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Jul 28th, 2008, 18:49 PM
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Hi Ladies -
Tonight I am flying out to Fairbanks and I will be offline for a week but I have something on my mind and I just can't shake it. (Sorry if I come off as whining.)
Is posting here pointless for me? Honestly... I joined the board in January and I still have yet to even ovulate. I mean, I have a bit of time to get hopeful on my meds but then I have an ultrasound and no folicle big enough for O. Then I have to wait till cd34, take a preggo test with doctor and then take Progesterone to jump start the cycle again.
When it is all said and done, I have about 12-14 days of hopefulness every 50 days or so. It is frustrating. It is so hard to see people having two cycles to my one. It is hard to see people getting  s when I can not even O.
Stupid people who mean well always tell me, "I will carry your baby for you." It takes everything in me not to say, "Look Bitch, it is pretty hard when I am not even able to make a proper egg!" Just makes me want to kick some ass, you know?
I am not really sure why I am even posting this but I just wonder if people even care that I am here. I do not feel like a useful resource and these days I have very few questions about what I am going through. I don't know...
I love you guys and that is why I am here. I guess I am just a bit frustrated these days. 9+ years is way too long of TTC. |
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Jul 28th, 2008, 18:54 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | Oh hun, I am so sorry for your struggle. I cannot even imagine what you are going through.
I understand the stupid comments I get them all the time - these people think they mean well but actually make us feel worse.
I just wanted to let you know that I am thinking of you and hoping you get your sticky bean V SOON.
Love and  
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Jul 28th, 2008, 19:06 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | It is NOT pointless for you to post on here. Everyone needs an outlet for their feelings when having such difficulty trying to conceive. |
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Jul 28th, 2008, 19:58 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | Hopefully being able to vent here will help you feel better. Keep in mind that ovulation problems can be fixed! There is still technology out there that can help you. Try and keep your spirits up for your trip and don't loose hope. Extra for you and I hope you feel better. |
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Jul 28th, 2008, 20:00 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | I don't think it is pointless, but if it is too hard on you I totally understand. I wish you all the  in the world... |
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Jul 28th, 2008, 20:07 PM
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| The title of this thread is Long Term TTC and Assisted Conception.
You are currently embarking upon assisted conception, ergo this is the board for you.
Worry not. It's all good. |
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Jul 28th, 2008, 20:18 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | I care that youre here. you understand me like alot of other rl people dont |
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Jul 28th, 2008, 20:18 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | Sorry, Ladies. I did not want to sound like I was leaving BnB or anything because I am not. I love his place. It is my internet home. LOL 
I was just kind of just venting my feelings. I am not even all  about it. I am just  , you know?
I love you ladies and thanks for the support. |
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Jul 28th, 2008, 20:20 PM
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Originally Posted by Arcanegirl  I care that youre here. you understand me like alot of other rl people dont |
That was so sweet. It really meant a lot to me. (I wish we did not live half a world away from each other!) |
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