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http://www.babyandbump.com en Tue, 02 Dec 2008 11:18:06 GMT vBulletin 60 http://www.babyandbump.com/images/bnb-v370/misc/rss.jpg http://www.babyandbump.com http://www.babyandbump.com/waiting-to-try/77478-mooncup-yay-nay.html Mon, 01 Dec 2008 23:20:52 GMT Ok I apologise in a advance for too much detail in this thread. Some of you on here have recommended the mooncup to me but I was wondering if anyone... Ok I apologise in a advance for too much detail in this thread.

Some of you on here have recommended the mooncup to me but I was wondering if anyone else has tried them?

I have recently found that I am allergic to towels and find they cause a bit of discomfort (not sure if it is something that has just happened or they have changed the material), however I don't like the thought of a tampon because of the TSS you can get with them. I have done a little research on the mooncup and it says they are more hygenic and cannot cause TSS. Are they comfy? ]]> Waiting To Try charliemeg http://www.babyandbump.com/waiting-to-try/77478-mooncup-yay-nay.html http://www.babyandbump.com/waiting-to-try/77468-can-healthy-possible.html Mon, 01 Dec 2008 22:58:10 GMT Hey, Hope its okay for me to post this, i was just looking for some advice. After i lost my little boy last pregnancy, i want to be as healthy as... Hey,

Hope its okay for me to post this, i was just looking for some advice.

After i lost my little boy last pregnancy, i want to be as healthy as possible before i start ttc.

As i have said in other threads, i am overweight so im going to lose a fair amount of weight post-xmas (got 6 months minimum to get slim) but i want to know what otherways there are to get myself in the best shape possible.

I am vegetarian and i might not get enough of all my nutrients, ect. Should i take vitamins or any medication?

Basically, i just want to know ive done everything i can to have the best chance possible of having a healthy baby. Any tips or advice would be really appreciated.

Thanks,
Kt xxxx ]]> Waiting To Try http://www.babyandbump.com/waiting-to-try/77468-can-healthy-possible.html http://www.babyandbump.com/waiting-to-try/77457-bad-period-pains-scared-pain-threshold.html Mon, 01 Dec 2008 22:19:45 GMT Hi, This probably sounds really stupid but I was woken up this morning with horrific period pains. I got up to get neurofen and I started panicking... Hi,

This probably sounds really stupid but I was woken up this morning with horrific period pains. I got up to get neurofen and I started panicking then thinking how would I ever cope with labour if I can't cope with period pains. The pain was coming in waves with no let up (for about an hour) and I am still sore 15 hours later.

Sorry, if I sound like a baby but is anyone else worried about this? ]]> Waiting To Try leelee http://www.babyandbump.com/waiting-to-try/77457-bad-period-pains-scared-pain-threshold.html http://www.babyandbump.com/waiting-to-try/77283-just-wanted-say-hi.html Mon, 01 Dec 2008 13:40:45 GMT Hi all,
I'm not new to this site but am moving over from TTC. So here is my story.
My dp and I started TTC in may this year with no luck, then in september my ds was diagnosed with leukaemia so TTC has been put on hold until we are happy with our sons progress in his treatment, he is doing well and is in remission but we are only 11wks into the treatment and have another 3yrs to go so its safe to say we will be waiting from quite a while yet.

I didn't want to remove myself from this site altogether because it's nice to have something else to think about at times, so I hope to get to know you all in WTT.

:hug: ]]> Waiting To Try Stacey24 http://www.babyandbump.com/waiting-to-try/77283-just-wanted-say-hi.html http://www.babyandbump.com/waiting-to-try/77164-im-tired.html Mon, 01 Dec 2008 00:00:25 GMT I'm not tired of WTT, I can't be. OH and I aren't going to be TTC for at least another 5 years.

However, I am tired of waiting to get married. I'm just being silly and emotional, but I really don't want to have to wait 3 more years to get married. I want to get married now.

I do know that waiting 3 years will be for the best and is the most logical thing to do. It just sometimes I get so overwhelmed with my feelings of love for my OH, that I just want to hurry and marry him and be his wife already! Most days I am perfectly fine with waiting until 2011, but other days my emotions drive me crazy and make me so impatient.

Sorry, I know this was just a silly and pointless rant. ]]> Waiting To Try Nik_ http://www.babyandbump.com/waiting-to-try/77164-im-tired.html http://www.babyandbump.com/waiting-to-try/77137-really-vivid-bfp-dream.html Sun, 30 Nov 2008 22:02:29 GMT Last night i had a dream that i got a BFP. It was so clear that i remember every single bit of it. I was in a bathroom and had just done a boots hpt... Last night i had a dream that i got a BFP. It was so clear that i remember every single bit of it.

I was in a bathroom and had just done a boots hpt that came up faintly positive, i then did the other one from the pack and it came up really positive. Then i did what i guess would be a Clearblue conception indicator digi. But (this is where it gets a little dream surreal) instead of having the number of weeks it just had a due date. Which was the 20th April. There was no year.

I'm writing this down because i want to see if it turns out to mean anything in the future. I would be so freaked if it ever actually happened. I'm pretty sad so i worked out 40 weeks back from the due date, it'd give me a lmp date of 28th july next year, conception date of 11th aug.

Do you guys think i'm crazy for thinking this could be a sign/mean something?
xx ]]> Waiting To Try katy http://www.babyandbump.com/waiting-to-try/77137-really-vivid-bfp-dream.html http://www.babyandbump.com/waiting-to-try/76975-just-want-some-input-know-someone-else-has-gone-through.html Sun, 30 Nov 2008 05:47:45 GMT I have been On Yaz For Erm, About 6 months , And I swear if im even 10 minuets late taking it every day, i will just START to bleed like its a... I have been On Yaz For Erm, About 6 months , And I swear if im even 10 minuets late taking it every day, i will just START to bleed like its a period.. Anywho

Also, i had to go like 2 days without any bc because well the bank held my husbands money hostage bc of Thanksgiving, anyway, i started passing alot of clots.. I KNOW that IS normal.


But is it normal just to start bleeding if your late.. I mean Taking the pill on time..

I dont even think im making sense if im not im srry cough meds drs put me on make me loopy ]]> Waiting To Try mommieof22007 http://www.babyandbump.com/waiting-to-try/76975-just-want-some-input-know-someone-else-has-gone-through.html http://www.babyandbump.com/waiting-to-try/76956-christmas-bfp.html Sun, 30 Nov 2008 01:03:27 GMT Eeeeeeh! I'm getting twitchy again. Mainly because OH said that if I wanted to we could try for a BFP for christmas. Well, I ovulate in just over a week and this'll obv be my last cycle to get a BFP FOR christmas. Next time I ovulate is around new year...

I know chances of getting pregnant first cycle are slim. But it's an opportunity, ain't it? I don't wanna miss out!!! :hissy:

I'm kinda tempted to agree with OH's decision of "Try once for christmas, if it doesn't work, we'll wait til next year"... But I don't know if it's just because I don't think it'll come out positive; what if it does?!! I'll be mega excited but omfg work coincides! Bad time all around really, I start work officially April (could be earlier, but that's my official contracted..months Apr-Dec) so I'd be taking maternity leave only a few months after starting my job.. Not great. Obv OH and I are not in an amazing place at the moment, but if I got pregnant I'd stick with him...it feels like it's in my hands. We should have a house v soon, but no guarantees..

Grrrrrrrr, he's given me my first opportunity, but I'm gonna have to pass it up aren't I? :cry: Or shall we give it a go as a 'practice' run? And if it turns into realism, be happy!

It's work I'm most concerned about though...unfortunately...it's a job I really want long term, and they certainly won't be happy if I go in and am showing/heavily pregnant already on my first day!!!!!!!

:hissy::hissy::hissy:

Pooey.

xx ]]> Waiting To Try nightkd http://www.babyandbump.com/waiting-to-try/76956-christmas-bfp.html http://www.babyandbump.com/waiting-to-try/76914-had-hard-day-yesterday.html Sat, 29 Nov 2008 21:55:23 GMT I spent the afternoon with a friend who has a two week old baby girl :happydance: I knew that I would be upset afterwards as I am sooo broody. I... I spent the afternoon with a friend who has a two week old baby girl :happydance: I knew that I would be upset afterwards as I am sooo broody. I then went to my managers maternity leave dinner.

