Fjl, wannabe - I reckon you should print this out, laminate and shove it up their arses!!!!
I am disgusted on your behalf
People just don't think and what they may feel is a small trivial insignificant thing, comment, look etc can bring your world crashing down.
helen, thanks for posting that, it's good to know that someone has been through this and come out the other side and still ( relatively!) sane - I hope you#ll still be around when my time comes in 2009 to post this again
