Is it just me???

JASMAK · Jan 22nd, 2009, 02:35 AM

Or does it seem that there is alot of replies to posts from people who really shouldn't be posting here (and some of those replies are inconsiderate). Just have been noticing it.

honey08 · Jan 22nd, 2009, 02:37 AM

well ive not posted in ere till now, but thought we cud post anywhere anyways?

Vestirse · Jan 22nd, 2009, 03:01 AM

What exactly is your definition of "really shouldn't be posting here"?

FJL · Jan 22nd, 2009, 05:08 AM

I haven't noticed anything but in saying that I haven't been doing much reading lately as I haven't had time, so mainly popping in the journal section.

I actually consider people posting pregnancy tickers (only refering to non LTTTC'ers) to be pretty rude. I would appreciate people having the courtesy of turning them off when posting in here. I know this isn't a 'rule' as such, but I would think that it would be common sense.

CareBear · Jan 22nd, 2009, 05:37 AM

I've noticed a one or two inconsiderate comments, one by a new person in a thread that came across very rude.

mer01 · Jan 22nd, 2009, 05:59 AM

i hope you dont mean me?

xx

littlemorag · Jan 22nd, 2009, 06:15 AM

I think it might have been me,

I am so sorry ladies, you are right, I forgot I was replying in a thread and not in a journal.

I certainly didnt mean to upset or offend.

I remember a thread when it was mentioned that some ladies while ttc for the first 3 months come to lttc and are perhaps insensitive by saying 'i am devastated i am not pg yet' etc.

I recognised that I was one of those people (although i didnt post in lttc) but now I am a little further on I can perhaps cope a little better with it.

However, I in no way am implying that it gets easier as time goes on and am aware that I am still at the start of my ttc journey.

Please accept my sincere apologies

Moragx

Tracie87 · Jan 22nd, 2009, 06:28 AM

i really cant say iv noticed anything lately.. but i havent done much reading.. im struggling to read as i lost my glasses...

Mynxie · Jan 22nd, 2009, 06:35 AM

truthfully I only read threads in here if they stick out in their titles and are on the index, or if I'm in the mood to be able to cope with LTTTC iykwim? I hold my hands up and say that I'm not coping well and haven't for a long time and that I don't think we'll ever have a sucessful pregnancy now. Sometimes I wonder why I come here but there's alot of lovely people here whose posts make me smile n stuff - and it's my safe haven iykwim?

Tracie87 · Jan 22nd, 2009, 06:40 AM

i no what you mean. its nice to have ppl come over for support and well wishes but it gets you down when you see all the pregnancy tickers.. ppl should turn them off when they come in here.
were very fragile ladies...

Big hug hunni
xxxxxxxxxx

Jan 22nd, 2009, 02:35 AM	#1
JASMAK Mum (Mom) BnB Elite Join Date: May 2008 Location: CANADA!!! Posts: 10,938	Is it just me??? Or does it seem that there is alot of replies to posts from people who really shouldn't be posting here (and some of those replies are inconsiderate). Just have been noticing it.

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Jan 22nd, 2009, 02:37 AM	#2
honey08 Pregnant (Expecting) BnB Spammer Elite Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: north yorkshire,uk Posts: 28,666	well ive not posted in ere till now, but thought we cud post anywhere anyways?

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Jan 22nd, 2009, 03:01 AM	#3
Vestirse Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: Nerdville - Silicon Valley Posts: 5,588	What exactly is your definition of "really shouldn't be posting here"?

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Jan 22nd, 2009, 05:08 AM	#4
FJL Other Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Apr 2007 Location: Australia Posts: 1,810	I haven't noticed anything but in saying that I haven't been doing much reading lately as I haven't had time, so mainly popping in the journal section. I actually consider people posting pregnancy tickers (only refering to non LTTTC'ers) to be pretty rude. I would appreciate people having the courtesy of turning them off when posting in here. I know this isn't a 'rule' as such, but I would think that it would be common sense.

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Jan 22nd, 2009, 05:37 AM	#5
CareBear Other BnB Addict Join Date: Apr 2008 Posts: 2,809	I've noticed a one or two inconsiderate comments, one by a new person in a thread that came across very rude.

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Jan 22nd, 2009, 05:59 AM	#6
mer01 Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: rotherham Posts: 931	i hope you dont mean me? xx

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Jan 22nd, 2009, 06:15 AM	#7
littlemorag Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: Ellon, Scotland Posts: 77	I think it might have been me, I am so sorry ladies, you are right, I forgot I was replying in a thread and not in a journal. I certainly didnt mean to upset or offend. I remember a thread when it was mentioned that some ladies while ttc for the first 3 months come to lttc and are perhaps insensitive by saying 'i am devastated i am not pg yet' etc. I recognised that I was one of those people (although i didnt post in lttc) but now I am a little further on I can perhaps cope a little better with it. However, I in no way am implying that it gets easier as time goes on and am aware that I am still at the start of my ttc journey. Please accept my sincere apologies Moragx

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Jan 22nd, 2009, 06:28 AM	#8
Tracie87 Mum (Mom) BnB Elite Join Date: May 2008 Location: In a pineapple Posts: 10,064	i really cant say iv noticed anything lately.. but i havent done much reading.. im struggling to read as i lost my glasses...

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Jan 22nd, 2009, 06:35 AM	#9
Mynxie Trying to conceive (TTC) BnB Addict Join Date: Jun 2007 Location: In a dungeon lol Posts: 5,954	truthfully I only read threads in here if they stick out in their titles and are on the index, or if I'm in the mood to be able to cope with LTTTC iykwim? I hold my hands up and say that I'm not coping well and haven't for a long time and that I don't think we'll ever have a sucessful pregnancy now. Sometimes I wonder why I come here but there's alot of lovely people here whose posts make me smile n stuff - and it's my safe haven iykwim?

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Jan 22nd, 2009, 06:40 AM	#10
Tracie87 Mum (Mom) BnB Elite Join Date: May 2008 Location: In a pineapple Posts: 10,064	i no what you mean. its nice to have ppl come over for support and well wishes but it gets you down when you see all the pregnancy tickers.. ppl should turn them off when they come in here. were very fragile ladies... Big hug hunni xxxxxxxxxx

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