:hissy: I know it is only until feb I have to wait until ttc but it feels like ages and it isn't neccesarily going to happen for us straight away. I was so strong a week ago saying its on feb and there are things that I have to sort; overdraft, re-decorating the house and new carpets, but this is killing me and I haven't even started ttc !!! what am I going to be like then :cry:

H and I talked earlier and we both said that the longer it takes in a way the better as we will have more money saved but at the same time I want a baby now :blush: ]]> Waiting To Try Mrs Doddy http://www.babyandbump.com/waiting-to-try/76914-had-hard-day-yesterday.html http://www.babyandbump.com/waiting-to-try/76870-very-excited.html Sat, 29 Nov 2008 18:42:28 GMT Am starting to get very excited about the short length of time left to go now!! The :witch: arrived today, which in some ways sucks as it was our 8... Am starting to get very excited about the short length of time left to go now!! The :witch: arrived today, which in some ways sucks as it was our 8 month wedding anniversary yesterday so OH and I were looking forward to a romantic weekend. :blush: BUT on the positive side. It's the 2nd last one I have to deal with before TTC. It's on a reg cycle length from the previous ones, which those other girls with PCOS will know how great that is.. and the BEST part about it... is it's EXACTLY 15 days after the day I 'thought' I ovulated, going by side pain only. I've not started charting, temp taking, or peeing on sticks as yet so it's a great feeling to know that my body seems to be doing what it needs to to make this journey a little less long!!

:happydance::happydance:

Looks like I start the charting journey today!!

Cheers, ]]> Waiting To Try Kota http://www.babyandbump.com/waiting-to-try/76870-very-excited.html http://www.babyandbump.com/waiting-to-try/76804-had-long-chat-oh.html Sat, 29 Nov 2008 13:09:04 GMT and i just wanted to share, hope that's okay.

I think we have decided that we will try in june 2009! A little longer than we were considering, but it will give us time to cover all the points. The 'agreement' so to speak is this;

- I will get my implant out in May (around my 22nd!) as long as i diet between now and then, losing around 40-50lbs, then we can move to ttc!
- we both need a get healthier, as well as thinner
- I have to finish my degree.
- We need to save up a fair amount of cash
- we need to move into a bigger flat.

Im reallt excited. Scared about losing weight because of old issues in the past (as bloody xmas in the middle of things!) but excited at the same time. ]]> Waiting To Try http://www.babyandbump.com/waiting-to-try/76804-had-long-chat-oh.html http://www.babyandbump.com/waiting-to-try/76730-really-struggling-waiting-long-sorry.html Sat, 29 Nov 2008 03:04:35 GMT Really really really struggling with waiting today.

I just want to cry and scream and shout :cry: :hissy:

I know it's completely irrational but i want to shout at OH and ask how he can be so selfish and lie to my face when he says he'd do anything to make me happy.(I know he isn't actually being selfish, if anything i probably am) He obviously won't do anything because he won't let us try for the one thing that would make me happy. I've even gone as far as to think that he can't really love me, because if he did then he would want me to be happy which he clearly doesn't. Why should i sacrifice my happiness for his?

I know a baby is a commitment between two people, but he's even been saying in recent months that it is definitely something he wants, he is ready but he wants to wait until we've moved in together to start trying (which will be by Jan at the latest). I think he thinks that if he just sticks his bits inside me for one second i'll get pregnant. He doesn't understand it can take a lot of time. I've found out that i need surgery in the near future. It could possibly end up being even bigger surgery than first suspected. The more serious surgery has quite high complication risks (around 5-10% of people do not survive the operation), it could also be an even more serious condition/disease than is currently known. As over the top as this will sound...i don't want to die without having had the chance to have children. I do not want to undergo very serious surgery without knowing i've at least tried to achieve my dream of having a family.

I also am getting really down about people not understanding how i feel, saying i'm stupid because of my age or that it's hard work. I know exactly how much hard work it is, through my own experiences with people i know and through reading those of people on here. Contrary to what a lot of people keep telling me i don't think a baby is just a doll to look after. I know it's a lifelong commitment, it's one i want to make. I know that i won't have my own freedom and someone else will suddenly become the centre of all of my decisions, i can't think of anything that would make me happier. There's nothing i want more than seeing my own child grow and develop, and being involved in that process.

Sorry this is so long, and such a rant. If anyone managed to read it all then thanks for taking the time. I just feel so down about it :(:(. xx ]]> Waiting To Try katy http://www.babyandbump.com/waiting-to-try/76730-really-struggling-waiting-long-sorry.html http://www.babyandbump.com/waiting-to-try/76684-my-plan-future.html Fri, 28 Nov 2008 21:38:31 GMT i am so fed up, i just want to get through with college, get a job, get a house, marry and have a baby i mean for god sake its so bloody simple, but... i am so fed up, i just want to get through with college, get a job, get a house, marry and have a baby

i mean for god sake its so bloody simple, but its taking sooooo long

if i can get this year over with i can either stay with mum and dad or find a place with seph in london and yes i kno its expensive but fuck it

i also want a job, most preferably at a dog groomers as that is my passion and im scared of people, hince the whole animal care thing

maybe we can have a house for how ever long it takes him to ask me to marry him, ofcource by the leap year if he doesnt ask i will :D

i dont want a big wedding, i want one rennacance style, with horses and shiny things on trees in a wood, blue bell wood would be great for that, i heard its permitted there

have no idea where the reception will be, but it'll be some where close to the woods

and then when wew come back from our two week holiday we can have another week off work and recover from our holiday, lol

of cource we would be sorting through the finances to make sure we got everything in order before trying for a baby,

heh more like ill be the one saying i want a baby over and over again

but anyway if it could work out like that it would be nice, but i know it doesnt always end up like that and tbh it doesnt really matter, as long as we can both provide for the baby and we love each other, it doesnt matter.


still want a baby now though, i mean if i do get pregnant ill be bloody shocked but ill be bloody thrilled too :) ]]> Waiting To Try MissPolley http://www.babyandbump.com/waiting-to-try/76684-my-plan-future.html http://www.babyandbump.com/waiting-to-try/76587-wtt-until-april-09-a.html Fri, 28 Nov 2008 15:00:36 GMT Well I'm ready to start TTC #2 now but due to medication OH has to take for his arthritis we have to wait until 6 months after he stops taking it due to the high chance of an abnormality if I were to fall pregnant whilst he was still taking it.

So... I guess I'll be hanging around in here for now until April 09. Mind you, I hadnt come across this site when TTC #1 so it'll be fun and hopefully the months will fly by! :) ]]> Waiting To Try smartie http://www.babyandbump.com/waiting-to-try/76587-wtt-until-april-09-a.html http://www.babyandbump.com/waiting-to-try/76568-mad-ramble-bout-oh-wtt.html Fri, 28 Nov 2008 13:52:27 GMT me and my dp are waiting to ttc til after i ahve seen my consultant after having an ectopic but he keeps sayin things like lets wait til the new year... me and my dp are waiting to ttc til after i ahve seen my consultant after having an ectopic but he keeps sayin things like lets wait til the new year then its maybe we should wait til after the wedding i know he is scared of having another ep but the next day it'll be that he cant wait to start ttc cause he misses our angel but no matter what i say weather it be thats ok we can wait til you are ready or that i understand he always snapps at me telling me i either dont want to ttc again cause i let the past get the better of me or that i am pressuring him in to it and that he loved our angel too and i am tryin to forget but i'm not i always know there is something missing and not a day goes by i dont wonder what would have been but i also dont want to give up on having any more he is always the one to bring it up and say something bout it but what ever i say is wrong!! :cry:

sorry for rambling its just a rant and i know when the times right for us we will be ok

i do love him sooo much i guess its just part of how things go sometimes ]]> Waiting To Try gnomette http://www.babyandbump.com/waiting-to-try/76568-mad-ramble-bout-oh-wtt.html http://www.babyandbump.com/waiting-to-try/76511-oops-need-some-advice-ladies.html Fri, 28 Nov 2008 10:05:03 GMT Ok, so having decided that we're not going to have any kids for at least a long while, we had a bit of a "slip up" last week. It was 2 days before I was due to ovulate and as we're using the natural family planning method, I wondered if there's any chance that I'll fall pregnant.
I did ovulate the day after I was due to, so our accident was 3 days before I ovulated. But the swimmers can live up to 7 days cant they?

I havent had any pregnancy symptoms yet and :witch: is due on 8th December so it's obviously too early to have any symptoms if I am pregnant.
Should I test now or should I wait till AF is late? ]]> Waiting To Try Mynx http://www.babyandbump.com/waiting-to-try/76511-oops-need-some-advice-ladies.html http://www.babyandbump.com/waiting-to-try/76396-we-talked.html Thu, 27 Nov 2008 20:27:25 GMT We decided we are going to start trying in January instead of September, he said he can't wait to feel my bump, stroke OUR baby bump, come to the scans with me and just hold my hand when ever i need him, to give Jayden and his baby a little brother or sister. OUR baby :D :happydance:

I know people think it's to fast but you know when something feels right in your heart you just go for it right?

xxxxx ]]> Waiting To Try http://www.babyandbump.com/waiting-to-try/76396-we-talked.html http://www.babyandbump.com/waiting-to-try/76388-shes-her-way.html Thu, 27 Nov 2008 20:07:29 GMT Well :witch: is on her way - it is going to be strange as I have not a period since becoming pregnant 4 months ago. One good thing is at least my... Well :witch: is on her way - it is going to be strange as I have not a period since becoming pregnant 4 months ago.

