hubby says he is not bothered either way about ahving a baby which i have known from the start, he has gone along with everything as he wants the treatment to help me. We are just arguing as he cant perform under pressure, he asked me not to tell him that we need to bd so after 4 days of no bd (im on nights) ive attempted to have a 'cuddle' without mentioning anything and again im puttng him under pressure. He is very supportive but hasnt got a clue. I have said I am not gonna take the clomid next time and he has gone mad saying we need to carry on and not to be so negative. I am struggling!

Don't give up yet! I was gonna give up after round two and they told me I didn't 'O' and that's when I got my BFP. I even called the adoption agency (after our LAST home study) and told them we'd decided to wait a few years before going any further. If you're both really stressed maybe you could go away for a few nights when you're supposed to be BDing, that might help some...even if it's just to a nice hotel in the same town you live in.