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Old Jan 22nd, 2009, 15:07 PM   #11
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OUCH!!!!! what a bitch! How dare she make that comment to you! insensitive MUPPET! Plus I think she's got a bloody cheek not talking to you when it was her with the megamouth.com, she should be apologising.

As for the shoplifter, she should have her kids removed from her for leaving them home alone.

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Old Jan 22nd, 2009, 15:15 PM   #12
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Holy shit!!! That is so way off! Two things I can't believe came out of this chicks mouth...the part about how she feels sorry for this terrible terrible mother who would leave such young children at home alone...five minutes, eight hours...just HORRIBLE. For her to feel sorry for this mother just goes to show that this lady herself has some issues. Then, what she said to you....that is just plain WRONG. No way. I would have smacked her. I am so sorry you had to hear that. What a bitch!
Would love to smack her sometimes. Am sick of her lies and her superiority. Everyone at work knows she lies. She is famed for it. The minute she told us she had conceived with half a womb we looked it up. It's so rare that there is actually a news article about a woman who did the same. No prizes for guessing it wasn't Clare.

She is doing that whole "politically correct" thing. This woman MUST have post natal depression therefore fuck the kids, we MUST pity her. Well, I'm sorry, but I don't. Even a mother with post natal depression would not purposely neglect to tell the people holding her in custody that her kids have been alone for eight hours. Why didnt she do it? Because she was too busy looking out for herself.

"No," Clare said, "She did it because her head was all over the place. You've never been there."

I assured her I would never leave my child and she said "You don't know that."

Oh, I can safely say that I DO know that. Bitch. Seriously, I don't know why I am so wound up by this woman. I think I've just had enough of her.


 
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Old Jan 22nd, 2009, 16:34 PM   #13
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You are definiatly not being oversensitive, if I had heard about the shoplifting woman leaving her kids at home alone at that age I would hav gone off on one major rant and I would not care about any extenuating circumstances. And as for saying you don't know you would never leave your kids alone well sorry but I think we can catagorically say we wouldn't do that and anyone who could put their children's needs before their own would. If I did feel that my head was all over the place and I needed time out I would ensure my children were being well looked after and cared for by my DH or my parents first. Sheesh what a stupid idiotic woman! I feel wound up for you


 
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Old Jan 22nd, 2009, 16:39 PM   #14
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I think this woman needs to see a shrink...if you ask me!! Seems like SHE doesnt even know the truth from a lie! Im so sorry for you that you have to work with such an inconsiderate and RUDE person like her! As much as it hurts to hear someone like THIS FOOL say something like that to you, you just cant let people like this get to you. ("easier said than done", I know!) But they are absolutely clueless and are just out to hurt you. Dont let her know that you were upset or pissed. People like her feed off of stuff like that.......hurting people where it really hurts the most. Im so sorry Curly that you have to deal with an idiot like her.


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Old Jan 22nd, 2009, 16:44 PM   #15
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Oh and if I was there with you when she said that...I probably would have punched her in the face for you.....or ran her over with my bike!! LOL
(I thought this smilie was appropriate, dont you! )

Thought you could get a good laugh!


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Old Jan 22nd, 2009, 16:49 PM   #16
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[QUOTE=CurlySue;1426832 ...............She also claims she gave birth with half a womb. She has told me that she has had nine miscarriages. Then eight. Then four. Now it's five and she had a stillborn daughter. She told me it took her four years to conceive. Then she told me it took her three months. Now she is telling people she got pregnant the first time she ever had sex with her husband.

As you can see, this woman is a fantastic human being...[/QUOTE]

LOL WTF what an idiotic woman, if everyone knows she lies, cant you get your boss to get rid of her? Maybe you should tell your boss what she said...i.e. that she thinks that the woman leaving her kids alone for 8 hours while she was shoplifting is excusable and down to postnatal depression? You cannot say that she has PND unless it has been diagnosed by a doc or psychiatrist...as you said the woman is giggling on the phone and stealing which she probly did before she had her kids so that cant be an excuse! Not sure what job you do but Social services should definitley get involved and try and get the kids a safer home......thats exactly how baby P died.....how can these neglectful people be allowed to breed?

Sorry you had to hear insensitive comments from this woman at work esp when she knows you are having IVF


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Old Jan 22nd, 2009, 16:56 PM   #17
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To be fair, its our job to find a suitable defense for a person who has committed a crime but I have no excuse for her. Thank God she's not someone I have to speak to.

As for Clare, well, she is pathetic. It just made me so mad that she KNOWS what my husband and I are currently about to go through yet she still felt the need to get in a little dig about how I have no children. Yes, I know that. I'm painfully aware of that.

But, like someone else said, if my head WERE all over the place I would not leave my babies home alone to go out stealing. I'd make sure they were safe THEN I'd go out stealing.

Just kidding.

Bints, the lot of them.


 
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Old Jan 22nd, 2009, 18:03 PM   #18
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Curly Sue (((((HUGS))))))
Inconsiderate cow! she needs to be taken down a peg or six! Well done for keeping your temper! CAn u make an offical complaint? Might shut her up for a while!
Tracy xxxxxx


 
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Old Jan 22nd, 2009, 18:13 PM   #19
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what a stupid cow ... you did well not to lamp her one some people should really not be allowed to interact with others


 
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Old Jan 22nd, 2009, 18:22 PM   #20
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Wow, I am getting all worked up over this. Seriously, what is she thinking? How can she even justify that behavior? What she said was completely insensitive and rude! Ugh, I am so irritated with Claire. She's just as bad as the stupid shoplifting mother...


 
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