One good thing is at least my body is slowly going back to normal since m/c.

Next is to get the blood tests out the way - hopefully this may bring some light as I to why I m/c.

Sorry for pointless email. Just needed to type!

Rumps x ]]> Waiting To Try Rumpskin http://www.babyandbump.com/waiting-to-try/76388-shes-her-way.html http://www.babyandbump.com/waiting-to-try/76372-any-girls-pill-mini-pill.html Thu, 27 Nov 2008 19:03:15 GMT Just wondering, I'm on the mini-pill and wanted to know if anyone else gets paranoid all the time tht they are having pregnancy symptoms?
I think I analyse things way too much but as it messes up ur cycle and stuff it leaves me confused... especially when unusual things happen after having been on it for a long time (I'm on my 7th month). :dohh:
I always end up doing tests and feeling stupid when its negative lol! ]]> Waiting To Try ~curiosity~ http://www.babyandbump.com/waiting-to-try/76372-any-girls-pill-mini-pill.html http://www.babyandbump.com/waiting-to-try/76332-folic-acid-enough.html Thu, 27 Nov 2008 16:56:06 GMT Hi, my dh and i have decided to ttc from january or so, and i have just started taking vitamins, and the required amount of folic acid. What i was... Hi,
my dh and i have decided to ttc from january or so, and i have just started taking vitamins, and the required amount of folic acid.
What i was wondering was this, i know you're supposed to start taking it about 3 months before ttc, when we start ttc, it'll be about 2 months that i'll have been taking it, does this matter, or should i push ttc to a month later just in case?

thanks! ]]> Waiting To Try roc http://www.babyandbump.com/waiting-to-try/76332-folic-acid-enough.html http://www.babyandbump.com/waiting-to-try/76042-baby-dreams.html Wed, 26 Nov 2008 17:59:57 GMT I think I've been doing too much reading, I had my first 'baby dream' last night! I was pregnant, had the baby in hosp, (thankfully can't remember the giving birth part of the dream!!:lol: and then bought HER home and remember lying in bed with her breastfeeding.
Was very very vivid and woke up this morning almost needing to check the flat for a baby!!:rofl:
There's no way I could already be preg and we're not starting to try until end of Jan but I guess it's seeped into the sub concious that it's not that far away!! :happydance:

Anyone else have baby dreams :sleep: prior to even starting to try? ]]> Waiting To Try Kota http://www.babyandbump.com/waiting-to-try/76042-baby-dreams.html http://www.babyandbump.com/waiting-to-try/75871-wtt-but-maybe-baby-bit-long-tmi.html Wed, 26 Nov 2008 07:04:44 GMT Hi, I'm new to the forum, so not exactly sure where I should put this. DH wants to WTT, but I would LOVE to TTC. I got off the BC patch recently as it was wreaking havoc with my system (from what I can tell, I still seemed to ov some months, had all the ov symptoms, and hormones would go nuts- AF began getting worse and worse over about 6 months, and what finally led to me stopping was 3 weeks solid of a runny tummy!).

Anyway, after getting off the patch, we had unprotected sex twice, the two days following last BC AF. Weren't concerned about the possibility of pregnancy as it was so soon after getting off, and CM didn't show signs of ov. The day after that had yellow tinged EWCM (was definitely me, not DH). Since then cervix has stayed high, CM has been abundant and creamy-watery, and I've had light cramping on and off pretty much every day (VERY odd for me). I've also had a bit of a stuffed nose, a sore throat that lasted 2 days and suddenly disappeared, been feeling cold (especially feet), when DH (who is usually much colder than me) is fine, and had several dreams of having a girl baby and breastfeeding. Some foods are tasting very odd to me, I've had to get up during the night to wee almost every night, my wee is bright yellow, and my breasts have had shooting pains and tenderness off and on.

Logically I know the chances aren't that good, and I've been going back and forth between thinking I MUST be pregnant and I couldn't possibly be pregnant. :muaha: Could all these symptoms just be from getting off the patch? I wasn't having symptoms like this right when I got off, they only started now...? Could I actually be pregnant? I want that so badly, but I don't want to get my hopes up too high...although they pretty much already are.

I know...wait and test. AF is due end of this week-beginning of next week (giving a flexible time because I'm not sure what the BC will have done to my cycle), and DH I'm sure won't let me buy a test unless next week has come and gone with no sign of AF. This TWW will end up being a month wait for me...if :witch: doesn't show that is...

Sidenote: DH really does want a baby, and would be thrilled if we were pregnant, but he'd rather WTT for financial reasons and to have a little more time alone as a couple. He wants to TTC starting September next year.

Do these symptoms look promising for pregnancy? Could they just be symptoms from getting off BC (which came on suddenly)? Does anyone know someone who's gotten pregnant the first cycle off BC? (I know a couple people who have, but more stories would be encouraging.)

Forgot to add: Cervix is also soft, have been having more spots and a flakier scalp, and have been having mood swings like crazy- last night went from hysterical laughter at DH's mildly amusing antics to crying! Also been having tons of wind, which is not normal for me. ]]> Waiting To Try MayBlossom http://www.babyandbump.com/waiting-to-try/75871-wtt-but-maybe-baby-bit-long-tmi.html http://www.babyandbump.com/waiting-to-try/75857-srsly-enough-enough-just-venting.html Wed, 26 Nov 2008 03:03:46 GMT My Husband Is A complete A$$ He has the harshest ways of saying things I did a modeling shoot last week.. I did something a little bit racy... My Husband Is A complete A$$

He has the harshest ways of saying things

I did a modeling shoot last week.. I did something a little bit racy compared to what i normally do

I had a skirt on , and my legs were spread, BUT everything was covered, and It was TASTEFULLY done

He has enough balls To Call ME TRASHY..

Does He not Care About How He Makes Me Feel?~:cry: ]]> Waiting To Try mommieof22007 http://www.babyandbump.com/waiting-to-try/75857-srsly-enough-enough-just-venting.html http://www.babyandbump.com/waiting-to-try/75821-decide.html Tue, 25 Nov 2008 22:23:25 GMT i have a 7 week old baby and have always wanted children, but never been broody. however since haivng her i keep thinking about having another baby.... i have a 7 week old baby and have always wanted children, but never been broody. however since haivng her i keep thinking about having another baby. i am broody, i love her and want her to have little brothers and sisters.

when is it a good idea to start again, what age is a good age to have between them?

how will work take the news if i go off a year after returning, or less!!!

