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Old 27-03-2008, 20:51 PM   #1
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Does anyone else feel this???


Difficult to explain, so reckon its best just to say how it is i guess....
after so long ttc, does anyone else feel sometimes they wanna avoid sex in order to avoid another BFN??? Does that make sense??? At least if i get a BFN, i can say it's because we didnt B/D, as opposed to, another month of trying everything and getting bugger all.....

Feeling abit negative this week, and really giving up the 'fight' as i just dont think children will ever be part of our lives

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Old 27-03-2008, 21:24 PM   #2
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Hi, yes i know exactly how you feel, i am constantly avoiding doing it for the fact i cant handle the let down when AF arrives each month and even worse than that when i am actually BDing i am constantly thinking i dont know why we are bothering it never works anyway
maybe thats a bit harsh but you cant help the way you feel can you?
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Old 27-03-2008, 22:28 PM   #3
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Hi, I feel the same too at times! I try and stay positive but it is hard when the arrives month after month!! My sex drive has never been lower than it is right now and i also just think whats the point!! Try and stay positive girls, I wish you all lots and lots of baby I've got my fingers crossed that we all get our much deserved soon!!
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i'm sooooo pleased its not just me! And yup - can totally relate to the low sex drive......

grrrr....

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Old 28-03-2008, 16:33 PM   #5
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I know exactly you you girls mean. Every time AF arrives, its so depressing. Then once she's packed her bags and gone, I'm full of positivity and hope that this month will be the one. We start off our BDing full of energy and enthusiasm, then after a few days, its like : 'Oh God, here we go again... Will you hurry up and finish? Are you nearly done?' It's terrible the way ttc totally exhausts us.

But having said that, I am full of hope that this month will be the one ... only ten more lonnnggggg slowwwww days to go til testing time. Bring it on...

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Yep, i'm feeling you *nods*
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I thought i waas the only one who felt that way....its so strange the things that go through our minds!!
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hey girls dont give up i was trying for 17 months then got put on clomid and got pg after 3 months i know its hell trying and u just wanna scream some thimes but u will make a baby soon im sure good luck to you all xxxxxxxxxxx
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