pregnancy/68909-hate-being-called-statistic-msn-convo.html http://www.babyandbump.com/teen-pregnancy/68883-new-here.html Sun, 02 Nov 2008 14:22:25 GMT Hello everyone. My name is Jorja and I'm new here. I'm 18 years old and pregnant with my first baby xxxxx ]]> Teen Pregnancy foreverloves http://www.babyandbump.com/teen-pregnancy/68883-new-here.html