what does everyone think, what is best? ]]> Waiting To Try mrsdcooper http://www.babyandbump.com/waiting-to-try/75821-decide.html http://www.babyandbump.com/waiting-to-try/75793-newbie-have-few-questions.html Tue, 25 Nov 2008 21:08:13 GMT Hi everyone. This is my first post. I got married in September and me and my hubbie have decided to ttc in december time. Came off the pill mid... Hi everyone. This is my first post. I got married in September and me and my hubbie have decided to ttc in december time. Came off the pill mid october and havent had a period yet. We've been using condoms but the last few days Ive been feeling really different. I feel knackered, have a bit of a stuffy nose, tender nipples with spots around them,bloated and headachey. Are these symptoms probably due to me coming on or do they sound more like pregnancy symptoms?? I was on dianette for about 10 years. I was considering doing a test but feel a bit silly as we have been using condoms.Anyone have similar feelings when first off the pill? xx ]]> Waiting To Try babymaker2be http://www.babyandbump.com/waiting-to-try/75793-newbie-have-few-questions.html http://www.babyandbump.com/waiting-to-try/75735-ugh-need-vent.html Tue, 25 Nov 2008 17:48:10 GMT just when i think things are going my way randy has to be such a dumb butt and i swear some girls could give a rats butt if they are messing with... just when i think things are going my way randy has to be such a dumb butt and i swear some girls could give a rats butt if they are messing with another girls FIANCE ugh so he thinks its funny to tell me when he is just going to surprise me and not even tell me what he has up his sleeves which i think is cute but he says you keep bringing a baby up i wont do it until this time next year ahhhhhhhhhh are you serious but hes joking cause he knows it gets under my skin but what ever we'll just be messing around and ooppps baby i for got to pull out ;) type of thing awesome lol as far as this girl i swear i want to beat her stupid butt her and randy hung out one night while me and him were on a break now tell me this does not so weird he asked her to go get her notebook and he says well what do i get then (flirting with her right) she says a hug so big deal a hug right think again he goes and gets her notebook and comes back she hugs hm and gives him a peck on the lips ewww so what ever he pulled back and said what are you doing later that night they were in the back seat of someones car just driving around i think to hooters lol and he had his head down eyes closed and she gives him a peck again seriously can you be even more weird they talked on the phone what ever and of course he told me about her and what happened then i was like ok since that happened i cant trust you with her so cut off all means of communication with her myspace cell phone seeing her everything so she got deleted off myspace what does she do tries to add him again and sends a message on myspace saying i should of knocked on wood cause i new she was going to send me a message i love drama woot woot are you serious she is the one cause ing this so i sent her one back if you want drama you got it learn to leave my fiance alone and we wouldnt have drama this is brought upon your self i didnt say it to nicley like that but you get my drift so now what you know she is going to email randy back or me then what beat some stupid girls butt and to top it off if you want to get cought cheating make sure you cheat with someone who can compare to who you are with this girl can not compare at allllllll ]]> Waiting To Try pinkhunny369 http://www.babyandbump.com/waiting-to-try/75735-ugh-need-vent.html http://www.babyandbump.com/waiting-to-try/75446-birth-control-pill-miscarriage.html Mon, 24 Nov 2008 19:46:59 GMT Hi Ladies hope you are all having a good day, I just have a concern and am hoping to find some advice. I have been on oral birth control for the... Hi Ladies hope you are all having a good day, I just have a concern and am hoping to find some advice.

I have been on oral birth control for the past four years or so, and my OH and I always use condoms as well because we just aren't ready for a baby yet. About two and a half weeks ago in a condom broke, and neither of us realized it until we were finished. Although I have been pretty good about remembering to take the pill, I will admit I missed a couple within the past month (I did take one right away after our mishap). So flash foward a little over two weeks later and I'm due to have my AF. Although it did come (a few days late), it has been MUCH heavier than normal and there have been several clumps (and one larger one). I've also had some mild cramps which is not uncommon for me.

I'm wondering if anyone has any insight into my current situation. I had no symptoms of pregnancy prior to my AF so I don't really know what to think. Has anyone had anything similar happen or do you just have an opinion? ]]> Waiting To Try Booksmart http://www.babyandbump.com/waiting-to-try/75446-birth-control-pill-miscarriage.html http://www.babyandbump.com/waiting-to-try/75389-condoms-have-gone.html Mon, 24 Nov 2008 17:22:04 GMT I'm not sure where to post this as we're not actually TTC but are not trying not preventing, but anyway... The condoms have been consigned to the back of the drawer and will hopefully not re-emerge for at least another 9 months. :blush: ]]> Waiting To Try marley2580 http://www.babyandbump.com/waiting-to-try/75389-condoms-have-gone.html http://www.babyandbump.com/waiting-to-try/75362-a.html Mon, 24 Nov 2008 16:20:54 GMT so my prayers have been answered when randy got in the car yes things were wierd cause i havent seen him in over a month but when we got home... so my prayers have been answered when randy got in the car yes things were wierd cause i havent seen him in over a month but when we got home everything was back to normal no wierd ness what so ever i couldnt ask for a better weekend i missed everything so much all the things you really dont pay attention to until you dont have it anymore like feel him breathing or hearing it or him rubbing my back when we are cuddling i dont know things like that but we talked about everything ive been making him this things of 365 reasons on why i love you and he got to like 20 and broke down saying he doesnt do any of those things anymore like he realized hes been abandoning me i guess you can say and hes gone with all the bull shit and hes going to make me happy he even said when hes not with me he (like if he goes a long period of time with out me) doesnt know what he wants but the second he is with me he knows he wants to spend the rest of his life with me :) he put my rings back on me my promise ring and my engagment ring back on saying hes not going to promise me anything but he wants to change to be with me and he does want me and only me and he will marry me and he will start a family with me all that good stuff so as far as the baby thing we will talka about it and start trying in like a month he wants to make sure he can be the perfect dad and husband first make sure he can be there for EVERYTHING lol and make sure he doesnt mess up agian before we start trying so now i have 2 count downs when he moves in in 10 days and when we can talk/start tring 4-6 weeks ]]> Waiting To Try pinkhunny369 http://www.babyandbump.com/waiting-to-try/75362-a.html http://www.babyandbump.com/waiting-to-try/75345-hey-all-im-new-bit-advice-too-pleasee.html Mon, 24 Nov 2008 15:29:05 GMT Hey, Im leanne live in west midlands (from newcastle though) have a little girl called amber who is 1 on 31st of december! Time flies by, when your... Hey,
Im leanne live in west midlands (from newcastle though) have a little girl called amber who is 1 on 31st of december! Time flies by, when your having fun, lol!.

I really would like another baby, not right not, but not like in 1 -1 1/2 years time either.

To all the mummies out there who have had a second or third baby, how long did you wait? was it hard? do you think you should have waited longer? how did your other child take it?

Thanks
Leanne xx ]]> Waiting To Try MummyToAmberx http://www.babyandbump.com/waiting-to-try/75345-hey-all-im-new-bit-advice-too-pleasee.html http://www.babyandbump.com/waiting-to-try/75325-can-join-you-waiting.html Mon, 24 Nov 2008 14:54:46 GMT Hi everybody! Ive been lurking round here for a while but after having the baby chat with my OH last night I thought it would help me to chat to you... Hi everybody! Ive been lurking round here for a while but after having the baby chat with my OH last night I thought it would help me to chat to you girls seen as your all as broody as me!

So ill introduce myself....

I live in Scotland, Im 22 my OH is 24 and weve been together for three years. The main reason we are waiting to try is because we need to save up some money(and Id like to get married before babies come along) so we could be waiting for awhile!

Look forward to chatting to you all! ]]> Waiting To Try cheeky http://www.babyandbump.com/waiting-to-try/75325-can-join-you-waiting.html http://www.babyandbump.com/waiting-to-try/75199-wtt-oct-dec-2009-anyone.html Mon, 24 Nov 2008 04:22:29 GMT Hi guys, Well, I had the talk with DH this weekend, and he would prefer to wait another year before we try again, which would make Liam around 3. I... Hi guys,
Well, I had the talk with DH this weekend, and he would prefer to wait another year before we try again, which would make Liam around 3. I am ok with that, just want to hopefully be preggers again before I am 35....always said I would be done by then. Also, it would give us time to "shore up the defenses" in case I have to go out early again. I don't know if anyone else on the board is waiting another year and going to try around this time next year? If so, let's chat! What's the reason? How are you staying sane? Good luck to everyone wtt and ttc! :D ]]> Waiting To Try eclipse http://www.babyandbump.com/waiting-to-try/75199-wtt-oct-dec-2009-anyone.html http://www.babyandbump.com/waiting-to-try/75155-long-wait.html Sun, 23 Nov 2008 23:09:11 GMT Hi, Just joined BabyandBump and thought I'd get some advice.

I recently had my son, he is 4 and a half months old, and love being a mum. I always knew I wanted my children close together and we are beginning to think about trying for another. Just wondered if anyone has an opinion or had children resonably close together? Doctor says to wait 6 months which is what we are thinking about.

Thx ]]> Waiting To Try morebabies http://www.babyandbump.com/waiting-to-try/75155-long-wait.html http://www.babyandbump.com/waiting-to-try/75029-oh-gee-im-stuck-ttc.html Sun, 23 Nov 2008 14:12:45 GMT Okay.... Well, we were meant to be waiting until NEXT christmas, eg 09. Now OH has said we can start trying THIS christmas if I want to. I asked him... Okay.... Well, we were meant to be waiting until NEXT christmas, eg 09. Now OH has said we can start trying THIS christmas if I want to.

I asked him if HE wanted to, or if it was just because he thought it would make me love him.... He said he wanted something to work towards and to have something he could work FOR eg a baby, it would give him another reason to live and the opportunity to achieve for a 'cause' as it were.

:dohh: Am I ready for this?

I know I really really want a baby right now, but I'd just decided that I might set our date back another year or at least a few months....now that he's offering me this, I just don't know. I feel excited because I could have what I want NOW, rather than waiting.....but am I really really ready?

