i'd demand to see her qualifications - that is absolutely appalling!
when i plucked up the courage to go to the docs after my mc (3 months after), she was so wonderful.....even gave me a hug, and asked me to go back in October if still no news....
i'm sorry that you had this experience, i'm sure that not all doctors are like this.....like any other profession, i guess that one nasty person is all that it takes to give the others a bad name....
