I'm becoming obsessed again!!!

MissMonty · Jan 18th, 2009, 12:01 PM

I'm driving myself mad again with this whole TTC experience.

I was ok at the end of 2008, but now my holidays, Christmas and new year is over I don't feel I have anything to take my mind of my negative experience of TTC even for a few minutes!

I feel I need to act fast and make plans for 2009 before I go insane!!!!

jk28 · Jan 18th, 2009, 12:26 PM

I know what you mean... I being the new year with a positive outlook, (until someone tells me they're pg)!!!! I'm also trying to think of other things, if that's possible...as I live in Spain I've booked some flights back to UK to see family & friends, which is something to look forward to & think about other than ttc....Good luck with the plans, but I know how difficult it is to try & think of anything else!!

Love Jayne xx

Mazmos · Jan 18th, 2009, 13:23 PM

It's so hard not to get obsessed with the whole ttc thing - I am the same, and have started symptom spotting again - keep trying not to, but just can't help it

NeyNey · Jan 18th, 2009, 20:54 PM

I feel you.

I took quite a few months break after my last m'c but am now feeling the obsession creeping in, stocking up on OPK and HPT and all that kind of thing, it's starting to creep into my thoughts 24/7 again!!

Bexy · Jan 19th, 2009, 05:41 AM

Its impossible not to get obsessed when that elusive BFP never arrives. My months are split up in 2 weeks building up to ovulation and BD-ing like its going out of fashion followed by 2 weeks of symptom spotting and feeling every twinge/ stomach pain and wondering if thats the first sign...when in reality its probably the curry I ate the night before - grrrrr!

Good luck this month ladies!

hopeful4baby · Jan 21st, 2009, 07:04 AM

I'm with you on this one! Every month I'm telling myself I'm going to be cool about it and I am but inside secretly hoping and praying for it! 2nd half of cycle is just simply awful. I can feel AF in every cell of my body from day 18-20 and that means 10 days of pure misery! I can't help it. I simply hate it! But how can you help it?

FunnyBunny · Jan 21st, 2009, 15:09 PM

MMMEEEEEEEEE TOOOOOOOOO AAAAHHHHHHHHH the dreaded 2 week wait. I try so hard to relax but the obsession just creeps in day and day. Usually get spotting about 4 days before the

arrives and none so far so my head is totally in overdrive at the moment probably just for me to be a very disappointed gal this weekend. But it's this hope that keeps us going.

X

Jan 18th, 2009, 12:01 PM	#1
MissMonty Pregnant (Expecting) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: UK Posts: 1,193	I'm becoming obsessed again!!! I'm driving myself mad again with this whole TTC experience. I was ok at the end of 2008, but now my holidays, Christmas and new year is over I don't feel I have anything to take my mind of my negative experience of TTC even for a few minutes! I feel I need to act fast and make plans for 2009 before I go insane!!!!

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Jan 18th, 2009, 12:26 PM	#2
jk28 Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: Sep 2008 Posts: 630	I know what you mean... I being the new year with a positive outlook, (until someone tells me they're pg)!!!! I'm also trying to think of other things, if that's possible...as I live in Spain I've booked some flights back to UK to see family & friends, which is something to look forward to & think about other than ttc....Good luck with the plans, but I know how difficult it is to try & think of anything else!! Love Jayne xx

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Jan 18th, 2009, 13:23 PM	#3
Mazmos Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: West Midlands Posts: 322	It's so hard not to get obsessed with the whole ttc thing - I am the same, and have started symptom spotting again - keep trying not to, but just can't help it

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Jan 18th, 2009, 20:54 PM	#4
NeyNey Trying to conceive (TTC) BnB Addict Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: NSW, Australia Posts: 8,581	I feel you. I took quite a few months break after my last m'c but am now feeling the obsession creeping in, stocking up on OPK and HPT and all that kind of thing, it's starting to creep into my thoughts 24/7 again!!

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Jan 19th, 2009, 05:41 AM	#5
Bexy Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: London Posts: 360	Its impossible not to get obsessed when that elusive BFP never arrives. My months are split up in 2 weeks building up to ovulation and BD-ing like its going out of fashion followed by 2 weeks of symptom spotting and feeling every twinge/ stomach pain and wondering if thats the first sign...when in reality its probably the curry I ate the night before - grrrrr! Good luck this month ladies!

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Jan 21st, 2009, 07:04 AM	#6
hopeful4baby Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: Apr 2008 Posts: 228	I'm with you on this one! Every month I'm telling myself I'm going to be cool about it and I am but inside secretly hoping and praying for it! 2nd half of cycle is just simply awful. I can feel AF in every cell of my body from day 18-20 and that means 10 days of pure misery! I can't help it. I simply hate it! But how can you help it?

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Jan 21st, 2009, 15:09 PM	#7
FunnyBunny Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: Scotland Posts: 352	MMMEEEEEEEEE TOOOOOOOOO AAAAHHHHHHHHH the dreaded 2 week wait. I try so hard to relax but the obsession just creeps in day and day. Usually get spotting about 4 days before the arrives and none so far so my head is totally in overdrive at the moment probably just for me to be a very disappointed gal this weekend. But it's this hope that keeps us going. X

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