What do I do???!! ]]> Waiting To Try nightkd http://www.babyandbump.com/waiting-to-try/75029-oh-gee-im-stuck-ttc.html http://www.babyandbump.com/waiting-to-try/74959-ov-pains-do-you-get-if-any.html Sun, 23 Nov 2008 01:57:36 GMT I get sore boobs, ov pains in left or right side, get tearful and moody - my period is not so bad in comparison !! I get sore boobs, ov pains in left or right side, get tearful and moody - my period is not so bad in comparison !! ]]> Waiting To Try Mrs Doddy http://www.babyandbump.com/waiting-to-try/74959-ov-pains-do-you-get-if-any.html http://www.babyandbump.com/waiting-to-try/74871-wtt-feb-march.html Sat, 22 Nov 2008 18:01:12 GMT Hey girls anyone wtt in Feb or March?? My DH gets his reversal on 23 jan one wk earlier that expected yipee!!! Think I'll let him recover til end of Feb or March b4 I knacker him out with all of the BD-in!!!!:happydance: ]]> Waiting To Try chickie_115 http://www.babyandbump.com/waiting-to-try/74871-wtt-feb-march.html http://www.babyandbump.com/waiting-to-try/74720-mrbum-says-cant-have-one-yet.html Fri, 21 Nov 2008 23:06:26 GMT and in response to the number of couples in WTT falling pregnant lately, he has pulled on his ANTI-trying pants... Image:... and in response to the number of couples in WTT falling pregnant lately, he has pulled on his ANTI-trying pants...



*sigh* Looks like there is no chance for me in the near future... ]]> Waiting To Try TashaAndBump http://www.babyandbump.com/waiting-to-try/74720-mrbum-says-cant-have-one-yet.html http://www.babyandbump.com/waiting-to-try/74713-dont-want-wttc.html Fri, 21 Nov 2008 22:44:35 GMT Ugh... had my 2nd miscarriage confirmed by the dr today... *sigh* Back on the pill, and onto WTTC... Feel liek absolute shit right now. :cry: Ugh...

had my 2nd miscarriage confirmed by the dr today...

*sigh*
Back on the pill, and onto WTTC...

Feel liek absolute shit right now. :cry: ]]> Waiting To Try krockwell http://www.babyandbump.com/waiting-to-try/74713-dont-want-wttc.html http://www.babyandbump.com/waiting-to-try/74673-well.html Fri, 21 Nov 2008 20:30:53 GMT I wont be on here ladies till sunday night or monday morning i get to see my boyfriend this weekend and hopefully we can talk about everything and... I wont be on here ladies till sunday night or monday morning i get to see my boyfriend this weekend and hopefully we can talk about everything and get things straightened out. He's lives in IL cause of college and i live in WI and we fight alot when we arent together and arent doing so good and in 2 weeks he graduates and hopefully moves in but i hope we can get everything cleared this weekend and things go back to normal soon with marriage and a family Ill let you guys know how it goes cross your fingers :) ]]> Waiting To Try pinkhunny369 http://www.babyandbump.com/waiting-to-try/74673-well.html http://www.babyandbump.com/waiting-to-try/74626-fertile-again.html Fri, 21 Nov 2008 17:43:38 GMT For the past couple of days, I have had pains in my side which I have now worked out are OV pains. I have had EWCM mixed with brown discharge still... For the past couple of days, I have had pains in my side which I have now worked out are OV pains. I have had EWCM mixed with brown discharge still from the miscarriage (sorry if tmi). On one hand, I am thinking, :happydance:, my body is getting back to normal and :witch: should be here in the next few weeks. On the other hand, it is a reminder that :baby: is no longer here. I cannot get pregnant again until I know for sure why my pregnancies did not go full term and out of a strange respect to my angels. I cannot endure a pregnancy which results in me 'giving birth' to another loss. It is too painful :cry:

I know I am so lucky in that I can conceive and I count my blessings that I can. There are so many wonderful ladies that long to be pregnant and do not conceive. I cannot imagine how it must feel.

I hope and pray the doctors/gyno's can find out why.

:hug: ]]> Waiting To Try Rumpskin http://www.babyandbump.com/waiting-to-try/74626-fertile-again.html http://www.babyandbump.com/waiting-to-try/74621-hopefully.html Fri, 21 Nov 2008 17:37:46 GMT I get to see my boyfriend tomorrow and hopefully all goes well and things are better between me and him and he'll want to start tring again and mariage and family life is back on track ]]> Waiting To Try pinkhunny369 http://www.babyandbump.com/waiting-to-try/74621-hopefully.html http://www.babyandbump.com/waiting-to-try/74572-wtt-my-story-long-sorry.html Fri, 21 Nov 2008 14:44:42 GMT well where do I start,

I'm 31 and was diagnosed with pcos at the age of 16 after having some wacky AF's!! GP said not to worry cos I was still so young and no plans to start a family....
My bf at the time was cool with it until we reached about 20 then he wanted to ttc, nothing happened (thankfully now lol) and we split after a yr or so of trying.

I had then decided no kids for me ever and went on to enjoy my new found freedom lol!!

I met my now dh and settled into a life of being step mum to his 2 kids a dd and a ds.. ready made family:) he has a vasectomy (9yrs)

Now after almost 2 yrs of being married we desperatley want a baby 2gether :( he is booked in for a reversal on jan 28th!!!

Does anyone have any advice or anything I have no idea where to start with ov stuff or anything :cry: help lol


Sorry for waffling on lol

and thanks

C x ]]> Waiting To Try chickie_115 http://www.babyandbump.com/waiting-to-try/74572-wtt-my-story-long-sorry.html http://www.babyandbump.com/waiting-to-try/74371-trying-again.html Thu, 20 Nov 2008 19:44:44 GMT how long should you wait after you miscarried/still birth before trying again how long should you wait after you miscarried/still birth before trying again ]]> Waiting To Try pinkhunny369 http://www.babyandbump.com/waiting-to-try/74371-trying-again.html http://www.babyandbump.com/waiting-to-try/74370-help.html Thu, 20 Nov 2008 19:42:58 GMT Me and my boyfriend i dont think are on the same page we used to be but now i thin khes friends are more important help what should i do i want to... Me and my boyfriend i dont think are on the same page we used to be but now i thin khes friends are more important help what should i do i want to settle down and have a family and friends arent that big of a deal i dont no anymore maybe he got things straightened out and now we are on the same page who knows havent seen him in a month to find out ]]> Waiting To Try pinkhunny369 http://www.babyandbump.com/waiting-to-try/74370-help.html http://www.babyandbump.com/waiting-to-try/74368-long-you-waiting.html Thu, 20 Nov 2008 19:38:54 GMT How long are you WTTC for?
I'm still here, and still broody hehe. Can't wait to try for a :bfp:

Damn education and money! :hissy: ]]> Waiting To Try broody21 http://www.babyandbump.com/waiting-to-try/74368-long-you-waiting.html http://www.babyandbump.com/waiting-to-try/74347-hi.html Thu, 20 Nov 2008 18:31:33 GMT Hi im new to this my friend said it was a good site so i thought i would try it out Hi im new to this my friend said it was a good site so i thought i would try it out ]]> Waiting To Try pinkhunny369 http://www.babyandbump.com/waiting-to-try/74347-hi.html http://www.babyandbump.com/waiting-to-try/74156-feeling-confused.html Thu, 20 Nov 2008 02:16:19 GMT I'm really beginning to want another child. I want my son to have a playmate and I just love having a child so much that I want another. The thing that makes me nervous is that the next child will probably be our last and as much as I want another now I wonder if I should wait 4 or more years. I really want to cherish the time I have when they are babies and I would feel sad if 6 years from now all my kids where gone at school and the baby period was over with. I wish I didn't want to have another baby already but I do. :muaha: I guess the question is to wait or not to wait? ]]> Waiting To Try luckyme225 http://www.babyandbump.com/waiting-to-try/74156-feeling-confused.html http://www.babyandbump.com/waiting-to-try/74136-going-do-time.html Wed, 19 Nov 2008 23:25:54 GMT Right, i didnt want to take over the other thread, so i thought i would start another. I have had problems on and off with eating disorders for... Right, i didnt want to take over the other thread, so i thought i would start another.

I have had problems on and off with eating disorders for years. Recently, i have got overweight. Im not gigantic, but i am carrying far too many unnecessary pounds.

I have been stressing about this alot, because i want to do the very best for my baby when i TTC. Everytime in the past when i have tried to diet i have ended up ill quite quickly. Getting overweight has been a sort of protection from being ill, but i realise now its just a different sort of ill.

My OH likes me a little chubby, but i need to lose this weight, for the sake of my future kids.

So.. tomorrow i will be starting my diet. Trying to lose a few stone before i start TTC. Im going to start off cutting down and not buy another scale for a few weeks, just go by how i feel. Then after christmas (which i know will be hard) i want to really go for it and get a bit thinner for ttc.

