Mrs impatient!

MummyIwanabe · Mar 12th, 2010, 08:16 AM

Waiting for my consultation next week and I can't help but feel a bit negative about everything at the moment.

So many ladies have had such good results with ICSI treatment which is fantastic and I can't help but read and think wow such success rates someone's gota be in the negative bit where it doesn't work!

I'm so nervous whether it will work for us. I know I have to be positive and some days I do feel I am. I know at 25 age is on my side, I don't know if it really makes that much difference tho.

Feels like time is standing still for us at the moment! I'm dying to crack on with it and I think that's why I'm starting to feel anxious about it as I'm sat here waiting to start and reading others fantastic stories which is so great to see and hear but fills me with apprehension too!

Does anyone else feel like this?

BigFoot1980 · Mar 12th, 2010, 09:11 AM

Hun I am feeling exactly like this. Yesterday I was looking at success rates and I kept thinking some one has to be the not successful ones.
But we got to keep positive and strong. Ur really close to ur BFP so don't doubt it. U will get there.

Loads of Luck!

annmc30 · Mar 12th, 2010, 10:15 AM

i was like that to, even worse after getting turned down on the nhs, then i had the appeal 2 go through which tuck 6months but then when we won it we where so happy, didnt take us long 2 get things started but said il not build my hopes up if its ment to be it will happen

MummyIwanabe · Mar 12th, 2010, 10:38 AM

Thanks bigfoot and annmc. We're not far away now! The success stories are really encouraging so here's hoping we're more of the lucky ones that get our BFP's soon!!!

It's really good to hear that I'm not the only one that is feeling like this!

xx

jojoD · Mar 13th, 2010, 08:43 AM

I had the exact same feelings that you ladies are having now. The more BFPs that I congratulated led to mixed feelings. On one hand youre delighted for that person and it gives you hope that treatment can be successful against the odds.

Then on the other hand you think oh no far too many BFPs, bound to be a negative soon and it will be me. That's exactly what I thought. But you know what I was wrong. I think right before treatment starts can be a really anxious time and each day feels like a lifetime.

Keep your chins up and stay positive.

flower18 · Mar 13th, 2010, 09:03 AM

I feel the same way... we're waiting to have our appt with the fertility doctor to start the IVF process...I have a roller coaster of emotions....You just gotta lean on your friends, loved ones and most important your hubby...i hope all the best for you... when are you starting ICSI? I'm hoping to start IVF in May/June...we'll see...I'm tired of waiting though, uggghhh!!

MummyIwanabe · Mar 13th, 2010, 10:35 AM

Thanks JoJo and I hope you're feeling ok and spotting now stopped.

Flower18 - I'm hoping to start down reg at end of this month but have yet to see what protocol im on so not sure yet. Will let you know on Thursday hehe!

DragonMummy · Mar 14th, 2010, 11:35 AM

Best of luck to you mummy - fingers crossed and

aplenty...

ineedaseed · Mar 14th, 2010, 12:12 PM

Awww good luck Hun XX

Mar 12th, 2010, 08:16 AM	#1
MummyIwanabe Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Feb 2010 Posts: 2,554	Mrs impatient! Waiting for my consultation next week and I can't help but feel a bit negative about everything at the moment. So many ladies have had such good results with ICSI treatment which is fantastic and I can't help but read and think wow such success rates someone's gota be in the negative bit where it doesn't work! I'm so nervous whether it will work for us. I know I have to be positive and some days I do feel I am. I know at 25 age is on my side, I don't know if it really makes that much difference tho. Feels like time is standing still for us at the moment! I'm dying to crack on with it and I think that's why I'm starting to feel anxious about it as I'm sat here waiting to start and reading others fantastic stories which is so great to see and hear but fills me with apprehension too! Does anyone else feel like this?

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Mar 12th, 2010, 09:11 AM	#2
BigFoot1980 Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2008 Posts: 817	Hun I am feeling exactly like this. Yesterday I was looking at success rates and I kept thinking some one has to be the not successful ones. But we got to keep positive and strong. Ur really close to ur BFP so don't doubt it. U will get there. Loads of Luck!

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Mar 12th, 2010, 10:15 AM	#3
annmc30 Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: north east of england Posts: 759	i was like that to, even worse after getting turned down on the nhs, then i had the appeal 2 go through which tuck 6months but then when we won it we where so happy, didnt take us long 2 get things started but said il not build my hopes up if its ment to be it will happen

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Mar 12th, 2010, 10:38 AM	#4
MummyIwanabe Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Feb 2010 Posts: 2,554	Thanks bigfoot and annmc. We're not far away now! The success stories are really encouraging so here's hoping we're more of the lucky ones that get our BFP's soon!!! It's really good to hear that I'm not the only one that is feeling like this! xx

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Mar 13th, 2010, 08:43 AM	#5
jojoD Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jul 2009 Location: Northern Ireland Posts: 417	I had the exact same feelings that you ladies are having now. The more BFPs that I congratulated led to mixed feelings. On one hand youre delighted for that person and it gives you hope that treatment can be successful against the odds. Then on the other hand you think oh no far too many BFPs, bound to be a negative soon and it will be me. That's exactly what I thought. But you know what I was wrong. I think right before treatment starts can be a really anxious time and each day feels like a lifetime. Keep your chins up and stay positive.

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Mar 13th, 2010, 09:03 AM	#6
flower18 Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: Apr 2009 Location: Canada Posts: 45	I feel the same way... we're waiting to have our appt with the fertility doctor to start the IVF process...I have a roller coaster of emotions....You just gotta lean on your friends, loved ones and most important your hubby...i hope all the best for you... when are you starting ICSI? I'm hoping to start IVF in May/June...we'll see...I'm tired of waiting though, uggghhh!!

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Mar 13th, 2010, 10:35 AM	#7
MummyIwanabe Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Feb 2010 Posts: 2,554	Thanks JoJo and I hope you're feeling ok and spotting now stopped. Flower18 - I'm hoping to start down reg at end of this month but have yet to see what protocol im on so not sure yet. Will let you know on Thursday hehe!

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Mar 14th, 2010, 11:35 AM	#8
DragonMummy Mum (Mom) BnB Elite Join Date: May 2009 Location: Surrey/Hampshire border Posts: 19,232	Best of luck to you mummy - fingers crossed and aplenty...

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Mar 14th, 2010, 12:12 PM	#9
ineedaseed Trying to conceive (TTC) BnB Elite Join Date: Apr 2009 Location: middlesex, UK Posts: 18,120	Awww good luck Hun XX

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