Am I oversensitive or are people just insensitive full stop? - Page 3

Vestirse · Jan 22nd, 2009, 18:27 PM

This surpasses stupidity. This is downright cruel. What a friggin' bitch!!! Do you live in California? Can I come over and smack the shit out of her? People like this make me ashamed to call myself part of the human race!

diva4180 · Jan 22nd, 2009, 19:42 PM

That was incredibly mean of her

. I don't even know how I want to say what I want to say regarding both your co-worker and the client who left her kids at home, it makes me so furious and sick to my stomach. I'm sorry you had to deal with that, and I'm sorry you have to work with someone who is such a nasty b**** like her

wantababybump · Jan 22nd, 2009, 20:08 PM

wtf is wrong with people..seriously?! Those are the kinds of people that I would love to knock the eff out. Arghhh!!

HAYS · Jan 23rd, 2009, 08:31 AM

OMFG what a complete and utter twat!!!!!!!

I would have headbutted the bitch! feeling sorry for someone fortunate enough to have children,then leaves them at home why she swans off round the shops pinching stuff!!!!!!!!!!

Seriously wtf is going on in the world!!!

Nathyrra · Jan 23rd, 2009, 08:42 AM

It never ceases to amaze me how people think it is ok to say such things in the face of someone with the problems we girls have. I've not had anything productive or nice said to me either. Such bloody ignorance.

CurlySue · Jan 23rd, 2009, 12:49 PM

I am glad I am not the only one who thinks this was out of order. She was still going on about it today. Poor girl, she was saying, having to stand up in court when she obviously has a mental illness.

Really? Has she ever seen a psychiatrist? No. Has she ever seen a GP? Nope. Does she exhibit signs of depression? Not that I've seen. She can play this 'post natal depression' card all she likes but where's the evidence? Nowhere. Because she doesn't have it.

And, whether or not I have kids is irrelevant. I know when something is wrong. This was wrong. She was wrong. And so was Clare in singling me out as "the only person in the office without kids" - meaning I should not be anywhere near this case.

I wouldn't want the sodding case. And she can fuck off calling me "babe" and "darling" and asking me if I want to go out for drinks after work. In a word? No. Have to go home and work on the fact that I don't have a kid. Means I am inferior, it seems.

Vestirse · Jan 23rd, 2009, 13:43 PM

You are not inferior! As HAYS says and I agree, she's the complete and utter twat!

overcomer79 · Jan 23rd, 2009, 16:23 PM

This sounds similar to my current situation. Well, ok, not exactly. My DH and I had ttc for over 3 yrs and (didn't yet pursue the IVF or any FD) but got a BFP on Christmas. My sis in law has 2 children of her own and doesn't really take care of them. I was so angry when she concieved the second child because when I kept her first, there was a sore on his testicle the size of a pinhead and I got it to clear in a day just by regular diaper change. What does that tell you? Well, every since she found out that we were expecting, she has been saying things like "she's going to kill herself" and stuff like to keep me stressed out. I think she may be trying to make me loose the baby? I finally blocked her on IM b/c that is where she is saying this stuff.

Sometimes, you have to just let the ignorance of those stupid people leave you and know that you ARE RIGHT AND THAT PERSON IS STUPID AND WRONG!!

God will bless you all in your journies to ttc.

Jan 22nd, 2009, 18:27 PM	#21
Vestirse Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: Nerdville - Silicon Valley Posts: 5,588	This surpasses stupidity. This is downright cruel. What a friggin' bitch!!! Do you live in California? Can I come over and smack the shit out of her? People like this make me ashamed to call myself part of the human race!

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Jan 22nd, 2009, 19:42 PM	#22
diva4180 Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: USA Posts: 2,011	That was incredibly mean of her . I don't even know how I want to say what I want to say regarding both your co-worker and the client who left her kids at home, it makes me so furious and sick to my stomach. I'm sorry you had to deal with that, and I'm sorry you have to work with someone who is such a nasty b**** like her

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Jan 22nd, 2009, 20:08 PM	#23
wantababybump Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: Nova Scotia, Canada Posts: 3,067	wtf is wrong with people..seriously?! Those are the kinds of people that I would love to knock the eff out. Arghhh!!

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Jan 23rd, 2009, 08:31 AM	#24
HAYS Other Inactive Join Date: Oct 2007 Location: East Sussex Posts: 5,265	OMFG what a complete and utter twat!!!!!!! I would have headbutted the bitch! feeling sorry for someone fortunate enough to have children,then leaves them at home why she swans off round the shops pinching stuff!!!!!!!!!! Seriously wtf is going on in the world!!!

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Jan 23rd, 2009, 08:42 AM	#25
Nathyrra Pregnant (Expecting) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: Sachsen, Germany. Though I'm from Worcestershire, England. Posts: 1,201	It never ceases to amaze me how people think it is ok to say such things in the face of someone with the problems we girls have. I've not had anything productive or nice said to me either. Such bloody ignorance.

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Jan 23rd, 2009, 12:49 PM	#26
CurlySue Other Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: May 2008 Location: UK Posts: 1,992	I am glad I am not the only one who thinks this was out of order. She was still going on about it today. Poor girl, she was saying, having to stand up in court when she obviously has a mental illness. Really? Has she ever seen a psychiatrist? No. Has she ever seen a GP? Nope. Does she exhibit signs of depression? Not that I've seen. She can play this 'post natal depression' card all she likes but where's the evidence? Nowhere. Because she doesn't have it. And, whether or not I have kids is irrelevant. I know when something is wrong. This was wrong. She was wrong. And so was Clare in singling me out as "the only person in the office without kids" - meaning I should not be anywhere near this case. I wouldn't want the sodding case. And she can fuck off calling me "babe" and "darling" and asking me if I want to go out for drinks after work. In a word? No. Have to go home and work on the fact that I don't have a kid. Means I am inferior, it seems.

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Jan 23rd, 2009, 13:43 PM	#27
Vestirse Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: Nerdville - Silicon Valley Posts: 5,588	You are not inferior! As HAYS says and I agree, she's the complete and utter twat!

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Jan 23rd, 2009, 16:23 PM	#28
overcomer79 Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2009 Posts: 1,902	This sounds similar to my current situation. Well, ok, not exactly. My DH and I had ttc for over 3 yrs and (didn't yet pursue the IVF or any FD) but got a BFP on Christmas. My sis in law has 2 children of her own and doesn't really take care of them. I was so angry when she concieved the second child because when I kept her first, there was a sore on his testicle the size of a pinhead and I got it to clear in a day just by regular diaper change. What does that tell you? Well, every since she found out that we were expecting, she has been saying things like "she's going to kill herself" and stuff like to keep me stressed out. I think she may be trying to make me loose the baby? I finally blocked her on IM b/c that is where she is saying this stuff. Sometimes, you have to just let the ignorance of those stupid people leave you and know that you ARE RIGHT AND THAT PERSON IS STUPID AND WRONG!! God will bless you all in your journies to ttc.

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