Sorry, this is far too long and boring. I just needed to get it all out.
Thank you for reading :) :hug: ]]> Waiting To Try http://www.babyandbump.com/waiting-to-try/74136-going-do-time.html http://www.babyandbump.com/waiting-to-try/73821-anyone-breastfeeding-waiting-af.html Tue, 18 Nov 2008 23:45:40 GMT I am still breastfeeding my 10 month old and waiting for AF to arrive so we can TTC#3. So thats why we are WTT. Anyone else in the same position ? I am still breastfeeding my 10 month old and waiting for AF to arrive so we can TTC#3. So thats why we are WTT. Anyone else in the same position ? ]]> Waiting To Try Shemmy http://www.babyandbump.com/waiting-to-try/73821-anyone-breastfeeding-waiting-af.html http://www.babyandbump.com/waiting-to-try/73778-year-isnt-too-long.html Tue, 18 Nov 2008 21:15:32 GMT I've been to the docs this morning and now i'm waiting for :witch: to arrive before i can start taking the pill again. Can honestly say this is the ONLY time i'll say i want her to come back!! lol she's unusually late but 2 tests can't be wrong i suppose..
Me and OH have decided that i stay on the pill [when the witch lets me start] until December 09, we then see how our situation has changed and whether we're financially ready for a bambino - then either get going or stay as we are for a while longer.
Anyone else waiting for financial and health reasons? x ]]> Waiting To Try Katia-xO http://www.babyandbump.com/waiting-to-try/73778-year-isnt-too-long.html http://www.babyandbump.com/waiting-to-try/73688-not-normal.html Tue, 18 Nov 2008 17:04:10 GMT Okay im just blabbering and if its TMI im sorry Okay so i just went to stand up and when i did, i felt this weird round shape thing just fall... Okay im just blabbering and if its TMI im sorry

Okay so i just went to stand up and when i did, i felt this weird round shape thing just fall out.

Ive had cramps REALLY bad since lastnight,

and now im bleeding really bad

Ive called my Dr, ANd waiting on a call back im just freaked out ]]> Waiting To Try mommieof22007 http://www.babyandbump.com/waiting-to-try/73688-not-normal.html http://www.babyandbump.com/waiting-to-try/73533-feeling-disheartened.html Tue, 18 Nov 2008 04:39:22 GMT Hey, i've been on here a while and i'm sorry for the rant, or kind of depressing thread. I just feel so alone. I was talking to mh OH today and turns out he changed all his plans about schooling and moving and me finishing my school. We had made a plan before but i guess he was just humoring me and saying yes when that wasn't what he really wanted. So i got my hopes up and not i feel that he just doesn't really care about what i think. He wants it his way and that seems to be about it. I was just wondering if anyone has been in this position and what they did to fix the disconnection in their relationship? Agian sorry for the rant! ]]> Waiting To Try babycraze19 http://www.babyandbump.com/waiting-to-try/73533-feeling-disheartened.html http://www.babyandbump.com/waiting-to-try/73517-1-year-til-ttc-2-says-oh.html Tue, 18 Nov 2008 00:44:06 GMT I asked my OH when we could start trying for number two, and he said in a year!!:happydance: Okay, so I would have liked to start trying in May when... I asked my OH when we could start trying for number two, and he said in a year!!:happydance: Okay, so I would have liked to start trying in May when Alexa is one year old, but he said he would like to have some more money coming in before we start trying again, so I can definitely respect that! He said that money is the only issue, so if the money situation changes earlier than that, you can bet I will be bringing up :baby: again :rofl: ]]> Waiting To Try Alexas Mommy http://www.babyandbump.com/waiting-to-try/73517-1-year-til-ttc-2-says-oh.html http://www.babyandbump.com/waiting-to-try/73475-said-we-would-wait-3-years.html Mon, 17 Nov 2008 22:32:46 GMT hubby and i agreed that money would be tight if iwe have another baby so close to this one (she is only 6 weeks old) but he has changed his mind,... hubby and i agreed that money would be tight if iwe have another baby so close to this one (she is only 6 weeks old) but he has changed his mind, would love another but being sensible we have decided to enjoy her for a year and then think about TTC then. so will be in here for a while, although we said we would wait and are using contraception we have decided its not as important as it used to be, so could be here for a while, or not if last time was anything to go by.....

would be great to chat to anyone who is waiting for a while and share our journey ]]> Waiting To Try mrsdcooper http://www.babyandbump.com/waiting-to-try/73475-said-we-would-wait-3-years.html http://www.babyandbump.com/waiting-to-try/73433-me-again.html Mon, 17 Nov 2008 20:52:07 GMT Sorry...haha but last weekend me n OH wernt very careful i know im probaly not pregnant because i havnt even had a period since having charlie so i... Sorry...haha but last weekend me n OH wernt very careful i know im probaly not pregnant because i havnt even had a period since having charlie so i probably havnt ovulated but im totaly symptom HUNNTING (not spotting actually LOOKING for them) haha i had a dream lastnight i took a test and it was positive iv been feeling really tierd and had very slight cramps...everything that happend when i was pregnant! its driving me mad i know im not but im probably gunna take a test anyway :rofl::rofl: ]]> Waiting To Try Zarababy1 http://www.babyandbump.com/waiting-to-try/73433-me-again.html http://www.babyandbump.com/waiting-to-try/73417-hello-all.html Mon, 17 Nov 2008 20:20:49 GMT Hello WTTers!

I am new here or to any concieving/pregnancy/baby anything. My husband and I were married in August of this year (although we're nearing year 5) and we're planning on starting to TTC around April of next year. We're pretty much just trying to get finances straight and get the house fixed up a bit plus take a trip to New Orleans/Florida before we start. Also my work requires me to be around for 4th quarter so we have to plan around that but that's ok! It's so exciting to think that we could be pregnant next year, we're both so ready in fact I think he's more ready than I am, he wants to start now! LOL!! So anyhow it's obviously on my mind a lot right now and so I like to research and talk about it but I don't want to annoy friends and co-workers too much. So if anyone want to ask anything or talk about anything BRING IT!! Hehe, ok that's it. :blush:

Heather ]]> Waiting To Try Mrs. JJ http://www.babyandbump.com/waiting-to-try/73417-hello-all.html http://www.babyandbump.com/waiting-to-try/73402-wanna-pregnant-now.html Mon, 17 Nov 2008 19:57:25 GMT im soooo worked up! i keep dreaming about getting BFP's I reeeaaalllyyy wanna get pregnant now!! its doing my head in!! your probably not intested but im going to list a list of resons NOT to get pregnant yet

1. you wont fit in your wedding dress
2. you'll too pregnant toooo on your honeymoon
3. the age gap between the new baby and charlie will be to small!

Ok that didnt make me feel anybetter!!! i know its only a month n half untill we start trying but i keep thinking well what if he doesnt happen straight away! then i rember jan was the date just incase it didnt happen straight away! well i havnt had a period since having charlie so if we wernt careful now it might not happen right!? hahahahaha :rofl::hissy: ]]> Waiting To Try Zarababy1 http://www.babyandbump.com/waiting-to-try/73402-wanna-pregnant-now.html http://www.babyandbump.com/waiting-to-try/73380-lil-confused-help.html Mon, 17 Nov 2008 18:59:05 GMT My partner and i married in June and already have two gorgeous daughters (2 and 3). I came off the pill in september due to a family crisis and... My partner and i married in June and already have two gorgeous daughters (2 and 3).
I came off the pill in september due to a family crisis and generally forgetting. Recently i have been getting hot flushes and irregular periods. Im not sure if this is due to coming off the pill. Ive heard alot of people comment on 'spotting' but i dont know what this is. These irregular periods i mentioned last a day (sometimes two) and arent the same colour as what i would called a normal pill period. Ive put on 8lbs in the past month but am not sure if this id due to the 'family crisis'.

Ive just done a pregnancy test and it was negative. Im due for a period on sunday. Could this have been too early?

With my other two pregnancies i never had an inkling i was pregnant until i was about four months. (doctor told me i was over reacting with one and the other was a stomach ulcer)!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


:hug: ]]> Waiting To Try Kayleigh Lou http://www.babyandbump.com/waiting-to-try/73380-lil-confused-help.html http://www.babyandbump.com/waiting-to-try/73337-im-here-now.html Mon, 17 Nov 2008 16:32:54 GMT Hello girls I have spent way too long in the Miscarriage Forum this year and time to venture out. As some of you may know, I have had 2... Hello girls

I have spent way too long in the Miscarriage Forum this year and time to venture out.

