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Aug 8th, 2008, 03:21 AM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | I totally agree Ney Ney. It is really nice to get to know and love the people who are going through what you are.  |
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Aug 8th, 2008, 05:23 AM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | I agree with you Miel and Neyney.
We are on here more often for moral support, and we should enjoy being in each other's company while it lasts, because I'm hoping little by little, we will all be meeting over at the first tri forum to share our pregnancy experiences!!!  |
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Aug 8th, 2008, 11:25 AM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | i know what you mean....i feel as if i'm being left behind......
one of my original buddys got her bfp just a week before me.....i sadly had a mc and she is now in the third trimester....
i am really happy for her, though i am often sad and envious....
fingers crossed that everyone gets their bfps soon......  |
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Aug 8th, 2008, 11:31 AM
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Aug 8th, 2008, 12:36 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | I feel the same. I have friends who went through ttc, pg and even have lo's now but the ones sho still keep in contact i dont feel jealous of. i know their journeys and what theyve been through. |
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Aug 8th, 2008, 15:36 PM
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| Few months back I would feel envious and very sad when I saw some ladies in BFP section I talked to before, but now I'm looking at it differently. It fills me with hope. If it happened to me, it has to happen to me too.  ) | | | | Status: Offline
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Aug 8th, 2008, 16:38 PM
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| Sometimes I feel this way. You give people support for the time that they need it and the minute they no longer need it they disappear, never to be heard from again. Like we have served a purpose and are no longer on their wavelength.
I realise that is not how it is but, sometimes it feels that way. |
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Aug 8th, 2008, 20:04 PM
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| Yeah I think we all feel a bit like that from time to time, but I have met so many wonderful women on here who have given me so much invaluable advice. For that I will be eternaly grateful. |
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Aug 10th, 2008, 10:45 AM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | On this board am still kind of new, but on my other board which I no longer use the TTC bit on - there are people who I started out with who are on their second child now  it's hard to not lose contact, I suppose it's hard for them too as they might not want to be "rubbing your nose in it" all the while.
I saw/see some about on the general boards on my other forum but that's all now. It is kinda sad, and also sad knowing that when I eventually am in their position, there will be people left behind feeling the same, despite our best intentions.
I think it's just natural progression. We all have friends who help us through different stages of our life and sometimes we take them with us, sometimes we leave them behind. |
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Aug 11th, 2008, 07:25 AM
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| I'm always popping in wishing every one luck and offering my support and advice...
Maybe some of the pregnant ladies don't want to rub it in your face. I know I feel like that sometimes. | | | | Status: Offline
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