Is anyone esle dreading Xmas

FunnyBunny · Dec 21st, 2008, 09:28 AM

I'm so ba humbug this year about Xmas, in Feb we will have been TTC for 2 years and have had a chemical pg and MMC this year. Xmas is a time for the kiddies and we don't have a family of our own to share it with and to top it off AF is due on Xmas day and i can feel the

on her way already. There was only one xmas prezzie I was afer this year a

and it looks like I won't be getting my wish from santa.

PLEASE PLEASE MAKE

disappear! I WANT A

INSTEAD!!

CareBear · Dec 21st, 2008, 09:34 AM

I know how you feel I feel christmas has kinda snuck up on me but I've been able to push my feelings and thoughts to the back of my mind due to having my lap and dye last week. I'm determined to enjoy my time with my family have a few drinks and gear up to oing around new year eve! I'll keep my fingers crossed for you you never know you might get a nice surprise on christmas day or boxing day!

bonfloss · Dec 21st, 2008, 11:29 AM

You are not alone, last Christmas I thought that by this time we would be well on our way but life has not turned out how we wanted it to! Keep your chin up and hang in there.
xx

Bexy · Dec 22nd, 2008, 08:33 AM

Hey FunnyBunny!

I had exactly the same rant on a thread yesterday but must have overlooked yours!

We are in exactly the same boat - I feel so bah humbug too and the

is due Xmas Day so I will be such good fun...not!

Hopefully 2009 will be our year and all of us LTTTC'ers will be preggers by Xmas 09!!!

xxx

tansey · Dec 22nd, 2008, 14:09 PM

I love being with my family but i do feel more sad around Christmas - yesterday we all went on the Santa train and me and DF were in a carriage on our own and everyone was joking calling it the love carriage because we were just a couple with no kids. It was lovely to see my nephews excited but I felt that me and DF looked like saddos at our age with no kids. I even wanted to ask santa for a baby.

Brambletess · Dec 22nd, 2008, 15:28 PM

I think I am alright with Christmas, just seeing it as a break and an excuse to eat loads. Nothing to do with cute kids and happy families....I may have to put a ban on anything on television that involves babies though.

ellie · Dec 22nd, 2008, 16:03 PM

I'm not sure what I'm feeling about xmas really .... on one hand i'm looking forward to being off work, hanging out with OH and friends and family and going on holiday

But .... i had an mc last xmas day (great timing huh) we will be spending lots of time with two little nephews, and there will be loads of talk from parents (all in their 60's now) about 'xmas is for kids' and 'we only do xmas for the kids' etc etc etc, and i'm also dreading in case (although i've no real reason to think this!) there might be a big pg announcement from some member of the family ..... bah humbug from me too !
i hope we can all have a reasonably nice time over xmas and new year though ... and here's to

's to us all in 2009

NeyNey · Dec 22nd, 2008, 16:33 PM

I've been through too many Christmas while TTC to let it get to me now. I focus on having my family close to me. I'd love to have a baby for Christmas, but I can't let that get in the way of being thankful for the things I DO have.

Nathyrra · Dec 23rd, 2008, 06:33 AM

I thought it would bother me. It's been a stressful year, but I put up my little tree yesterday turned the lights on and watched my furbabies become amazed by the tinsle and it made me feel warm inside. lol, so I think I'll be ok. x

Dec 21st, 2008, 09:28 AM	#1
FunnyBunny Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: Scotland Posts: 352	Is anyone esle dreading Xmas I'm so ba humbug this year about Xmas, in Feb we will have been TTC for 2 years and have had a chemical pg and MMC this year. Xmas is a time for the kiddies and we don't have a family of our own to share it with and to top it off AF is due on Xmas day and i can feel the on her way already. There was only one xmas prezzie I was afer this year a and it looks like I won't be getting my wish from santa. PLEASE PLEASE MAKE disappear! I WANT A INSTEAD!!

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Dec 21st, 2008, 09:34 AM	#2
CareBear Other BnB Addict Join Date: Apr 2008 Posts: 2,809	I know how you feel I feel christmas has kinda snuck up on me but I've been able to push my feelings and thoughts to the back of my mind due to having my lap and dye last week. I'm determined to enjoy my time with my family have a few drinks and gear up to oing around new year eve! I'll keep my fingers crossed for you you never know you might get a nice surprise on christmas day or boxing day!

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Dec 21st, 2008, 11:29 AM	#3
bonfloss Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: Scotland Posts: 332	You are not alone, last Christmas I thought that by this time we would be well on our way but life has not turned out how we wanted it to! Keep your chin up and hang in there. xx

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Dec 22nd, 2008, 08:33 AM	#4
Bexy Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: London Posts: 360	Hey FunnyBunny! I had exactly the same rant on a thread yesterday but must have overlooked yours! We are in exactly the same boat - I feel so bah humbug too and the is due Xmas Day so I will be such good fun...not! Hopefully 2009 will be our year and all of us LTTTC'ers will be preggers by Xmas 09!!! xxx

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Dec 22nd, 2008, 14:09 PM	#5
tansey Other BnB Spammer Elite Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: Warwickshire Posts: 20,527	I love being with my family but i do feel more sad around Christmas - yesterday we all went on the Santa train and me and DF were in a carriage on our own and everyone was joking calling it the love carriage because we were just a couple with no kids. It was lovely to see my nephews excited but I felt that me and DF looked like saddos at our age with no kids. I even wanted to ask santa for a baby.

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Dec 22nd, 2008, 15:28 PM	#6
Brambletess Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Dec 2008 Location: Glastonbury Posts: 304	I think I am alright with Christmas, just seeing it as a break and an excuse to eat loads. Nothing to do with cute kids and happy families....I may have to put a ban on anything on television that involves babies though.

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Dec 22nd, 2008, 16:03 PM	#7
ellie Pregnant (Expecting) BnB Addict Join Date: Dec 2008 Location: south wales Posts: 3,818	I'm not sure what I'm feeling about xmas really .... on one hand i'm looking forward to being off work, hanging out with OH and friends and family and going on holiday But .... i had an mc last xmas day (great timing huh) we will be spending lots of time with two little nephews, and there will be loads of talk from parents (all in their 60's now) about 'xmas is for kids' and 'we only do xmas for the kids' etc etc etc, and i'm also dreading in case (although i've no real reason to think this!) there might be a big pg announcement from some member of the family ..... bah humbug from me too ! i hope we can all have a reasonably nice time over xmas and new year though ... and here's to 's to us all in 2009

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Dec 22nd, 2008, 16:33 PM	#8
NeyNey Trying to conceive (TTC) BnB Addict Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: NSW, Australia Posts: 8,581	I've been through too many Christmas while TTC to let it get to me now. I focus on having my family close to me. I'd love to have a baby for Christmas, but I can't let that get in the way of being thankful for the things I DO have.

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Dec 23rd, 2008, 06:33 AM	#9
Nathyrra Pregnant (Expecting) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: Sachsen, Germany. Though I'm from Worcestershire, England. Posts: 1,201	I thought it would bother me. It's been a stressful year, but I put up my little tree yesterday turned the lights on and watched my furbabies become amazed by the tinsle and it made me feel warm inside. lol, so I think I'll be ok. x

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