As some of you may know, I have had 2 miscarriages this year, the last started a couple of weeks ago. I am signed off of work and hoping to go back next week when I am 100% better.

Went to the doctors today as I had a few things to ask - saw the lady I saw last time I m/c. She was lovely which helped.

She wants to do some blood tests on me to test my thyroid, diabetes, etc. I have this booked for Tuesday week. I then need to ring her for the results - very scary.

She has agreed as this is my 2nd miscarriage this year and because of my age (37), if the bloods are inconclusive, she will refer me to a gyno. I am no way ready for TTC but she did say that once :witch: has arrived, there is no reason why we shouldnt start TTC! I was told to wait 3 months last time.

She went through my family history - both my mum and sister had miscarriages and my maternal great grandmother had several miscarriages. She also said that my blood type (O rhesus negative) is not a factor nor is my cervix because both miscarriages happened earlier rather than later.

I am a bit more perkier today. I dont want to think about TTC for a while but I am positive that they may find out why I am m/c.

Rumps x ]]> Waiting To Try Rumpskin http://www.babyandbump.com/waiting-to-try/73337-im-here-now.html http://www.babyandbump.com/waiting-to-try/73166-hey.html Sun, 16 Nov 2008 22:59:41 GMT Hiiii =]

I need some help....
My boyfriend and I had unprotected sex 1 week and 1 day ago. I went to a Phamarcy to get the morning after pill. The nurse said that it probably wouldn't work. I came on 1 day after taking it. But maybe I'm reading too much into it, but I keep on feeling sick and my tummy feels harder. It's most probably me being paranoid.
So, is it too soon to take a pregnancy test? And if I can, which one do I take?
It's not that I don't want a baby, I cannot wait to have one! In fact, I want 6! Lol! So please don't think that I'm just a silly teenager who's got herself into a dilemma, its just I dont think it would be fair me bringing another human being into this world, when I hardly have enough money for myself etc etc.

xXx ]]> Waiting To Try Annabelle.x http://www.babyandbump.com/waiting-to-try/73166-hey.html http://www.babyandbump.com/waiting-to-try/73145-so-excited.html Sun, 16 Nov 2008 21:56:53 GMT About being pregnant again. I really am :happydance:

Sept 09, I'm so so so excited. I keep telling OH and he says 'not yet'. I know not yet but we have a date and i KNOW i'm allowed another baby bump. I am so excited. Oh by the way, did i say, i'm so excited :happydance: ]]> Waiting To Try amy_tea http://www.babyandbump.com/waiting-to-try/73145-so-excited.html http://www.babyandbump.com/waiting-to-try/73101-getting-into-shape-before-trying.html Sun, 16 Nov 2008 20:07:36 GMT This may sound ridiculous but I would like to get into shape before hubby and I try getting pregnant... I think I'm around 15-20 lbs over my healthy weight mark.

Is this pointless since I'll most likely put it all back on (and more!) during the pregnancy? ]]> Waiting To Try WTTMommy http://www.babyandbump.com/waiting-to-try/73101-getting-into-shape-before-trying.html http://www.babyandbump.com/waiting-to-try/73096-ill-wtt-little-longer.html Sun, 16 Nov 2008 19:44:29 GMT I've had a chat with OH (& he is happy to wait) so we have decided to wait until after the wedding to TTC. I have mixed feelings but I think its ultimately for the best.

I also had my work hours slashed last week due to the current economic climate, they couldn't afford to keep me on full time :hissy: At least this way I have longer to find and settle in to a full time job before I make any claims for mat leave - Thats what i'll tell myself anyway!!

Kat x ]]> Waiting To Try Kitkat_11am http://www.babyandbump.com/waiting-to-try/73096-ill-wtt-little-longer.html http://www.babyandbump.com/waiting-to-try/72988-im-kick-his-butt.html Sun, 16 Nov 2008 11:19:55 GMT OH put candy in the baby jar.

:grr:

I wish he'd be more excited about a babe. ]]> Waiting To Try honeybunch2k7 http://www.babyandbump.com/waiting-to-try/72988-im-kick-his-butt.html http://www.babyandbump.com/waiting-to-try/72975-any-one-wtc-after-m-c.html Sun, 16 Nov 2008 10:05:37 GMT just wondering if anyone is WTC after a M/C and how long you have decided to wait? and how ur feeling about going through a pregnacy again? im... just wondering if anyone is WTC after a M/C and how long you have decided to wait? and how ur feeling about going through a pregnacy again? im really confused n worried bout it all... would love to have a chat with some people about it?
aaiimmee xxx ]]> Waiting To Try aaiimmee http://www.babyandbump.com/waiting-to-try/72975-any-one-wtc-after-m-c.html http://www.babyandbump.com/waiting-to-try/72945-sma-advert-uk.html Sun, 16 Nov 2008 00:15:54 GMT Has anyone else seen this advert? Its so sweet. Makes me cry every single time i see it. I wish my OH felt like that :cry: I cant find it on... Has anyone else seen this advert?

Its so sweet. Makes me cry every single time i see it.
I wish my OH felt like that :cry:

I cant find it on youtube or anything, accept for a really abridged version, but its supposed to be from the dads point of view and the words are something like;


I promise not to pretend i'm asleep when our baby wakes at 3am, or 4am, or 5am.

I promise never to say 'my mum thinks your holding the baby wrong'.

i promise not to mention that sometimes when i kiss your beautiful neck it smells of perfume and baby sick.

I promise not to join in any of my mates sing the theme tune from the Omen, all though it is quite funny.

I promise to do at least my fair share of nappy changing and night feeding.

I promise to tell you often, how proud i am of you, and how you've made me the happiest dad on the planet. All this i pledge without any pressure from you, my lovely lovely misses.

:cry:

I cant find the whole advert, but this is the end of it - http://www.dailymotion.com/video/x384ov_sma-advert_ads ]]> Waiting To Try http://www.babyandbump.com/waiting-to-try/72945-sma-advert-uk.html http://www.babyandbump.com/waiting-to-try/72919-grrrrrrrrrrrr.html Sat, 15 Nov 2008 22:18:54 GMT UGH!!!! i need a rant. Everyone is pregnant, everyone has meaning to their lives. I feel so lost and so behind. Im trying my very hardest at uni,... UGH!!!! i need a rant.

Everyone is pregnant, everyone has meaning to their lives. I feel so lost and so behind.

Im trying my very hardest at uni, but failing. Everyone says you need it to get anywhere blahhh blahhhh. But i think the biggest success you can ever have is starting a family.

I dunno. Im just sick of it all.
Wish i had some meaning to my life, with a little one.

Sorry - ignore me. Im well boring. lol. ]]> Waiting To Try http://www.babyandbump.com/waiting-to-try/72919-grrrrrrrrrrrr.html http://www.babyandbump.com/waiting-to-try/72874-hello.html Sat, 15 Nov 2008 18:57:42 GMT Well i said never ever again and certainly not anytime soon and here I am the girl who hasn't had a chance to post her birth story yet posting in here! :rofl:

I would easily have waited until Ruby was 3/4 but the more OH talks about wanting another one and the more ppl who i talk to who have 2 close together (OH being one of these ppl - he has ds 15 and dd 14) make me want to do it more and more!

So... is anyone (Lisa/Mervs Mum - i told her she was mad :rofl:) in the same boat??

If someone could promise that I'd have a dd as wonderful & easy as this one I'd do it tomorrow and we're so lucky to have her :cloud9: i think we might be pushing it trying for another so soon and what happens if number 2 turns out to be a ds i would be :cloud9: but this would be different financially which at the mo is tight!!! :blush:

I am aslo BF so dont know how easily I would get preggo but one of OH reasons for not wanting to wait is that we had vasectomy reversal to enable us to have dd and there is a chance over time scar tissue will prevent us having another baby.

Anyway, in the time I've taken to write this I could've written my birth story :rofl:

Does everyone feel like this after having a baby?

Laura xxx ]]> Waiting To Try Laura1984 http://www.babyandbump.com/waiting-to-try/72874-hello.html http://www.babyandbump.com/waiting-to-try/72444-wtc-taking-forever.html Fri, 14 Nov 2008 06:02:03 GMT DH and I have been married for 14 months and 1 week =)

We decided before getting married that we'd wait 2 years to start trying, or at least until I finish my studies.

