Imi

Its up to you hun, if you feel you would get better results going private then do so ...

Im sorry to hear your news hun
xxx

Helen

Did your GP send you to the hospital for your first test? If so, it might be worth going back to see him first and see what he suggests. At least you should be able to see him in the next couple of days. He might be able to speed things up for you or recommend a different (cheaper) clinic for the test.

wannabmum

The only problem with that is that we moved here in dec tried to get gp all they're books were full I had to write away to the NHS to get allocated somewhere but am still no further forward so basicly I have no gp, I have to deal everything direct with hospital and anytime I phone I'm made to feel like I'm inconvinence to them, I get brushed of as not a priority because of my age but what about the mental effect it has on us

xxx

Wobbles

I think if you can afford to go the private route its an option you both should strongly think about. NHS waiting times can sometimes be the most painful part of the journey

wannabmum

Private definatly will be the route we take just gotta go and find out our options, OH and I had a proper talk earlier I assured him how much I love him and that he is the most important thing to me I despartly want a family but one that he will b part of please all keep your fingers crossed that we can still have kids of our own just with help we are hoping this will b the case but have also talked about if we can'tand have agreed we would go with adoption in this case,he feels uncomfertable of the thought of me bn pg by a doner n I have decided if I can't have his babies then that is the best route, Dont get me wrong I still feel so strange,numb, I thought I had a problem never expected anything with him certainly not this fell asleep a bit ago just woke up think just because bn crying all day, we will get there just not sure how yet. Thank you all for your support don't know how I would've coped today without you.

Stacey xxx

Wobbles

There are a few options over time I'm sure sweetie, thoughts may change as time goes on. Take it easy if you can Each day as it comes.

Its good you can both go private & agree on things like this & more so that you both know nomatter what you love each other & that matters so much which will make you stronger I think

Here for you day or night x

miss maternal

my uncle couldnt produce so my aunty and uncle adopted two lovely children. I think it is a lovely idea to adopt. x

Amanda

OMG hunnie, I can't believe they told you this over the phone.

As the others have said though, you need to get a second opinion. If it was me, I would pay for a private test, but one referrred from a GP.

Good luck with whatever you choose to do.

FJL

I'm so sorry to hear your devestating results

I'll send you a pm now