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Jul 30th, 2008, 06:51 AM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | Goodbye ladies - my DH wants a divorce
I don't know what to say. He just said he hates me and I disgust him and that he's been very unhappy with me for a long time. He said he doesn't want to be with me anymore. I want to die. I really, really want to die. I wish I could kill myself but I can't. I hope I get cancer that'll kill me. Or anything else that will kill me. My life is hell. I've never believed in God and this just proves my point... There is no "God."
I don't think I'll log in again. Everything is futile.
I just wanted to say goodbye. During my short time here, I really liked all the ladies I met, and you're all really great.
I gues this is it... |
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Jul 30th, 2008, 07:14 AM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | Holy shit, I don't really know what to say to you right now...I am SO sorry that this has happened to you. Did you know that he felt this way (in any sense at all) prior to this big bombshell he dropped on you?
For him to say those things to you is bloody awful, you're none of those awful things. I know nothing I can say can make your pain go away but I really hope that you find the strength to get through this (with the help of friends and family) and see yourself for the beautiful and wonderful person that you are.
I am ALWAYS here if you need to talk.
Please try and get some counselling hun, getting through something like this on your own would be near impossible.
I am so sorry sweety  |
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Jul 30th, 2008, 07:18 AM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | Honey please dont talk like that!! I know this is hard, but life is more precious than that. He is obviously stupid for not seeing what he is giving up you deserve sooo much better. Remember we are ALWAYS here if you need someone to talk to. |
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Jul 30th, 2008, 07:24 AM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  |  Im so sorry hun.... Please take care of yourself.... |
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Jul 30th, 2008, 08:21 AM
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| Oh dear God, what a thing to say. What things to say. There are ways of telling a person you no longer love them. What he said may just have shown why you need to be with someone who appreciates you more
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Jul 30th, 2008, 08:28 AM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | sweetie pm if you need
you know where you can reach me |
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Jul 30th, 2008, 08:56 AM
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Jul 30th, 2008, 09:02 AM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | Oh Sweetheart I'm so very sorry for you  I'm not really sure what to say. Pls feel free to pm if you need |
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Jul 30th, 2008, 09:07 AM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | really sorry sweet heart |
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Jul 30th, 2008, 09:33 AM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  |  WTF!!!! He is a complete asshole for saying things like that to you.
Hun - never wish cancer on yourself - it is a nasty disease and no-one deserves it - life is too precious. The best way to get on with your life is to be strong, and to meet a lovely young man who will appreciate and love you the way you deserve to be loved and treated.
I really hope you can be strong through this Hun. I wish you all the good fortune in the world
Maz xxx |
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