I have another year and a half left :S How in the world do you let the time pass? (Reading baby and bump is obviously not helping much :P) ]]> Waiting To Try WTTMommy http://www.babyandbump.com/waiting-to-try/72444-wtc-taking-forever.html http://www.babyandbump.com/waiting-to-try/72385-whhhhaaaaa-everyone-getting-pregnant.html Thu, 13 Nov 2008 21:12:37 GMT In the last two days two people I know have quietly announced on Facebook they are pregnant :hissy::hissy::hissy: everyone I know at the moment seems... In the last two days two people I know have quietly announced on Facebook they are pregnant :hissy::hissy::hissy: everyone I know at the moment seems to be either, trying or is pregnant :happydance: to them but :cry: I want one. Still got three months :dohh:

and breathe !!!! I start the pregnacare tommorow :dance::yipee: ]]> Waiting To Try Mrs Doddy http://www.babyandbump.com/waiting-to-try/72385-whhhhaaaaa-everyone-getting-pregnant.html http://www.babyandbump.com/waiting-to-try/72361-can-come.html Thu, 13 Nov 2008 20:08:52 GMT Well a few people have said I'm nuts but since about 2 days after my little girl was born I have been itching to get cracking with #3!!!

So I suppose I'm WTT. We dont want to get pregnant before January as I'd like a baby born September onwards. If we still feel the same way in January we'll start TTC!! :happydance:

I'm breastfeeding and intend to carry on for as long as possible and I understand this can have an effect on your periods. :( So I'm not sure how long it will take and of course time to ourselves is already at a premium with a LO in the house so opportunities to BD might not present themselves as often as they did when we were TTC last time!!!

So here I am....:hi:

x ]]> Waiting To Try Mervs Mum http://www.babyandbump.com/waiting-to-try/72361-can-come.html http://www.babyandbump.com/waiting-to-try/72241-introduce-myself-again-also-have-problem.html Thu, 13 Nov 2008 14:25:24 GMT Hi all,
Just thought i'd sort of re-introduce myself!
I was on here a while ago -briefly, and i'm making a come-back!
Myself and dh have decided we'll be trying for #1 in about a year from now- a long way off i know, but still exciting for me!
We had a m/c back in June, it wasn't a planned pregnancy, but was still wanted all the same, as we're very happy and secure.

I've been hmming and hawing for ages about the big 'when?' as i really want to head back to university and get a degree etc.. but by the time i'd be finished i would be about 34/35 which i'm worried about leaving it that long, incase we have any problems etc...

I just wanted to ask if anyone has had a baby and then gone back to colege? and did they manage?

i'm still not sure what to do really, i want to be the best i can be for any children i have, but i also am worried about leaving it too late and having problems etc..

Any one have any views at all? They'd be graetly appreciated!

Sorry this has turned into an essay,:blush: but thanks for reading anyway!!

Please let me know what you think!:loopy::loopy::loopy: ]]> Waiting To Try roc http://www.babyandbump.com/waiting-to-try/72241-introduce-myself-again-also-have-problem.html http://www.babyandbump.com/waiting-to-try/72134-taking-big-step.html Thu, 13 Nov 2008 08:01:48 GMT One of the big reasons we're not trying to conceive yet is because of my health. My reproductive system is a bit wonky. But today is a big day because I've found the place I'm going to go to get 'straightened out'. I'm so excited. It's a family planning clinic, so they'll be able to be with me through all the stages.

:happydance:

It's a long road to :bfp: but I feel like I'm taking the first big step. ]]> Waiting To Try ozbutterfly http://www.babyandbump.com/waiting-to-try/72134-taking-big-step.html http://www.babyandbump.com/waiting-to-try/72013-omg-omg-omg.html Wed, 12 Nov 2008 20:09:42 GMT :happydance::happydance:guess what!! oh just told me he wants to start trying now!! we're supposed to be waiting until april so that theres a bigger age gap between kids. im so excited, guess im moving over to ttc!:happydance: ]]> Waiting To Try FsMummy http://www.babyandbump.com/waiting-to-try/72013-omg-omg-omg.html http://www.babyandbump.com/waiting-to-try/72009-change-heart.html Wed, 12 Nov 2008 19:57:38 GMT Hey all... It seems that my OH has changed his mind about having a baby...we were talking about it and had decided that we were gonna start trying... Hey all...

It seems that my OH has changed his mind about having a baby...we were talking about it and had decided that we were gonna start trying in about 2 years, but now he's had a change of heart.. I havent been going on about having babies or anything like that.. he said the way he feels right now is that he doesnt want any kids.

To be honest I'm less disappointed than I thought I would be. My OH has Multiple Sclerosis and he's worried that he may pass this on to our baby (MS seems to run in his family) Also, he said that he knows it's selfish but he wants to keep me all to himself. I think it's cos we've waited a long time to be together... we've known each other 12 years and always had a little "something" between us but I was in a long term relationship till 3 years ago so we could never do anything then ... so yeah, I can totally understand why he's saying that lol!

I have a 16 year old daughter from a previous relationship (split from her dad when she was 2) so it's not as if I feel I'm being denied. Also, I've just gone back to work after being a stay at home mum and I gotta admit that I'm really enjoying some independance of my own. Knowing that I can go out when I want, go to work without having to worry about the cost of childminding and stuff like that has been very liberating and to be perfectly honest I dont think I'm ready to give that up yet anyway lol! We dont live together yet either so we should really think about taking the next natural steps in our relationship rather than rush ahead of ourselves! I love him very much and really dont wanna spoil things or ruin it cos we've rushed into too much too soon if you know what I mean, and he's said he feels the same.

My age is another factor.. the reason we'd said we'd go for it in 2 years is because of my age.. I'm 34 now and of course I worry about that good old biological clock running out of ticks as my mum went thru her menopause in the run up to her 40th birthday! So it's likely that I'll be around the same age when I go thru mine. Doesnt leave me alot of time eh!
Having another baby would be great but I gotta be honest and say that it isnt the be all and end all for me right now. I do get broody tho when I go over and see Nikkinoonoo's Jessica (my best friend and her beautiful little stunner :) ) but I'm quite content to play the doting "Auntie" and spoil her rotten! :p
BUT we're using the natural family planning method so I guess if it happens then it was meant to be but we wont be TTC or even WTT, so I hope you girls dont mind if I lurk and pop my head in occasionally as I really enjoying reading about you lol!

Sending lots of baby dust, sticky beans and H & H times to you all :)
:hug: ]]> Waiting To Try Mynx http://www.babyandbump.com/waiting-to-try/72009-change-heart.html http://www.babyandbump.com/waiting-to-try/71980-have-decided.html Wed, 12 Nov 2008 18:13:59 GMT Even though I really want a baby I have decided that bringing up the whole baby thing to my bf is on the back burner I'll let him decide when it's a good time...I have been pushing him hard and that isn't a good thing...so yeah and I kinda wanna lose weight I have been pigging out something fierce I have gained about 15lbs!!! and I really wanna get rid of my stretch marks


]]> Waiting To Try baby_dreamz http://www.babyandbump.com/waiting-to-try/71980-have-decided.html http://www.babyandbump.com/waiting-to-try/71977-did-you-choose-your-baby-names.html Wed, 12 Nov 2008 18:07:25 GMT My first thread :happydance: How did you choose your baby names? Me and OH have been trying to agree on names but all of the names I like, he... My first thread :happydance:

How did you choose your baby names? Me and OH have been trying to agree on names but all of the names I like, he doesn't like and vice versa. My OH likes really fancy sounding names (a lot of them are Latin names) whereas I prefer more traditional names. How are we ever going to agree? I don't know what we're going to do when the time comes! ]]> Waiting To Try Kitkat_11am http://www.babyandbump.com/waiting-to-try/71977-did-you-choose-your-baby-names.html http://www.babyandbump.com/waiting-to-try/71931-hate.html Wed, 12 Nov 2008 15:31:33 GMT The witch is late. My period was supposed to start 2 days ago.

I hate when this happens b/c I know I can't be pregnant. This also screws my ovulation dates and everything.

I feel like my body is playing some cruel joke on me!!! :cry::cry: ]]> Waiting To Try honeybunch2k7 http://www.babyandbump.com/waiting-to-try/71931-hate.html http://www.babyandbump.com/waiting-to-try/71651-month-would-you-like-give-birth.html Tue, 11 Nov 2008 19:03:37 GMT Lol I'm talking in a totally stupid manner here. Coz we obviously can't choose when we can conceive and which month we can have a baby in.
But.. If you could, what month/season would you like to have a baby?
I want a winter baby, preferbly in february, on my birthday lmao. :) I love winter, maybe coz I was born in winter though... ]]> Waiting To Try princess_x0 http://www.babyandbump.com/waiting-to-try/71651-month-would-you-like-give-birth.html http://www.babyandbump.com/waiting-to-try/71481-another-newbie-joining-wtt-club.html Tue, 11 Nov 2008 11:24:31 GMT hello all,

I thought i'd finally introduce myself,
i'm 24, as is my OH. we both have fairly good careers and had th